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Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by lloyds(m): 12:19am On Oct 14, 2019 |
chronique: Bros or madam, calm down. It's a one sides story you've heard. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by chudez0147(m): 12:19am On Oct 14, 2019 |
setobaba:I don't pray to meet a female like you . What if she marries another man and same thing happens , she should also leave that one before her chances of getting another lowers . Clap for yourself. 11 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 12:20am On Oct 14, 2019 |
LOL, this must have bn very interesting to read but page 9 is just too far away to give any sort of input. Pele OP. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Kokaine(m): 12:21am On Oct 14, 2019 |
franchasng:na wa oh This marriage of a thing is very difficult. When I see issues like this it makes me want to marry a white woman 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by chudez0147(m): 12:23am On Oct 14, 2019 |
LadySarah:Well said. But we also need to hear from the husband. Some women can do anything just to get attention. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by cmikel: 12:28am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: your problem is that you dont accept anything he says but to argue and argue , by the time you start accepting your problem will be half solved . . .. . . . .. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 12:29am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Heheheeee...I laugh in spintcerhood. One of my pastors would say, if you're not ready for nonsense, don't get married. The kind of men we have these days are boys. as in boyoyo not real men like our grandfather's ( cos some of our fathers too acted childishly). Me I don talk am...I'm not going to marry for the sake of it. The man has to respect me till good old age cos I can't bear someone making it look like its all about him... When a man starts behaving the way your hubby is doing, there's a small girl involved especially now that you have a baby and prolly the small girl still dey give am knock for head, he'll now feel its because of you the girl no gree. Just package yourself now when you still be like human being, waka go front and use your life do better thing but dont remarry or flirt. Keep yourself and serve God. When he comes back to his senses, let him work hard again to get you back and on one condition... he must go for test, wait another 3 months and do a confirmation test before you go back to him. Otherwise this man will turn you to mumu and dump you las las. Men matter tire person. Just watching them in 3D these days.� 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by solamath(m): 12:29am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Seek help. This could be the beginning of insanity. Check well and thank me later. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by midnighter(f): 12:29am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Kokaine: Lol nwanyi ocha get their own problem if you dont know...every time you have a long phonecall with your brother she will be looking at you in your face and dont even try sending anybody any money at all at all 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by MiztaYouneek(m): 12:38am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: To be honest, its a very sad story you wrote if we are to look at things the way you have stated. But from a very normal perspective, you might also have a problem which is pushing your husband away from you. I believe you both dated for a while before marriage so you should have seen certain things before going into the marriage but ignored. When you say you both argue a lot honestly that is questionable as well and points a finger to you as an issue because some men don't like when their wives talk back at them especially in a disrespectful manner. So its quite obvious you argue much with him and that might be one of the trigger points why he always want you to leave. Him telling you that you add no value to him somehow shows that you maybe do nothing to really spice up the relationship between you both at home. Its really deep when a man says that because it means you bore him a lot and at the end you argue with him a lot. These things will push him away gradually and trust me, you thinking you will find happiness somewhere else will shock you and destroy you more because you will only see that happy moment for a while because that thing you have not been able to change about yourself that is pushing your husband away will still push any other person away from you maybe after they have gotten what they want from you and you might end up regretting why you ever left your marriage instead working on it and stop accusing your husband of being at fault. I can't type much but I hope you build yourself properly to fix your marriage than to break your home expecting to fine happiness somewhere else. Its very rare to see any responsible man now that will with an ex wife very serious. 6 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 12:43am On Oct 14, 2019 |
AntiBrutus: No be small thing oh. This "leave my house line" has been over flogged. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by sowilli: 12:47am On Oct 14, 2019 |
You are either married to a “boy” or someone who has regrets having married you. Obviously, he is expectant of somethings from you which you have been unable to provide . I wouldn’t know the things he is expecting but I have been in this kind of situation - btw I am guy. That relationship never worked because there was no way she would become the woman I want instead I ought to love the woman she becomes. I made the decision not to make the same mistake but to love the woman my partner becomes, not to change or expect her to meet some standards. It has worked for me. Please have a deep discussion with him and let him understand he can only love the woman you are and will become not the one he wants you be. Tell him to love your weaknesses and imperfection and not your strengths. This way you can grow together. As long as he keeps looking at those weaknesses, he will never see value. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Olafemiwa: 12:53am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Leave him and move to my house, I will treat you like a queen. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by 9tailskid: 12:53am On Oct 14, 2019 |
elektra:I think the movie "Fireproof" takes care of the menfolk. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by princessayesha(f): 12:54am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat:It looks like he loves you. He is just troublesome. You have to scare him. When next he asks you to leave leave the kids for him and disappear. Go to a place where he wouldnt expect you to be. Dont pick his calls. Stay for like one month and ask your mum n sisters not to help him with the kids. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by saajus: 12:55am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Take it easy, you guys are just knowing each other. The first 5yrs of any marriage are always rough. 2 people coming from different backgrounds. Learn how both of you can settle fight without involving family, it will help your marriage growing process. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by lloyds(m): 12:56am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Olafemiwa: Beware, kidnapper spotted. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by spyglaxx: 12:58am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Kokaine: Don't ever try it except you want to be an houseboy for life. You should come and ask my brother. The only viable option is to marry somebody you can build and teach. The process of the building will keep you focused and busy for life, that is only if you know how to build. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by enemyofprogress: 12:59am On Oct 14, 2019 |
All I can say is that I'm available, when next he asks you to pack out of his house, do not only pack out of his his house, also pack out of his life and come into my life |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by shamecurls(m): 12:59am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Leave 5he marriage It can never work You are of no value to him. Bitter truth |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by enemyofprogress: 1:00am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Kokaine:they are the worst 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by enemyofprogress: 1:01am On Oct 14, 2019 |
saajus:the only reasonable advice so far 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 1:01am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Japa 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Luckysbab: 1:02am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: Speak with a qualified Muslim psychologist. Please don't go the extreme and lose your way and seen. We all have our own trials. Allah didn't promise us it will all be rosy. Pray for wisdom and patience for your husband. Allah is capable over all things. (Edited this space) If you still need to talk or anything else, feel free to mention me. I could try and get some other female personnel that I can't immediately get their contacts now. I sincerely wish you and your family well. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by 1Sharon(f): 1:08am On Oct 14, 2019 |
This is why you should get your own shittt. So no stupid guy can tell you to go packing. Every woman needs to be financially SECURE. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Nobody: 1:14am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Zhuhilat: This is a spiritual problem. Take it to God in prayer 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by TYglobal: 1:21am On Oct 14, 2019 |
The only issue with your husband is pride and that most difficult trait to fix in any human, he so full of himself and can't appreciate people around him and I put it to you that you saw the signs small small before you guys got married, study his relationship with his friends and family and you'll see the signs everywhere. Once I notice overblown pride in a man I intend to date , I immediately run away. Imagine quarrelling because of foodstuff , something he should be grateful for. It's your choice though, deal with it or leave him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by toaterry(m): 1:24am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Listen to one of Benson Idahisa's messages. "how to win a war without fighting"... You will thank God. |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Sunsh04(f): 1:26am On Oct 14, 2019 |
elektra:watch fireproof |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by Cowmilk(m): 1:28am On Oct 14, 2019 |
omonikiba:@ Op I hope u read this post This the most matured advice ve read so far.. More importantly from a married woman who has been in the business of marriage ..u will be surprised most of the comments here on NL are from under 18s..so u just need to filter out some advice Arguements now and then are unavoidable.. Learn to be quiet or just walk away from the scene atimes U are still quite young.. Don't ever make the mistake of looking outside that will ruin u completely.. Believe me Well except u are divorced All the best 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by toprealman: 1:29am On Oct 14, 2019 |
All those telling her to make it work should calm down. She got married to a boy who for some strange reasons refused to transition into a man. Handling such is not as easy as you guys make it sound. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Always Tells Me To Leave His House During Quarrel by needful: 1:33am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Dpaulie: Hear ur silly self. So because she endured ur silly shit, it's now a ground for other women to endure such an abusive relationship. You aren't even shameful to utter this type of gibberish. Spit 6 Likes 2 Shares |
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