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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by KIDfurniture(m): 3:40am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Is she a virgin ? Lol if not please take heart ok. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by fela4live: 3:40am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Sirvingeo:So is there no God's involvement in traditional marriage? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by 1johnjohn(m): 3:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Thank you sir.. crazy lady. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ObongNizz: 3:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
One Chance. Oga go and collect your money back. Never get into a marriage where a woman dictates terms. You will hate the rest of your life. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by 1johnjohn(m): 3:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
ObongNizz: She would always want to dictate for you all the time. Which style and when we should have sex as well. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by capitalzero: 3:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: if eventually she turns to be a virgin, do you think narailand advisers would believe you? she told you in relationship that no sex before marriage and you agreed. we should all learn to respect others. what is essence of being a Christian if you cannot obey God command. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by salt1: 3:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
DeeMain: Thanks so much! I blame the girl for accepting to marry someone who doesn't share her godly principles. I guess she was desperate to answer Mrs. See him exposing her and her value system to ridicule. I hope this is a fake story. But if it's real, she will learn a bitter lesson on how not to be unequally yoked together with an unbeliever. My spouse and I chose to honour God by waiting until after we have stood before God, said our vows before God and man, and received the blessings of family, friends and the elders of the Church. We have a very happy home. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by West2019(m): 3:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
id2019:you are a stupid person |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by agarawu23(m): 4:05am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Your sex life go suffer am when you marry a born again ![]() Wetin go pain u pass eh be say she isn't a virgin, she stopped having sex after break ups and she go later beg you to forgive her ![]() Be wise, confirm her virginity and wait till after wedding if she is truly a virgin. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by farady(m): 4:07am On Oct 31, 2019 |
OP on the contrary, she seems to have entered a once chance with the way you have handled everything. You both are supposed to stand before the alter of God with bed undefiled. What's your problem sef? Sex abi? That's the reason you're ridiculing her and the God she serves? You have simply shown you're not principled. Marriage is much more than sex and I don't think you're matured enough and prepared psychologically and spiritually for it. I only put the last. 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by sykeng(m): 4:08am On Oct 31, 2019 |
peepydelano: Good lady as how? Religion extremists is the worst set of human being to be with, they have paid your bride price which is the most important thing what else do you want. These are the kinda people who adore their pastors but disrespect their husband. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by agarawu23(m): 4:09am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:e go too pain you if she isn't a virgin. Go and do virginity test this week before you come here again with regrets after the wedding. We have treated a case like that here on nairaland before. She wasn't a virgin as claimed but stopped having sex after many break ups. That's another virgin crew ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Cutiekatty: 4:09am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Bro let go of your ego, respect her decision, if you really love her you will be patient with her, is it not the same puna u will eat and get tired of? Why in a hurry ? I know konji na bastard but listen to her ,respect and understand her u will reap the reward not from her but from God. But mean while be very careful I have heard of similar situation here in Lagos ejigbo to be precised, it wasn't handled well, that the union crash 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by farady(m): 4:10am On Oct 31, 2019 |
OP on the contrary, she seems to have entered a once chance with the way you have handled everything. You both are supposed to stand before the alter of God with bed undefiled. What's your problem sef? Sex abi? That's the reason you're ridiculing her and the God she serves? You have simply shown you're not principled. Marriage is much more than sex and I don't think you're matured enough and prepared psychologically and spiritually for it. I only pity the lady. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ednut1(m): 4:14am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I was raped story loading |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Gee64: 4:17am On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Originalsly: 4:17am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: Bro.... is the church service done? She was upfront about her stand on sex... why are you now furious? Marriage not yet complete and you raising hell over this small small matter. How would you handle real marriage problems? 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ZaOzaRoom(m): 4:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
id2019:What's stopping him? Is the traditional marriage no longer acceptable? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by AleAirHub(m): 4:24am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Mental slavery will keep prevailing in Nigeria & Africa at large. ![]() Why will a girl trick me into the traditions of another man country called White Wedding �?. I will never buy that idea �. No traditional marriage no marriage. Simple as ABCD. I blame many Nigeria �� gentlemen for several failed marriages everywhere. Many of our men get carried away with the cheap fantasy in their relationship & invest heavily on their WHITE WEDDING. Op stick to your agreement because none of NL members were there when both of made it ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by West2019(m): 4:25am On Oct 31, 2019 |
she get strong mind die where in the Bible that said after paying for pride Price and traditional white wedding must be done befor sex ,if you mistake married that girl u are on ur own ,collect the money yo have spend from her parent if dem can't be able to provide it let them give u the pride Price money .you have need to involved ur pastor or any family member that ur wife denying u sex after u have done the most important tin which the Bible said we should do She is hiding something |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by rafabenitez: 4:27am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Africans are so stupid that they dont know traditional wedding is the main and only wedding approved by narure and God himself,christ never attended any white wedding,white wedding is not a must,d most important is traditionally,ur parents bless and approve the union, for her loving the things of God more dan u her husband is even a greater sin,none of her prayers will be answered if she doesn't obey u as the husband. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Didi0808(m): 4:35am On Oct 31, 2019 |
The real marriage institution is the Traditional wedding, church wedding is a religious concept.The problem now is how will she function in the marriage with her strong religious believes.I pray you don’t get the shock of your life after the wedding.The probability of her being a virgin is 90/10. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by wisestman(m): 4:36am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I pity the lady that wants to marry this kind of guy, it's obvious that the op is a self centered person that only thinks about himself and nothing more... 6 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ufotty2001: 4:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
she is using a cream called virg.ina tightener.. the more days you wait the more the virg.ina become tight so she is using that white wedding to delay sex so that her virgin.a will be tight and look like a virgin... fear oweerri girls |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by bilag17(m): 4:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
@igwegeorgiano, you agreed on her terms from the beginning, and you were comfortable with it, otherwise you should have clarified, and sorted out this delicate issue then. When you talk of marriage, there are three important phases or aspects of this. 1. The Court / Registry Wedding 2. Traditional Wedding 3. The Church Wedding. Have you done the Court Wedding? You stated you have done the traditional, which has given her the right to move in with you. In some parts of Nigeria, man and woman live together, and later formalise the union after having children ( based on financial issues, and the understanding of both parties). The Church believes in both Court and Traditional weddings, hence the request for Court / Registry document before issuance of Church Wedding Certificate. Go through the thread below, and let your conscience guide you. https://www.nairaland.com/4229607/covenant-relationship-contract-marriage-vows Love knows no bound, and has no limit. You need to understand and accommodate yourselves. When you think it's the end, it's just the beginning. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by AleAirHub(m): 4:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
rafabenitez:Africans are indeed suffering from mental slavery bro ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by AleAirHub(m): 4:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
bilag17:Thank you |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 4:48am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: This is the best response I have read so far. I kept wondering before scrolling down to see your contribution, why someone would have a good wife and still complain? Are you marrying primarily because of sex? If you respect her, respect her view about life too. And if you had gone this far, suspending wedding because of differences in your views about timing for sex before marriage is too mean, unscrupulous, menial and preposterous a reason. Why can't you just wait until after the wedding? You won't die before then. After all, you will get tired of it after your wedding. Soonest, I will be getting married, and for love's sake, I have sincerely and happily respected all my fiancee's rules and I am more comforted to do so because those things are temporal but marriage is till death. So, why can't I endure what is temporal for that which is permanent since those things will by themselves go after wedding? I respect those godly principles of my fiancee cos that is what is called VIRTUE which is not common in this generation where we are controlled by our impulses and satisfy it at all cost and don't care whether we defy moral values or not. I pray she's not making a mistake, because your self-centeredness can affect your marriage, that's a bitter truth, except you change and allow God mold you. Please, desuspend your wedding (if there's an English like that), wait for that day and enjoy yourself after then. I understand, but still be patient; you will have a good wife in her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by xrayfab: 4:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: Mr. Man, you are very lucky to have such a woman as a wife. You have to respect her wishes as a child of God because she made it clear to you from day one. Now, my point is how can you date a woman for 1yr and 6month without taking her serious? If your wife can be this smart with the things of God, why did you choose not to be smart with the rules your wife made since sex is the paramount factor of you marrying your wife. IS THERE ANY RULES AGAINST DOING BOTH WHITE AND TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE THE SAME DAY? AND THEN ENJOY YOUR WIFE THAT SAME DAY Haba.....Why cant some men use their brain when things are so delicate to you like this..Huh? We made a mistake during Adam and Eve era, most we the men continue to make mistakes over women all the time? Mr. Man, allow your wife to be and respect her wishes and use your dump head well by immediately fast forwarding the white wedding the next week if you have the means and enjoy your right after church vows, even if you decide not to take pictures after the wedding and bundle her into the car and drive home straight to enjoy your woman, nobody will fight you after all its yours for life. This is a lesson to every other Men reading this, always learn to be smart when you have to be and stop coming to public place to display your stupidity. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Realfrankie(m): 4:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
E don be for you |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by whitering: 4:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Op, A promise with God is a big business. Pls respect her decision and wed her in the church. If she is a Catholic no Holy Communion for her until the church wedding. Pls respect the agreement both of you had. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Judybash93(m): 4:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Holy shit.. This is the funniest thing I've read in a long time... You're screwed bro!!! Sorry, but i think you just married an overly religious person.. |
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