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My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BMaretraitors(f): 8:02pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
It is no secret. Anyone that knows me know i'm totally against the idea of dating or mating with any man of African descent. I'm not attracted to them in anyway. I try to avoid any space that has a lot of black men because the sight of them repulses me especially the Nigerian ones. They are mentally lazy, weak and shortsighted. Whenever the look at me, i cringe because even though they would never have me the nurture the idea that they can. I see how their eyes burn in desire for me, ughh. How can they ever think that i would consider them a choice when they are just ugly copies of the real men in this world. They are no match. I know it. They know it. The whole world knows! Today, i was shocked when my elder folks insisted i must marry my tribesman, which according to some means i should stop befriending non black men since that might spoil the whole plan of marrying within. I have not been my usual self since i heard this because i know my folks. They are tribal to a core and I would have been too but i lost my loyalty not just to my kinfolks but to my skin folks as well, after i learnt that we are all a lost cause because of the indiscipline and lack of loyalty of black men as a whole. Dear Nairalanders and romancelanders, how do i convince my folks that i cannot end up with their choice for me. I can't tell them that i have self respect and a high taste in men because these seem selfish. What concrete reason can i give? 4 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by ouzo1(m): 8:05pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
"I think if two people love each other, then what the hell? I think that everyone should have the chance to be equally miserable, if they want"....E |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Cutehector(m): 8:05pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
This is a racist thread and defies the rules of Nairaland. Lalasticlala kindly ban the op. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BMaretraitors(f): 8:08pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Cutehector:How is this a racist post? I have basic standards that i expect from men, how is that discriminatory if some cannot meet them. 4 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BMaretraitors(f): 8:10pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
ouzo1:I would wait for you to complete this post. Hoping this isn't all you have to say |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:49pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Tell them that you haven't met a black man of your spec, you haven't found someone of your choice in Nigeria. Stand your ground, hope the man in your life would maintain his stand too. 4 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BMaretraitors(f): 8:55pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:Thank you. The only reasonable comment so far. I'm not surprised it's coming from a woman. 2 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 8:59pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:Simply go get pregnant for an Indian or Caucasian. Simple. The thread is racist and hateful. You go chop ban. 15 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by BMaretraitors(f): 9:03pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe:Thanks. That's another side. I always push that idea away because i want to have my kids in marriage. It's not racist or hateful, these are facts that no one can deny. 1 Like |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 9:34pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:Now i know ur an attention seeker. Don't u have siblings/folks who are black men? All these kids on crack sef.. If dey check u now na one very ugly duckling ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Fountainofyouth(f): 9:44pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Hahahaha ![]() ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 9:45pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Lol me wey i no insult Nigerian guys like this dem attack me like no tomorrow ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Back to your question,we all gat preferences which i do respect,same way some nairaland guys shout #teamforeigngirl even those that no get passport not to talk of traveling out ![]() ![]() If your parents wants you to date from your tribe that's really a big problem!! If you can't go against your parent then you can abide by what they want!!! Bt if you truly wanna be together with your bf just go ahead,im pretty sure they will accept him later!!! 1 Like |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by AstroG1: 10:14pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
BMaretraitors: 6 Likes
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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by sweetonugbu: 10:28pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
I have noticed you,just Bleep off
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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by sweetonugbu: 10:32pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Can we see your picture with your username written on your Palm,I bet I will vomit seeing it 1 Like
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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 11:30pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Personally i realise we jugde people especially of a particular descent by the kind of people we have met or interacted with.. when you meet an honest, hardworking and an intelligent nigerian you would have a rethink besides your child would also be black you know whether you marry a white man or not however i understand that people have different taste in men. I would rather you explain your situation to your relatives cause a broken marriage is worse 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 11:39pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Cutehector:The theads stating white women are better. None was closed, no op ban. . 3 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 11:45pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
dairykidd: ![]() Seems you're now more fiery. |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Rider007: 12:04am On Oct 24, 2019 |
Would have concluded ur post wast racist..bt I read again,found it wasn't....am a Nigerian,a good one precisely..believe in hard work, happiness and making others happy..so its wrong wen u generalise...dia r smart, handsome and innovative men among us,dia r lazy and fraudsters among us too...so there is all over the world..so we r not monopoly of negative things and rest of world field with positive results....if you felt ur standard can't b meet by any Nigerian or black...i respect ur decision and wish u well.make ur decision and stand by it..go for wat u want..with tym dey will come to terms certainly 2 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by smitaro(m): 12:22am On Oct 24, 2019 |
u dislike Nigerian men, yet u stil com dis platform dey ask for dsame pple u hate wetin to do. 5 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by AfroKnight: 12:42am On Oct 24, 2019 |
![]() ![]() ![]() This thread is dedicated to those Guys who say they prefer white babes while bashing our naija babes. Na una cause all this nonsense ![]() Madam OP, you should drag the specific guy who broke your heart. Drag him well and leave the rest of us out of your woes. Face him and stop disturbing the peace. 6 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by sunnychibs(m): 12:54am On Oct 24, 2019 |
This thread was delibrately created by a nairaland Olosho/Feminist to castigate Nigerian men using an alternate moniker. *spits |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by iRepNaija1: 2:03am On Oct 24, 2019 |
BMaretraitors: Don't bother trying to convince them. Your parents aren't the ones entering in the marriage, you are. So just do you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 2:20am On Oct 24, 2019 |
BMaretraitors: You are right, it's very difficult to see a Nigerian man with attributes of real men. Using nairaland as an example, I've simply lost hope for the average Nigerian man. They are very hypocritical and highly disrespectful to women in general except for a few but those ones are very rare. Better stand your ground and go for the race that suits you cuz as for me it #Foreignmen all the way. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by FRANKLINHILLZ: 2:40am On Oct 24, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:Firstly, I hope u have seen all the black men in the world especially Nigerians but if u have not met with every black in the world, then u are saying shit. U can actually marry a white guy with pointed nose but guess wat FAM, we don't give a Bleep of wat u think abt blacks. |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 3:11am On Oct 24, 2019 |
Your folks that insist you, with the horrible attitude that oozes outta your thread, must marry a Nigerian man will have to give a huge reward to the Nonsense. Next topic please. ![]() |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Troynewyork(f): 3:17am On Oct 24, 2019 |
I am new to this forum.Show me some love in the house!!!I am a afro american woman married to a (igbo)man.I love me some naija man.They are the best!!All women who are commenting with their negativity about nigerian men have never jam correct naija man.Sweet oh. 3 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Troynewyork(f): 3:18am On Oct 24, 2019 |
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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 3:21am On Oct 24, 2019 |
BMaretraitors: Why the fūck are you asking here? You shouldn't even be on this site trolling for attention from African men 2 Likes |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Nobody: 3:33am On Oct 24, 2019 |
One less thirsty bitch in the running, I see nothing to get worked up over... In fact our sons, nephews, Uncles and brothers are safe... shi, even our side niggaz are protected from you. I personally thank you and wish the men of other races and cultures the best of luck *fingers crossed* Disclaimer: I don't call women bitchës 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by royalair(m): 4:20am On Oct 24, 2019 |
What level of stupidity is this ?
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Re: My Folks Want Me To End Up With A Nigerian Even When I Dislike Nigerian Men. by Tallesty1(m): 5:51am On Oct 24, 2019 |
BMaretraitors:Well, this forum is owned by a Nigerian and majority of the users are Nigerians so go somewhere else 2 Likes 1 Share |
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