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Her Responsibility, My Right by Iyke4400: 11:25am On Oct 28, 2019 |
Hello guys Please I need help on this. Is it wrong for a woman to wash her husband cloths. I feel is part of their responsibilities to take care of us. I stand corrected and to learn from experienced guys and women. cheers[color=#000000][/color] |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by patani(m): 2:00pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
It should be done out of love. Not compulsion Iyke4400: 11 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by yeyeosoronga: 2:23pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
It's not right or wrong. Who has been washing your clothes before you got married or got a girlfriend? Why can't the person continue washing it for you after marriage, and if you did it yourself why decide to stop after marriage? Your wife may decide to help you wash your clothes out of the generosity of her heart when she is chanced to do so, but when she doesn't, there's no need to take it personal 13 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by reykhana(m): 3:55pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
This is 2019 sir, get a washing machine. Try to think of ways to alleviate the chores done by your wife instead of adding to them. 23 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by zed7: 4:26pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Bro get a machine, these are no longer issues to be discussed. Throw the clothes in the washer, set a timer and go have a beer. Nothing wrong in washing your own clothes if you don't have a machine. Nigerian's fuss too much over every thing whilst leaving the important things unattended to. 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Nobody: 5:02pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Iyke4400:Get a washing machine 8 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by SKYloafFISH(f): 5:35pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Why not get a maid to help her out. Being a working class lady is hard to combine with most chores 2 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Katier00(f): 5:44pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Look at what is bothering you op. Go and get a washing machine haba 6 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by tee59(f): 5:59pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Give your clothes to a dry cleaner. Simple. 7 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
I never understand why a man would want a woman to wash his clothes, even if she wants to. As a man, you have stronger hands, and would wash your clothes better than her or any washing machine. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by IamR: 6:03pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Get a washing machine, if you can't do the laundry, you can get a maid to do it or take your clothes to any laundry centre in your neighbourhood. 7 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by midnighter(f): 7:38pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
It used to be part of "female" chores like cooking, cleaning but I think that idea is kind of obsolete now Either maid or machine because it's too time consuming 7 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Nobody: 8:57pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
reykhana: ![]() It’s 2019, tell most Nigerian ladies to stop depending on men for funds and protection . What’s good for the goose is good for the gander 1 Like |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Florblu(f): 9:31pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Washing of clothes is no one's responsibility. If you can't help her wash her clothes please don't add your own. 8 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by BecaciaBarbie(f): 10:51pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
Men we are not slaves please!!!! 6 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Iogobenz(m): 11:49pm On Oct 28, 2019 |
She must wash your clothes,clean the house,cook,cater for kids and give you pussy. It's her destiny!! Quote me and die ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by cococandy(f): 9:14am On Oct 29, 2019 |
Iogobenz:Oya come and kill me 1 Like |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Iogobenz(m): 10:18am On Oct 29, 2019 |
cococandy: ![]() |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Fountainofyouth(f): 11:33am On Oct 29, 2019 |
I so much love most comments above, very refreshing compared to other times. 4 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Nobody: 1:25pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Iyke4400: Guy, you be pikin or adult? Before you married who was washing your clothes for you? I hope tomorrow you won't say na madam responsibility to baff you. 6 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Yinibixema: 2:39pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
yeyeosoronga:The wife must wash it if he insist because it’s part of house chores |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Yinibixema: 2:42pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie:It’s part of house chores as a wife material |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Yinibixema: 2:42pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Florblu:It’s her responsibility to wash his clothes because he’s the head |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by LordKO(m): 3:03pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
As much as it isn't (or may not be) a woman's responsibility to wash her husband's cloth - either manually or mechanically - or a husband's right to expect such, yet doing so is one of those selfless acts/little things that matter. It's a simple act of either altruism or conscientiousness subject to circumstances. One shouldn't lose humaneness all in the name of emancipation/wokeness. And I don't see a big deal if a man does same or something different of same nature for a wife. A husband and wife aren't supposed to be either frenemies or enemies living together. Anyway, it's obvious that most of you personify inhumaneness and are from dysfunctional and unhappy homes. In fact, if a woman who's an opportunity cannot volitionally/voluntarily and joyfully wash her husband's cloth, all because of conceit/pride/egotism and self-centeredness/selfishness/greediness/egoism, I wonder why she would expect/accept any form of humane act either in tangible/material or intangible/immaterial form from the same husband. Sanely, brutishness/meanness/heartlessness/wickedness - small-mindedness in general - shouldn't be something to brag about, so I wonder why most of you now always proudly and openly arrogate same to yourselves - wannabe modern/super/emancipated men and women. SMH. 5 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by bukatyne(f): 3:18pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Iyke4400: @bold: No If you see it as her responsibility, what are your responsibilities towards her? |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by BecaciaBarbie(f): 3:44pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Yinibixema:Na so ![]() I don’t mind though, but it shouldn’t made compulsory. |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Yinibixema: 3:50pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie:Yea |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Fountainofyouth(f): 3:59pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
LordKO: I would never wash any man's clothes, not becos of all what you typed, but cos I do not like doing laundries, what say ye to that? Since you feel choosing not to do something like that means coming from dyfunctional homes and other evil unnecessary words I bolded. 1 Like |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by LordKO(m): 4:15pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: "I would never wash any man's clothes" . . . "I do not like doing laundries" The first statement in quote sounds more like it comes from the place of pride and self-centeredness. As for the second statement in quote, since your dislike for doing laundries never stopped you from doing your own laundries either directly of indirectly, what then will be a big deal in doing so for your husband? If it's strictly manual that would be a bit understandable. 2 Likes |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by Fountainofyouth(f): 4:19pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
LordKO: Lord better start disliking me o, cos any way you put it just doesn't sit right with me, manual or not, I wouldn't do it, I'd do any other thing except that. 1 Like |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by LordKO(m): 4:33pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth: In fact na manual washing go fit you pass now so dat detergent go peel ur hands |
Re: Her Responsibility, My Right by crackhaus: 5:20pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
LordKO:The substance of this comment (is/will definitely be) lost on those it was intended for. |
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