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Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:18am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Guys, about four years ago when I was engaged in home tutorials in Lagos, I observed that almost all the girls in their teens always asked if I had a girlfriend. When I was first asked by my first client's daughter in Lekki, I thought she just wanted to bond because it is easier for students to learn well when they're free with their tutors so I answered her but jokingly and even made up some stories just to redivert back to the main subject. The next day, she asked me to fast forward and teach her about sexual reproduction - which was in her biology syllabus btw but I was just too uncomfortable. Couldn't believe a 14 year old could make me speechless. Had to lie that I don't know much about that topic and I scored very low marks in that area during my secondary school days. Luckily for me, I was about rounding up with that client, so I zoomed off. Same thing repeated with another client but hers was slightly different. She kept pressing to know my real age and if I have a girlfriend. This one was about going to SS3 and was 16yeara old. I had totally forgotten about these incidents since I no longer take tutorials but yesterday when I got back home, I saw some students, who were my neighbour's children, struggling with their maths homework. Well, I helped them and they were awed at the ease with which I solved and explained the problem to them. I smiled and told them I had been a tutor once. Next thing is that they started making jokes about how my girlfriend would enjoy. Question is, what could be making teens these days curious about s*x or could it be that I am just too free with them? Cc: Lalasticlala, Mynd44, farano, Rocktation 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 26, 2019 |
It is because they want you to service their kpekus. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:35am On Oct 26, 2019 |
My dear dont mind them. Most dont have responsible adults to guide them. Others cause of peer pressure. Btw are you handsome? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Newguyhere: 10:38am On Oct 26, 2019 |
if fit be trap oo my guy No go fall victim. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by BlackHummer(m): 10:39am On Oct 26, 2019 |
NuissancePolice: 1 Like
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Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by BlackHummer(m): 10:41am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Op, girls during that age are usually very curious about bad things. You seem to be a nice guy else some tutors might have taken advantage of them. Were u a private totur or you worked under an outsourcing firm? 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:43am On Oct 26, 2019 |
NuissancePolice: Lol |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:44am On Oct 26, 2019 |
RedCreme21: #bolded, aswear I can't tell. But I definately would not be at the bottom of the pot in an average group of 15 to 20 guys |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:45am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Newguyhere: E fit be o. I thought as much. Na why I dey always japaa |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:45am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Na only female clients you dey get? 5 Likes
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Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:48am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Zita55: I taught about 8 students and like 5 or so were girls between ages 13 and 17 |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:49am On Oct 26, 2019 |
BlackHummer: Under an outsourcing firm. Prepclass to be precise. |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Apination(m): 10:50am On Oct 26, 2019 |
ElasticStone:Be open with them and point out the dangers involved. You were in a vantage position to teach and you forgot that morals is part of the things you get to impact on those kids, if they were free to talk to you about it be glad and teach them, not by running away because the next person might not have the necessary self control not to take advantage of their naivety. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:50am On Oct 26, 2019 |
ElasticStone:well thats how we are. With all the hormones flooding our system... Just dont get tempted. Or put yourself in a spot you'll later regret. Avoid being alone with the younglings. If rejected, they might accuse you of rape. And you know how our justice system is 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:51am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by ElasticStone(m): 10:53am On Oct 26, 2019 |
RedCreme21: Yea, true. Thankfully, i don't deal with minors these days. 1 Like |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:57am On Oct 26, 2019 |
I think within that age bracket, they're often curious and excited about anything relating to sexuality. For me, I try to be professional about topics like this whenever it arises. You may never know how far it would help them. 3 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by BlackHummer(m): 10:58am On Oct 26, 2019 |
ElasticStone: Oh I see. I though as much |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 10:59am On Oct 26, 2019 |
ElasticStone: No be truth I talk? |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:03am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Apination: Nice one |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:03am On Oct 26, 2019 |
DanXplore: Best comment so far... 2 Likes |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 11:09am On Oct 26, 2019 |
Joystark my loving girlfriend. Have male students demanded s*x chat from you before? |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Joystark(f): 7:46am On Oct 27, 2019 |
NuissancePolice: Quote me again and risk castration. |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by Nobody: 8:28am On Oct 27, 2019 |
Joystark: Oh no. What could have upset my sweetheart? |
Re: Why Am I Often Asked If I Have A Girlfriend? by habsydiamond(m): 8:43am On Oct 27, 2019 |
NuissancePolice:I go make sure say dem flog you till you faint....just like this!!!!
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