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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Enemyofpeace: 7:06am On Oct 31, 2019 |
She has already killed your mood. On the so called wedding night she talked about, the screaming, moaning and shouting will not be as much and loud like now that you wanted her. If you know you |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Isoduwa(m): 7:06am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Anyhow marriage � |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by yincah38: 7:07am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: There is nothing lyk white wedding in the bible ... Traditional wedding is the ultimate bro Take her to the hospital to check if shes truly a Virgin b4 u continue with the white wedding |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 7:07am On Oct 31, 2019 |
PEPPERified: in other words people that just stick with traditional marriage Don't have a covenant with God buh the devil.. 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Chibex50(f): 7:09am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Na Wa oooo... If A Girl Loves You She Wouldn't Mind To HV Sex With You As Far As You Have Paid Bride Price... As Far As I Know, U Ppl Are Legally Married Already, But If She Feels OtherWise Then Let Her Go Back To Her Parents House And Stay Der Till After The White Wedding And Stop Tormenting You In The Same Room Without Giving You Sex... Being A Virgin Doesn't Guarantee That She's the Best Wife... All Of Us Are And Were Once Virgins .. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by voltron14: 7:09am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Spiritual implication of church wedding? ![]() Africans get problem sha. So the method of marriage of your forefathers is garbage? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by SirBrightoc(m): 7:09am On Oct 31, 2019 |
martowskin1: What if he talked her into that and out of respect, she consented? And he wants to actualize his ultimate goal. I don't praise her for agreeing to stay in his house under this condition. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Oyindaberry(f): 7:13am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: Babe, I don’t subscribe to your last statement. How is standing one’s ground a good quality to look out for in a spouse? Not in all cases. If it is based on the truth, then it’s fine but if otherwise, it’s terrible. A wife who doesn’t bend or rescind on her declarations even at her husband’s incessant decision? To me, it is a bad thing. It means such person is recalcitrant. I’m not saying this in relation to the subject discussed but saying it generally. Any ‘this is how I will do mine and nothing can change it’ person is someone to avoid. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Royalbloodline: 7:14am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Let us hope this is just a story. However, be it real or fake, the comments I have read so far is enough to aggravate the situation on ground. I bet the Op is even more confused than he was before posting this(if it is real) I will only say this: The black race are the most confused race on earth! We claim to know God even more than Jesus Christ! We have created a completely new CHRISTIANITY out of thin air, based on beliefs and unfounded theories of God of mens! Don't worry, Heaven will be a place of many suprises 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ruthe(f): 7:14am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, itdoes not boast, it is notproud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ginaz(f): 7:15am On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ruthe(f): 7:15am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Ephesians 4:2 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Rukkydelta(f): 7:15am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano you guys made an agreement so keep to the end of the deal. For most Christian ladies they see church/white wedding as a kind of purity and go ahead card to consummate the marriage. Please just do the white wedding to avoid issues because if you force her to have sex with you before the white wedding even if she doesn't resist physically it's going to be marital rape and your wife may be affected psychologically and emotionally by the act. She may not eventually enjoy sex with you in the long run by that act. Sex should be a willing act and enjoyed by both parties. You could have not go on with the marriage if you know you can't keep to the no sex till white wedding rule. But since you have already start the journey please don't stop the journey on the half road, continue it and it's too earlier for divorce stop listening to those youths preaching divorce up and down. Thank you. Happy married life ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by InansBobo(m): 7:15am On Oct 31, 2019 |
skylegend:Wait, is it that he can't break up with her after white wedding or what are you trying to say? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ruthe(f): 7:16am On Oct 31, 2019 |
There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. We love because he first loved us. 1 John 4: 18-19 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by youngvito: 7:16am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:What a life, does your wife mean traditional marriage does not amount to anything in today's society? U are her husband, and u have married her albeit traditionally, if that's not enough for her to engage in sexual activities with you then your wife is outright primitive. I advice you do not go ahead with the orthodox wedding, this is cheap blackmail and is a horrendous way to start marital life. You might need to to reorientate your wife as she clearly thinks marriage is child's play. Just my 2 cents |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Dumetroniks: 7:17am On Oct 31, 2019 |
So disgusted reading some bullshitting comments here. For fuc sake this dude is married and deserves his conjugal rights to its entirety. How can you deny a man sex after he has paid your dowry and acknowledged to every one that he has made you his. Reality check here for the born again enthusiasts. Jesus never attended any ‘church’ marriage in a synagogue or wherever. He attended traditional marriages in Cana and some other place. So pls quit this bullshit white man mentality of wearing white and believing that’s when you get married properly. Op the while things is still dependent on you and how stoic you can be with this particular scenario. No sex, no white bullshit. Let heaven fall. Hope you don’t login later to discover lake chad after waiting so long. Use your head! 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ruthe(f): 7:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
With all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. Ephesians 4:2-3 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ThinkSmarter: 7:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
She might actually be a virgin and a very religious one. She z probably trying to live by her religious doctrines I advice u exercise patient and go ahead with d wedding. But treaten her that u will divorce her after the wedding if u discovered that she z not a virgin and watch her response. But, honestly u re to cool. I can't pay someone's dowry without atleast using my finger to run a test to confirm that u re a woman |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 7:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Fine if she insists. But let her know that if she's not a virgin on the wedding night, next morning is divorce. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by nakoks(m): 7:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
okoroemeka: �� � walahi u be ewu�� |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by martowskin1(m): 7:19am On Oct 31, 2019 |
SirBrightoc: U see bro, am a disciplined person and serving God has nothing to do with that. I can't divide a meat I don't want to eat with my mouth. The way she stood her ground on the no sex issues, she should have also stood her ground on living with him on same roof b4 wedding. I know the young man is going over his head, bringing ur sex issue to a forum as this, it doesn't make sense he is sounding desperate. But she is acting as a catalyst to his desperation by living with him b4 the almighty church wedding which is a proof to her that she is married. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by suceess(m): 7:20am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Biblically once you have paid her dowry you are good. But since she insisted on church wedding but give a caveat that if she is not met as a virgin you will divorce her this biblically too. If both agreed then go for white wedding. God be with the union. But the question bro are you a virgin too? Just joking. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 7:20am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Ruthe:Yes mumu will satisfy her spirit, bad boy will satisfy her flesh ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Babinski: 7:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: Most people want spouses they can trust and who above all has the fear of God. Yet when they see the fear of God in action against their selfish desires they start having issues and complaining. Trust is based on integrity. People who don't stand by their words are not trustworthy. It is that simple. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 7:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: You should be ashamed of yourself as a man. Marriage hasnt kicked off you're here suspecting uneccasarily carrying your private issues to public for advice. Smh for you. If this is how you'll be behaving in the marriage, then let her be, it means you're unfit for the institution 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Enculer: 7:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Have you seen her pussy? She has probably screwed guys in the ass and in her pu.ssy. If she will not bang you, leave her fast. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ShawnT(m): 7:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Black market,what if after marriage she has vagina odour...bro you better check before marrying her. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 7:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
guy,you on your own.... a woman that makes appointments when to nyansh can aswell nyansh anybody.... sorry oo.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 7:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Chibex50:Na dis kine girl I dey like, just very wise and logical. Well done I enjoyed ya advise |
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