Hello guys
Please I need help on this.
Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women.
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It should be done out of love. Not compulsion

Iyke4400:
Hello guys
Please I need help on this.
Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women.
cheers[color=#000000][/color]

It's not right or wrong.
Who has been washing your clothes before you got married or got a girlfriend? Why can't the person continue washing it for you after marriage, and if you did it yourself why decide to stop after marriage?
Your wife may decide to help you wash your clothes out of the generosity of her heart when she is chanced to do so, but when she doesn't, there's no need to take it personal

This is 2019 sir, get a washing machine. Try to think of ways to alleviate the chores done by your wife instead of adding to them.

Bro get a machine, these are no longer issues to be discussed. Throw the clothes in the washer, set a timer and go have a beer. Nothing wrong in washing your own clothes if you don't have a machine. Nigerian's fuss too much over every thing whilst leaving the important things unattended to.

Iyke4400:
Hello guys
Please I need help on this.
Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women.
cheers[color=#000000][/color]

Get a washing machine

Why not get a maid to help her out. Being a working class lady is hard to combine with most chores

Look at what is bothering you op. Go and get a washing machine haba

Give your clothes to a dry cleaner. Simple.

I never understand why a man would want a woman to wash his clothes, even if she wants to. As a man, you have stronger hands, and would wash your clothes better than her or any washing machine.

Get a washing machine, if you can't do the laundry, you can get a maid to do it or take your clothes to any laundry centre in your neighbourhood.

It used to be part of "female" chores like cooking, cleaning but I think that idea is kind of obsolete now

Either maid or machine because it's too time consuming

reykhana:
This is 2019 sir, get a washing machine. Try to think of ways to alleviate the chores done by your wife instead of adding to them.

It’s 2019, tell most Nigerian ladies to stop depending on men for funds and protection .


What’s good for the goose is good for the gander

Washing of clothes is no one's responsibility. If you can't help her wash her clothes please don't add your own.

Men we are not slaves please!!!!

She must wash your clothes,clean the house,cook,cater for kids and give you pussy.
It's her destiny!!
Quote me and die

Iogobenz:
She must wash your clothes,clean the house,cook,cater for kids and give you pussy.
It's her destiny!!
Quote me and die

Oya come and kill me

cococandy:

Oya come and kill me

I so much love most comments above, very refreshing compared to other times.

Iyke4400:
Hello guys
Please I need help on this.
Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women.
cheers[color=#000000][/color]

Guy, you be pikin or adult?
Before you married who was washing your clothes for you?
I hope tomorrow you won't say na madam responsibility to baff you.

yeyeosoronga:
It's not right or wrong.
Who has been washing your clothes before you got married or got a girlfriend? Why can't the person continue washing it for you after marriage, and if you did it yourself why decide to stop after marriage?
Your wife may decide to help you wash your clothes out of the generosity of her heart when she is chanced to do so, but when she doesn't, there's no need to take it personal

The wife must wash it if he insist because it’s part of house chores

BecaciaBarbie:
Men we are not slaves please!!!!

It’s part of house chores as a wife material

Florblu:
Washing of clothes is no one's responsibility. If you can't help her wash her clothes please don't add your own.

It’s her responsibility to wash his clothes because he’s the head

As much as it isn't (or may not be) a woman's responsibility to wash her husband's cloth - either manually or mechanically - or a husband's right to expect such, yet doing so is one of those selfless acts/little things that matter. It's a simple act of either altruism or conscientiousness subject to circumstances. One shouldn't lose humaneness all in the name of emancipation/wokeness. And I don't see a big deal if a man does same or something different of same nature for a wife. A husband and wife aren't supposed to be either frenemies or enemies living together. Anyway, it's obvious that most of you personify inhumaneness and are from dysfunctional and unhappy homes.

In fact, if a woman who's an opportunity cannot volitionally/voluntarily and joyfully wash her husband's cloth, all because of conceit/pride/egotism and self-centeredness/selfishness/greediness/egoism, I wonder why she would expect/accept any form of humane act either in tangible/material or intangible/immaterial form from the same husband.

Sanely, brutishness/meanness/heartlessness/wickedness - small-mindedness in general - shouldn't be something to brag about, so I wonder why most of you now always proudly and openly arrogate same to yourselves - wannabe modern/super/emancipated men and women. SMH.

Iyke4400:
Hello guys
Please I need help on this.
Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women.
cheers[color=#000000][/color]

@bold: No

If you see it as her responsibility, what are your responsibilities towards her?

Yinibixema:

It’s part of house chores as a wife material

Na so
I don’t mind though, but it shouldn’t made compulsory.

BecaciaBarbie:

Na so
I don’t mind though, but it shouldn’t made compulsory.

Yea

LordKO:
As much as it isn't a woman's responsibility to wash her husband's cloth - either manually or mechanically - or a husband's right to expect such, yet doing so is one of those selfless acts/little things that matter. It's a simple act of either altruism or conscientiousness subject to circumstances. One shouldn't lose humaneness all in the name of emancipation/wokeness. And I don't see a big deal if a man does same or something different of same nature for a wife. A husband and wife aren't supposed to be either frenemies or enemies living together. Anyway, it's obvious that most of you personify inhumaneness and are from dysfunctional and unhappy homes.

In fact, if a woman who's an opportunity cannot volitionally/voluntarily and joyfully wash her husband's cloth, all because of conceit/pride/egotism and self-centeredness/selfishness/greediness/egoism, I wonder why she would expect/accept any form of humane act either in tangible/material or intangible/immaterial form from the same husband.

Sanely, brutishness/meanness/heartlessness/wickedness - small-mindedness in general - shouldn't be something to brag about, so I wonder why most of you now always proudly and openly arrogate same to yourselves - wannabe modern/super/emancipated men and women. SMH.

I would never wash any man's clothes, not becos of all what you typed, but cos I do not like doing laundries, what say ye to that? Since you feel choosing not to do something like that means coming from dyfunctional homes and other evil unnecessary words I bolded.

Fountainofyouth:



I would never wash any man's clothes, not becos of all what you typed, but cos I do not like doing laundries, what say ye to that? Since you feel choosing not to do something like that means coming from dyfunctional homes and other evil unnecessary words I bolded.

"I would never wash any man's clothes" . . . "I do not like doing laundries" The first statement in quote sounds more like it comes from the place of pride and self-centeredness. As for the second statement in quote, since your dislike for doing laundries never stopped you from doing your own laundries either directly of indirectly, what then will be a big deal in doing so for your husband? If it's strictly manual that would be a bit understandable.

LordKO:



"I would never wash any man's clothes" . . . "I do not like doing laundries" The first statement in quote sounds more like it comes from the place of pride. As for the second statement in quote, since your dislike for doing laundries never stopped you from doing your own laundries either directly of indirectly, what then will be a big deal in doing so for your husband? If it's strictly manual that would be a bit understandable.

Lord better start disliking me o, cos any way you put it just doesn't sit right with me, manual or not, I wouldn't do it, I'd do any other thing except that.

Fountainofyouth:



Lord better start disliking me o, cos any way you put it just doesn't sit right with me, manual or not, I wouldn't do it, I'd do any other thing except that.

In fact na manual washing go fit you pass now so dat detergent go peel ur hands

LordKO:
As much as it isn't (or may not be) a woman's responsibility to wash her husband's cloth - either manually or mechanically - or a husband's right to expect such, yet doing so is one of those selfless acts/little things that matter. It's a simple act of either altruism or conscientiousness subject to circumstances. One shouldn't lose humaneness all in the name of emancipation/wokeness. And I don't see a big deal if a man does same or something different of same nature for a wife. A husband and wife aren't supposed to be either frenemies or enemies living together. Anyway, it's obvious that most of you personify inhumaneness and are from dysfunctional and unhappy homes.

In fact, if a woman who's an opportunity cannot volitionally/voluntarily and joyfully wash her husband's cloth, all because of conceit/pride/egotism and self-centeredness/selfishness/greediness/egoism, I wonder why she would expect/accept any form of humane act either in tangible/material or intangible/immaterial form from the same husband.

Sanely, brutishness/meanness/heartlessness/wickedness - small-mindedness in general - shouldn't be something to brag about, so I wonder why most of you now always proudly and openly arrogate same to yourselves - wannabe modern/super/emancipated men and women. SMH.

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