MiztaYouneek:


Now you are speaking from your own very obvious good way of overcoming such situation. How many other Nigerians can do same when they don't even have a charge and bail not to talk about a good lawyer.

Even with all this you have said, I will advice you just keep thanking God you haven't had any bad experience with the police or military because there are situations were your good lawyers like you said will only come to your rescue after the damage has been done and after you have stayed almost a week inside police cell before they bail you. Even those your lawyers will be the ones to advice you on how to always respect yourself in certain matters.

From the way you sound, I know that police has not changed matters for you before and you have probably not been in a police cell before so please pray you never experience such. In Nigeria that I know, if police really mean you whether you know your right or not, or you have good lawyers, they will surprise you to the point that even though your lawyers can help, the frustration alone will make them tell you to avoid such situation next time. And that's probably after you have counted some good days in cell.

Again fear induced thinking



You need to reaibrate your thoughts thinking factory. To do this, tell yourself each time I see the fear above or before anything else, it's the fear co dktioning your mental faculty. Try to have balanced thoughtlife. At the moment, you imagine and believe only the worst of things will happen to you and not good. It's not good bro. Bad mental posturing. Get married first before you embrace the fear of conception. Have a child first before thinking if you'll be able to provide good training. Rent the shop first before you think how the customers will come. Don't let fear ruin you subjecting you to have fearful thoughts. It's your mind not the system or people. It's you

pacespot:


Stop blaming the system for everything, who are the people occupying the system, are they not Nigerians like you? You will be surprised other hospitals might have responded to your issue more friendly. Most of these issues are caused by individuals, their characters and sentiments. The problem is that we have good people and bad people roaming on the same land called Nigeria.

The work of the government is to make and execute laws and policies that are favourable to the masses. That is governance. Without the execution of laws a society becomes lawless. Leaving individuals to behave the way they want.
This is where we blame the system. The police and most hospitals should not be allowed to behave the way the wish. Their should be consequences for any action that doesn't grow the society.

healthserve:




Again fear induced thinking



You need to reaibrate your thoughts thinking factory. To do this, tell yourself each time I see the fear above or before anything else, it's the fear co dktioning your mental faculty. Try to have balanced thoughtlife. At the moment, you imagine and believe only the worst of things will happen to you and not good. It's not good bro. Bad mental posturing. Get married first before you embrace the fear of conception. Have a child first before thinking if you'll be able to provide good training. Rent the shop first before you think how the customers will come. Don't let fear ruin you subjecting you to have fearful thoughts. It's your mind not the system or people. It's you

This has nothing to do with fear. There is a difference between fear and wisdom. You can think of it as fear in your own way of life, but in another mans way of life, its his own wisdom.

Now will anyone punish another for not helping? No.
But some mentality will its wickedness while others like you call it fear.

Why would someone with wisdom choose to do something that might bring up something not necessary and go through the stress of proving otherwise, when you could have easily avoided it without any stress or explaining anything to no one. Let God/Allah or whatever you believe in be the judge of your action.

MiztaYouneek:


This has nothing to do with fear. There is a difference between fear and wisdom. You can think of it as fear in your own way of life, but in another mans way of life, its his own wisdom.

Now will anyone punish another for not helping? No.
But some mentality will its wickedness while others like you call it fear.

Why would someone with wisdom choose to do something that might bring up something not necessary and go through the stress of proving otherwise, when you could have easily avoided it without any stress or explaining anything to no one. Let God/Allah or whatever you believe in be the judge of your action.

Wisdom is moving Inspite of obstacles Fear is making up reasons not to take action

Nice one from our brother that really the character of EBIRA PEOPLE FROM KOGI STATE

healthserve:




Wisdom is moving Inspite of obstacles Fear is making up reasons not to take action

Now you are talking. I choose wisdom all the time (moving ahead inspite of any obstacles... Be it something that will make people think its fear, or something that will lead to stories that touches, or something that I leave God to judge. All of it is based on the wisdom to keep moving my way).

After everything, you are back on same page with me. F...k fear, choose wisdom.

Goldencheese:
Good-spirited Nigerian. God bless you!

wait until the police blame him.

healthserve:
Nigerians and the attitude of walking away from wounded victims.

It still beffales my imagination why we continue to behave this way. If you won't get them in your car.

Do some good, make arrangement for public transport drop cash but don't be inactive in times of people's needs. Let's act sane and restore humanity to existence abeg.


The attitude of gather to look or snap pictures when need arises is inhumane, animalistic and irritating



I was passing by an accident scene and saw MY FELLOW NIGERIANS taking pictures no help. It wasn't till I reached six buildings away I realised no one helped. I had to turn back perform medical assistance to this guy whose entire frontal face fell of exposing his brains. With blood gushing uncontrollably. Nigerians brought out phone to take pictures. It took the entire day an event that ended 9pm but the guy lived. Thesedays when he's pallys see me around the hood they stand up to greet in ways that humble me


I learnt he was the breadwinner of his family. D the family would have crushed without him. On ntw, he breathed his final breather as he fainted the moment I had him dropped on the hospital bed. I got to meet with his family and friends. The doctors said if he arrived ten minutes beyond when he got in, he would have died. Imagine. And people would bring out phones to snap pictures.




Let's act right abeg

..my brother na Nigerian police and the judiciary cause am..imagine rescuing and accident victim with ur car n he/she didn't survive dem doctors go call police for u n d next thing na to lock u for cell d next morning u will see urself in court and jail u will find urself just for being kindhearted

nick50:
..my brother na Nigerian police and the judiciary cause am..imagine rescuing and accident victim with ur car n he/she didn't survive dem doctors go call police for u n d next thing na to lock u for cell d next morning u will see urself in court and jail u will find urself just for being kindhearted

My brother but we gotta help ourselves anyone can be in such condition

Highesschief1:
One day I met an accident all the passengers are still trapped inside the vehicle, I rushed in and started pulling them out, many people just stood there watching me...i keep shouting for help but many of them were reluctant to come forward.. The first people we pulled out were already dead and had blood all over them, on sighting the blood the man helping me pulled back and left me there alone because he couldn't stand the sight.
A few guys joined but we needed more hands to help us drag the dead ones off so that we can rescue the few alive, I didn't know when I started crying, one women started shouting at the men there calling them corwads, I think that pushed them to action , at the end we rescued those we could and rushed them to the hospital. I was so disappointed by the act of some men, how can you say you are a man and when situations arise instead of acting like one you will chicken out...

What if you are the one in that situation and instead of people to help you they are rather busy taking pictures to upload on social media? How will you feel?

Bros, this story of yours actually touched me unlike any other Nairaland and I'm glad nobody was with me when I was reading it because I actually cried for like 20 seconds. I easily pictured the scene in my mind and I know its better imagined than experienced. I cried and started sobbing when I read that you cried when trying to pull out the dead to rescue the living. I guess many people only expect to see such scenes in movies and not in real life.

May God bless you bro. In your time of need, help will not be far from you.

Jesus is calling you today!
Strive to enter by the narrow door; for many
will seek to enter and will not be able.
Jesus is the way to eternal life; no one comes
to the Father, but by Him.
Repent and accept Jesus today as your
personal Lord and saviour; He will keep you
safe when every other thing fails.
It is very important to make this all important
decision today, and if you have already
accepted Jesus into your life, continue to
follow Jesus all the way.
He will shepherd you so that you find pasture in this life, and also
in the life to come.
- Copied

MiztaYouneek:


Exactly. Those that refused to help might not do such out of wickedness but just to prevent stories that touches. I know someone who had your similar experience so there was a day I was travelling along Benin Okada road and I saw people that were robbed with many injured and they were pleading I help carry some in my car to UBTH but trust me, even when I was just the only one in my car, I didn't carry even one person because I remember what happened to a friend of mine who did such. At the end police will carry you and even accuse you of being one of the suspected armed robbers and the rest story is another thing. Prevention is much better than story that touches and God will understand.

Whatsoever you do to the least of my brothers, that you do unto me... Trust me, God won't understand.
How would he understand that you left him to die again and again simply because of what happened to your friend.
If you were the one(God) in that position... Will you understand that?

igbodefendercom:

How did you go with the police?

A police who was on mufty was at the scene, so he sat at the front seat.

wandeay:


A police who was on mufty was at the scene, so he sat at the front sit.

Okay. Thanks for the reply.