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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Lemonadewifey: 7:27pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Tatacherie, I am sincerely short of words. I remember dreaming about someone assaulting my daughter few weeks back and I know how I woke up feeling and reading about this now makes me feel like I should home school my daughter and make her my hand bag. This is every mothers nightmare sincerely. Do as the other mama said about telling her a story so she could feel free to tell you who did it. Be strong for you, her and the family. My prayers are with you..... PS: don't forget to give that person an everlasting injury before he/she faces the wrath of the law 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayabadamilola: 7:28pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Tatacherie, my prayers are with you and the family! All I can say is that you take it easy with your daughter so she can open up. Bhet the bastard that did this shouldn't go unpunished. Arrest all the fucktards at the school and the last place she stayed. Let them fish out animal! 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ayabadamilola: 7:31pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Lemonadewifey:I agree with you mama. I know God protects us all, but I never go out for long without my sons. They're the real definition of handbags! Me and them dey gather go everywhere o, except my mom or MIL is around. Please, keep praying for your daughter and make her your handbag for now. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by FloraEC(f): 7:38pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Tatacherie, truly I'm speechless, so speechless. How can someone be so evil? What is attractive in a 3yr old baby, forget the toddler of a thing. What pleasure will he/she derive for crying out loud. This is fuckn crazy Jesus Sue the fuckn school, they're mad, all of them. If they can't handle a child under their care then why is it a school. From her teacher to the last breathing creature in that school should be held responsible. Get the picture and also her undies should be a strong evidence. Ahh God, I don't even know why I'm angry like this. So the culprit will eat, sleep well and feel fulfilled this night. Some people are truly sick. Is well mama, is truly well. E-hugs. May God continue to bless her and may this experience not scar her for life. Amen And may God continue to protect our children. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Cutemarvel(f): 8:17pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
tatacherie:Mama, so sorry about the incidence. All you need now is to be strong so as to get the right solution. Such a person who has done this will surely see the rot of God. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Cutemarvel(f): 8:24pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
firstpregnancy:Mama cheer up now ... life itself is full of ups and down. Christ is always available for you and we are your family here. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Cutemarvel(f): 8:30pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Pweetiebabe:Please mama, you should see a doctor even if you've not registered for antenatal. I saw a doctor in an health Centre and private hospital in my 1st trimester before registering. It will surely end in praise. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 8:41pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
tatacherie: Oh my God!!!! What is this world turning into, a 3 yr old baby. Pls who bought her home 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jeniluv(f): 9:35pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
firstpregnancy:Hello teamie,breathe in,out....Do u doubt God's miracles?how He will do it,I don't know but of a certainty,He will...please relax,miracles still happen,He will put smiles on ur face soonest...Remain blessed 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by cityella: 10:08pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
tatacherie: Am really sorry about this, I can't say I understand how you feel, but I pray that GOD will heal your family. in my opinion, Your daughter needs you now more than ever, she might be just 3years old but she knows something wrong has been done to her. We do not know how long this person has tried before he finally succeeded and also to what extent this person has threatened her. Your baby may not be to express the Pain she feels except maybe the physical pains. Do not force her into speaking if she doesn't want to. You know your daughter and knows how she reacts to people and things around her. This person who did this might be her teacher, bus driver, gateman or even a student. Everyone is a suspect. if trying the story telling doesn't work, try taking her to school casually if possible go through the way she normally goes to school and back see how she reacts to people you'll definitely get a clue as to who did this. Keep all evidence even the tiniest one matters, take a video if you can. And when you finally get the devil who did this "no matter who he/she is", make sure to burst his balls. More importantly your daughter needs you because whatever happens, your daughter will always remember how you stood for/by her. A child never forgets.. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jeniluv(f): 10:10pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
tatacherie:Oh NO!How could some men be so mean?what is pleasurable in this nonsense act? Pls,accept my sympathy mama,with God's help,the idiot will be caught! God is with you and yours.... 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Mbliz(f): 10:43pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
tatacherie:i am truly sorry for what happened to your princess. Was moody all through today and seeing this now infact i feel weak...hmm . The other moms have said it all and i believe time heals every wound especially if you let it. Be strong and fight till the end definitely you will get justice... Let me also use this time to encourage we parents to start sex education for our children( boy and girl) atleast from 2 years of age. For example letting them know their body parts and the right names they are called not nicknames. And also letting them know that no body has the right to touch their private body parts and if anyone tries it, they should run away and immediately report to u(parents)...its well with you mama tatacherie. Be strong.. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by labasulla(f): 10:55pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
tatacherie: Dear mama I'm so sorry you have to go through this. How is the little girl doing? Just give her time she will tell you who the bastard is. It's sad we live in a wicked world Stay strong for her please. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by nahzyla: 10:57pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
So sorry tatacherie, please start a new thread in family section about it so you can get as much help as possible as soon as possible. Somebody on this thread has already made phone call for you thank God, Please start a thread so the case can blow up and you will get lots of helpful advice and the culprit will be fished out sooner. Sorry again. Why are men so heartless? 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 11:42pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Honeysweetest: Madam ok they don't give notice of their intention,granted! but they do leave subtle hints and there's a big difference between love, darling ,(I believe is used for a dear one) but soulmate is one word u dnt just throw around, it's deeper! It's a wrong caption whether it was written with good intention or not. 10 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 11:53pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Even in school, someone's child is not safe again. I have some many questions like who picks her up after school? When school closes, where do the students stay before someone comes to pick them up? Are they allowed to roam about,until a guardian comes to pick them up? What's the school security like?? If it happened in the school environment, how come a 3 yr old was left alone to be molested and abused this way Tatacherie am so sorry, I pray your DD heals physically and emotionally from this abuse. pls after this case is over and the culprit found, and if it is reported that it was done in the school environment,i would suggest you post name of the school address and photo of the culprit 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 1:38am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Nyxx123:well madam,I still don't see it like u are seeing it,u want to confront someone over the pet name he calls someone else's child,his brother at that,because he might molest the child,,lol! go ahead.am done |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 3:39am On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 4:19am On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 4:27am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Tatacherie, don't be too hard on yourself. You can't take your child everywhere and watching your child all day long can be quite exhausting. It's the evil predators that deserve to be blamed. Not you and not your daughter especially as all you did was send her to school. The truth will come out soon enough. It wasn't those children, I want to believe it wasn't them. Try to go back to normal routine with her, that way she can heal faster. Reassure her that you love her unconditionally and that you will always love her. I know you'll be extra soft with her in the coming weeks but please don't let your guilt trip you into not watching out for some signs in her. Remember, she's still 3 years old. Forgive yourself Tata, forgive yourself so you can be able to move on from this. I put something on my diary update. It might still be useful for her and can actually get her talking one day especially if the perpetrator is anywhere close or isn't caught on time. Give her plenty hugs and let her know she's a brave girl. I pray her heart gets healed. When the perpetrator is caught, please give him a slash on the face. A scar on the face will certainly make children wary of him or her in future. 18 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by tatacherie: 4:33am On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by zaynie(f): 4:51am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Surulady: Thanks a lot for this mama. I appreciate. My love to the twins. Don't worry, you'll soon get the hang of things. You can also get a paid help to come in everyday to help at home. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by TiffanyJ(f): 5:18am On Oct 17, 2019 |
tatacherie:Do not relent, God will expose the culprit. If after investigation it is discovered that your landlady's and neighbour's kids assaulted your daughter, please, leave the house and change her school. Make sure that poor innocent girl never sees those kids again. You and your daughter are in my prayers, ma. 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Fyngal1(f): 6:51am On Oct 17, 2019 |
tatacherie: Hmm. My worst fear. I don't know about other places but in benin, this is now a trend in most schools. Children sexua.lly molesting each other. It's so disturbing. What does a 6,7,8 year old know about 'touching'? Are we parents failing in our duties? And WHERE ON EARTH are the teachers when such things go down? Tatacherie my sis, don't beat yourself. You didn't fail your daughter. Sending her to school was not a bad call on your part. But shame on that school sha. This is not the first time, yet no adequate measures to guarantee children's safety? Shame on them again 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 7:28am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Honeysweetest: Your the one seeing it as a problem cos you will always see correction as confrontation... I never said I wanted to confront, you came up with that word maybe that's why your having an issue with it. I used "call him out" And again caption is wrong whether he meant good or not! And if indoubt @ bolded, check the dictionary meaning A lovely morning to you 9 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pweetiebabe(f): 7:52am On Oct 17, 2019 |
angeltolly:You way full ground, you dey brekete for here so nothing they shake u, abeg receive your mantle cos God gat u. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pweetiebabe(f): 7:56am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Cutemarvel:Tanx ma'am I spoke with my gynea last night after sending my scan result over, she said the scan result looks good that she's suspecting its Ulcer abd to come back anytime I feel d pain again and go get a mismag, tank God I get a bottle of that already but DH keeps wondering how foodie like me go get Ulcer, but I woke up stronger this morning, pain don disappear and never to appear again. 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 7:59am On Oct 17, 2019 |
tatacherie: The school failed her not you. You did the best you could do. As much as we try to protect our LOs, nothing is guaranteed, we have heard many stories. A woman did this.. this is lesbian ISH.. maybe DD is attributing the bum fall which your neighbors daughter pushed her as the one who did it... About her been exhausted..give her a mini break, take her to a park, where she can relax and buy an ice-cream or sweet and try initiating those questions again. PS: keep an open mind, it could be anybody 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jellyshine: 8:23am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Tatacherie,I am so sorry to hear about your daughter and the evil done to her.You are a good mother and your daughter is a champion.My prayers are with you and your family. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Cutemarvel(f): 9:06am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Pweetiebabe:I'm a foodie too oh but always have pregnancy induced ulcer. It comes with upper abdominal pain, bloating, heartburn and trapped gas. Danacid works for me, you can lick it as often as you need relief. The pain is not always permanent. Take care ma. |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Fyngal1(f): 9:37am On Oct 17, 2019 |
zaynie: Amennn! Thank you ma 1 Like |
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pweetiebabe(f): 9:37am On Oct 17, 2019 |
Cutemarvel:U just mentioned all my symptoms love, she asked me to get antacid also, it us well 1 Like |
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