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. by lovelyeyez(m): 6:49am On Oct 29, 2019
grin angry
Re: . by decatalyst(m): 6:58am On Oct 29, 2019
Well done ooo.

I just want to correct something I noticed.

That lady did not CHEAT as you implied. You both were not dating then. She only dated a married man while were on 'holiday' and I feel what you have to contend with now is the work you need to put in, in order to 'win' her back totally.

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Re: . by aprilwise(m): 7:07am On Oct 29, 2019
The married man was occupying until you come. Work out your salvation with fear and trembling.

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Re: . by lovelyeyez(m): 7:07am On Oct 29, 2019
decatalyst:
Well done ooo.

I just want to correct something I noticed.

That lady did not CHEAT as you implied. You both were not dating then. She only dated a married man while were on 'holiday' and I feel what you have to contend with now is the work you need to put in, in order to 'win' her back totally.
Now it's not about winning her back, it's about building the trust back. And yes you are right, while I was on holiday, anything could have happened. But not with a married man.

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Re: . by lovelyeyez(m): 7:08am On Oct 29, 2019
aprilwise:
The married man was occupying until you come. Work out your salvation with fear and trembling.
Hmm, please clarify
Re: . by SmellingAnus(m): 7:13am On Oct 29, 2019
I can't die before my time so I don't expect a single girl to be faithful to me. If you are faithful keep it to yourself cos I don't want to know... That is my policy... With what my eyes have seen even from some married women... I have come to accept that both men and women are polygamous in nature...

The best I can do for you is to lead you to my diary I opened in 2017. Read and be wiser...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need

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Re: . by aprilwise(m): 7:13am On Oct 29, 2019
lovelyeyez:

Hmm, please clarify
Confront her and tell her to stop seeing the married man cos you are back for good
Re: . by Abfinest007(m): 7:15am On Oct 29, 2019
she didn't cheat bcuz you people were not together then and she needs someone to help oil her engine or did you not oil ur own engine

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Re: . by lovelyeyez(m): 7:17am On Oct 29, 2019
SmellingAnus:
I can't die before my time so I don't expect a single girl to be faithful to me. If you are faithful keep it to yourself cos I don't want to know... That is my policy... With what my eyes have seen even from some married women... I have come to accept that both men and women are polygamous in nature...

The best I can do for you is to lead you to my diary I opened in 2017. Read and be wiser...

https://www.nairaland.com/4189254/words-wisdom-experience-surely-need
Thank you so much
Re: . by lovelyeyez(m): 7:17am On Oct 29, 2019
aprilwise:
Confront her and tell her to stop seeing the married man cos you are back for good
Thank you
Re: . by lovelyeyez(m): 7:18am On Oct 29, 2019
Abfinest007:
she didn't cheat bcuz you people were not together then and she needs someone to help oil her engine or did you not oil ur own engine
Hmm, not with a married man. At least
Re: . by Born2Breed(f): 8:10am On Oct 29, 2019
If you really want to be serious with her and not just another unserious relationship that won't end well, then tell her to stop further contact with the man or any other men..

Also call the man to stop contacting her.
Re: . by Nobody: 8:26am On Oct 29, 2019
lovelyeyez:
Hello nairalander, I am at the stage of my life where I am confused on what decision to take. It all started during nysc camp, we dated for some months and then broke up for a while due to some misunderstanding we couldn't resolve immediately. To cut the long story short, we met again last month and we thought it better to continue the relationship since we both loved each other.

Now, I discovered that for the time we were apart, she was cheating with a married man, whom she claimed gave her the needed attention while we were not together. This claim only came after I discovered their conversation via WhatsApp and she still kept close touch with him, telling him she misses him and loves him. I am yet to decide on what to do about her because now she claims she still loves me and I should forgive her for what she did. Please guys, your sincere advis is needed. Should I continue the relationship with her?
Nope. She wasn't cheating when you guys broke up. She only cheats if you guys are dating and she's still seeing other people. Are u guys exclusive?
Re: . by Kweenluchy: 8:52am On Oct 29, 2019
Even though she went into relationship with a married man, she did not cheat on you. Just tell her to end the relationship.
Re: . by Hamachi(f): 9:53am On Oct 29, 2019
As a lady, you have no business going into a relationship if you’re broke!

Date nights cost money
Good boxers cost money too you know
What about buying him deodorants?
Getting him surprise kicks
Taking him to get a haircut bills on you
These things cost money...
Buckle up!

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Re: . by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:11am On Oct 29, 2019
Any single lady that decides to date a married man will receive karma in a sweet served way, her husband will not only cheat on her, but will cheat on her with a small girl or a family member or relative, nonsense.

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Re: . by yazga: 11:34am On Oct 29, 2019
Most times they marry the best of the best sis
Fountainofyouth:
Any single lady that decides to date a married man will receive karma in a sweet served way, her husband will not cheat on her, but will cheat on her with a small girl or a family member or relative, nonsense.
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
Re: . by totosucker(m): 11:39am On Oct 29, 2019
Get it off your mind and move on with her if you still love her. Let me tell you the truth, you are not pained that she dated a married man you are simply pained that she bleeped while the both of you separated. What do you expect? You want her to be waiting for you abi? You try. Some married women will bleep as soon as they separate from their husband talk more of a single lady.
Re: . by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:48am On Oct 29, 2019
yazga:
Most times they marry the best of the best sis
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!
MARRIAGE IS NOT FOR EVERYONE!!

They marry the worst disguised as the best of the best, so why the continuous repetitive wailing

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Re: . by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 29, 2019
what are you still waiting for bro, give her straight red card.
once a cheat is always a cheat.
abi you won make Dem dey give her Anal on top of your matrimonial bed ni?

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Re: . by Nobody: 11:56am On Oct 29, 2019
This is the problem with most ladies . They lack the ability to reason with their brain instead they allow their emotion to override proper logical reasoning. How will a single lady fall in love with a married man, aren't you sensible enough to know that if he really love you he wouldn't have a wife .
Young man dump that good for nothing lady .
Re: . by nuelsam: 12:06pm On Oct 29, 2019
Get your facts right bro.....She never cheated on you, u just made it clear that u guys broke up and during the cause of the break up... She dated a married man..... Now i aint got no problem with that.....where ive got a problem is when she claimed to love you but still on still shes keeping a close touch with the other man even to the extent of confessing his love for him, like wtf bro......do u really need an advice ? Most women are vulnerable, like they are weaklings when it comes to their emotions....they give in easily, ofcourse she might claim to love u both and even justify her claim, why? Because u both tickle her fancy and thats why most girls are weaklings emotionally, they dont know what they want.
1 shes probably a love peddler
2 she cant be trusted(dating a married man is the height of it)
3 shes probably using you as a bait lol
4 do u still need an advice?
Re: . by jayboy007(m): 12:32pm On Oct 29, 2019
Bro, the fact that she started dating a married guy when u guys had issues and we're not together doesn't imply that she cheated on u. Probably she needed company and d married guy came along. But for the fact that she is still in touch wit him now that u guys are back, it simply means 2 things: guess the married man bleeps her better than u do or he simply takes care of her bills more than u do(most preferably). In order words, guy double your hustle, make more money and watch them come after u.
Re: . by yazga: 1:00pm On Oct 29, 2019
wink
Fountainofyouth:


They marry the worst disguised as the best of the best, so why the continuous repetitive wailing
Re: . by martowskin1(m): 1:51pm On Oct 29, 2019
lovelyeyez:

Now it's not about winning her back, it's about building the trust back. And yes you are right, while I was on holiday, anything could have happened. But not with a married man.

So the married man ia the issue, if it was a single guy, would u be worried?
Re: . by Duru009(m): 4:39pm On Oct 29, 2019
This boy, that lady doesn't love you !
Re: . by Nobody: 5:53pm On Oct 29, 2019
lovelyeyez:

Hmm, not with a married man. At least
That your gf go be borehole.
Re: . by Nobody: 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2019
Fountainofyouth:
Any single lady that decides to date a married man will receive karma in a sweet served way, her husband will not only cheat on her, but will cheat on her with a small girl or a family member or relative, nonsense.
Tell your peers.
Re: . by yazga: 3:30pm On Nov 01, 2019
It's a very big lie
Fountainofyouth:


They marry the worst disguised as the best of the best, so why the continuous repetitive wailing

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