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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by nasoeb: 7:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I see 2 things here. 1. Op, if your wife had told you she is a born again Christian and would wait till "after" her white wedding to make love with you and you "accepted" it so. Then you shouldn't complain because that is what you've signed up for, so she has a point against you there. 2. A born again Christian shoild also realise that what the Bible recognise is even a traditional marriage. And having done that means befire God and man, you guys are husband and wife. And if that be so, you have every right to how body. Meaning that you also have a point against her here. Now the question is what drives you to wanting this seex from her now? Is it because you are so very Hot and cant wait or you are beginning to have doubt her virginity? If it's doubt, then you can still have her maintain her stand of seex after white wedding and you can still be assured she is a virgin or not by hoing for a virginity test. So you can clear your doubt and respect her wish at the same time. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Badooguy: 7:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
So you want the guy to shift her pant, i go tell her mother that you said the guy should shift her daughter pant. scaramucci: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 7:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
GoddonBishop: point of correction it is after the traditional marriage go to a registry sign the cert your finished.. and they are married in the eyes of GoD and man.. let me ask you do you think hindu marriage is recognized 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by amendara1: 7:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
This is a very simple things to do, Op u have been waiting for the past 1yr 6months now, am sure your wedding will come up in less than 3months, i think it worthy waiting, however u said she'd said it before you both commence the relationship. Talk to her pastor and fix the date for the white wedding asap and start your enjoyment. I did my traditional in October and white wedding in March the following year yet no sex until wedding night as agreed by both of us. Don't let pple mislead you, u'll thank God for given her to you at the end cus women that love God are priceless virtues... Best of luck. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ursulaa(f): 7:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I understand the point the lady is making, in my house, the greatest gift u can give to my parents is walking down the aisle a virgin, that's why most people tend to do both the white nd traditional wedding same day... Op, exercise a little patience 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Lordbricks(m): 7:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter:My thoughts exactly..you knew from the beginning and agreed to it so why the fuss now..if you waited for 1yr 6months what's the big deal in waiting for the white wedding. As long as she is also faithful on her own part then you should also wait.marriage is not sweet always..what if you get married and she becomes sick to the point she can't have sex that means you will just go outside and get laid regularly. If you cant make sacrifices then my brother marriage isn't for you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 7:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:Don't put the wedding on hold, please. Think of these: 1. Remember you agreed not to have sex until the night of your wedding. Be a man of your word. Your wife will also trust you if you can hold. But why do really want to have sex before marriage? 2. If she is truly a born again Christian, please respect her own opinion. Sex before marriage is not it at all. You can hardly find such woman nowadays. Remember i say if she is truly a born again. hope you are also born again? 3. You should be a man that can control your emotion. Please work on it. 4. No matter the issue discuss with her and you people should agree. It is called marriage and not slavery. Even when you are married she still retain her right as human being. 5. If you know you cannot cope with her in the same house. Let her find somewhere to stay. maybe your church member, family members, female friend. Please don't follow some of the advice you have here. Only those who have a shoe on, knows how it pinches. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 7:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
obidark: very true, imagine the self imposed right op has given to himself , this is how some husbands rape their wives without knowing, because you have done the traditional rites her body has now automatically turned your property like damn and you say you love her? where is the respect for each other and all that love crap the Op posted about. men, some people though. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by herakles: 7:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Yuneehk: deceiving yourself 4 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Ruthe: uhmm.... eve,please....i know wan argue with you.... i always loose against women.... i dont bother no more.... cheers.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by amadiwati(m): 7:45am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Conji is a bad thing. It doesn't matter whether she's a Virgin or not. She made it clear to you much earlier. I would advice to make her "swear" to you that she's a Virgin. Since she keeps to her words . make tell the consequences of her lying and that you'd also keep to your word if you discover that she lied to you. You stayed 18months and conji didn't kill you. Just be patient. igwegeorgiano: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 7:45am On Oct 31, 2019 |
WriterX: No he needs to know with this mentality he can't manage a marriage for the long haul. He knows his lady better and if she's a good sorry very good lady he should understand her position than let doubts and fears brought about by misconstrued opinions of/from people get sowed into their marriage. Its sickening man asking for counsel on such petty matter. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ctleurocollege: 7:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: Words of wisdom |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by 24kmagic: 7:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
If I ever find myself in that kind of situation and it turns out she's not a virgin after the so called church wedding, I swear to God I'm divorcing her immediately and she must return all my bride price. And even if she's a virgin, the first words I will tell her after deflowering her is "Now that the hymen is broken, let me see what you have to offer me in this marriage" Nonsense |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 7:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
obidark: obidark: very true, imagine the self imposed right op has given to himself , this is how some husbands rape their wives without knowing, because you have done the traditional rites her body has now automatically turned your property like damn and you say you love her? where is the respect for each other and all that love crap the Op posted about. men, some people though. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by edunaragold(f): 7:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Bro its means na she go dey control u now,if i were u never have that sex again till she cry and beg u.when she is not a Virginia,yeye. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Sorrentino: 7:47am On Oct 31, 2019 |
A woman who's still dictating when to have sex or not after traditional wedding no be wife o |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Chummynoni(m): 7:48am On Oct 31, 2019 |
gone are those days of no sex b4 marriage. the most painful part is that you have paid her brideprice. lets just hope tat she is a virgin because if she isnot, that wud b a tragic thng. and if she is a virgin perhaps, i pray you dont have a boring sex life. i wish you all d best |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:48am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: he is a stvpid man....why come on social media to ask for advice....?? cant he just talk with her....?? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Minjim: 7:48am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Traditional wedding is the only wedding rem documented in the Holy Bible. Any other wedding is man made. You've already done ur wedding, so have ur wife |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by wezzymoney: 7:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
If you can't taste what you are paying for too nothing is moving forward, after traditional wedding my brother you are scammed |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 7:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Akseph: to be real I am just irritated by how the op is going about it but I am not angry at him, I am a guy and we'll I know I can't be in such awkward position shall but I think your advice would serve him alot. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by oladiran2(m): 7:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I believe after traditional wedding both partners should have the been married already mentality cos parents would believe they have hand over their daughter with so much cries....why now getting to the husband house and still standing on rules. To me the man has fulfilled his part of agreement cos even the parents can't hear this and support cos they won't believe the man when they will already be counting months for grandkid.....only God knows the end of this problem if it turns out to be a problem.I hope she never told you she is still a virgin cos that could complicate everything if after it's d opposite cos there are some ladies who would have been in d world and then repent and make a vow not to indulge in such action again so if she never told you she was a virgin you have to be patient if after all she turns out not to be one after the white wedding cos that could be the end of the wedding. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by iamdrduru: 7:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
skylegend: I've seen men that abandoned a lady after having sex on traditional marriage. Op, fast track the wedding, marry her. All these people saying she's hiding something are just bunch of promiscuous men. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Minjim: he no wan comsumate.... he is askin for advice how to comsumate his own wife.... nawa.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Osashalom: 7:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:Some of you act like boys. This girl told you everything before you started. You even claimed you respect each other's opinions but with what you are saying here that is a lie on your part. It is not as if she is not your wife but there is something about agreement. If it was only tm you guys agreed on, your pastor would have prayed for you that same day after the tm and you go and do your thing. Tm since 15th July what are you waiting for before you do the wedding? Even though we have not heard from the girl, I can still say she is more righteous than you. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 7:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
obidark: The thing dey pain me. Other ladies seeing this thread now go dey say na so men dey think, that's why ladies are turning harder by the day on men cause of stvpid ones 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: nawa.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by oladiran2(m): 7:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Is traditional wedding not wedding or because it's traditional in front of the wedding and not church? WriterX: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nnemuka(f): 7:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
mumu men ; yall deserve the kind of ladies you get I bet you heard virgin, and u rushed her and probably single handedly provided everything she needs as a man. see naa, coochie you no come get Truth is, she's a spiritual person and a born again fix your wedding, if after wedding, what is served is not what u ordered.for then u can complain. For now, finish what u started You agreed to no sex, so keep it like that. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ctleurocollege: 7:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
This is how you will lose a good woman because of your dicck. What's stopping you from doing the White wedding if you're a true Christian? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 7:52am On Oct 31, 2019 |
edunaragold: well-done prophet habacock |
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