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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by TheSociopath(m): 7:52am On Oct 31, 2019 |
If you eventually force yourself on ur wife before the white wedding, she will resent you for life. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by OhBiafra: 7:53am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Ursulaa:Do your parents inspect you girls from time to time to confirm the virginity? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ctleurocollege: 7:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
oladiran2: Traditional wedding was done for traditional African religious practitioners, how can a Christian refuse to marry in Church? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 7:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Nnemuka: what I don't understand is was he not planning to do the white wedding at all I Mean if you have done the traditional rites already what really keeps him from doing the rest and to think he is postponing the said white wedding and getting the family involved in this, I don't know how people dey act shall. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 7:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
peepydelano: My friend be quiet. How can someone who lies about such be God fearing? It's ur type that confuse true Christians with church goers and pastor pleasers/ worshippers.... No be only blessed amongst women... blessed is the fruit of her womb 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:56am On Oct 31, 2019 |
WriterX: chai....stvpid.... when women ar hot at you,they will nyansh you anywhere,anyday.... some men are very stvpid.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 7:56am On Oct 31, 2019 |
ctleurocollege: how does being a true Christian relate to white wedding |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by peeps4u: 7:56am On Oct 31, 2019 |
You're already married, as the traditional marriage is even more recognised that the church one, since the parents have given consent to her being your wife by collecting those items. But you've erred the moment you agreed to her "No sex even after traditional marriage until church wedding", you only have to endure. Plan on the church wedding and get married so you can have your darling wife to yourself and pound as you wish. I only hope she's a virgin as she claims, let her know the implication if the claim is false. May God bless your marriage and make you sexually compatible cuz I fear the sexual compatibility........ igwegeorgiano: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ursulaa(f): 7:57am On Oct 31, 2019 |
OhBiafra:Lol, nothing like that. You'll just have to go for virginity test before the white wedding |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 7:57am On Oct 31, 2019 |
ctleurocollege: who own white wedding is it God or the British |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 7:58am On Oct 31, 2019 |
oladiran2: what you are not seeing was the decision this two matured individuals made before the start of this, for me that's a very important ritual for any relationship, listen bruh I have done 2 and 8months without sex , if you can't respect the decision of a lady you claim to love then what's the love you talk about even more where is the trust that you built that love upon. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by okwute82: 7:58am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Oga respect her decision and fix morning wedding the following day She told you ahead of time so u must respect it 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kolawole247: 7:58am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Sex before marriage is a sin ,paying her dowry does not give you access you have to finish all necessary right which part of it is after the main wedding in which a man of God has join you together . I endeavour you to proceed with the wedding and do the needful. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by okwute82: 7:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Oga respect her decision and fix morning mass wedding the following day She told you ahead of time so u must respect it 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Infeno(m): 7:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
pls bro respect her and obey her decisions. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 7:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905: what the hell is that....?? i stick my dickk in you after your agreed,then we are already married....!! i dont need some type of certificate for that.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by OhBiafra: 7:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
iamdrduru:Maybe because they discovered lies or saw something they couldn't endure for life? Believe me, white wedding won't change that 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ayodeji2k14: 7:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
She is lying and she is sleeping with another person. Another side guy is satisfying her libido. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by oneTIMEman(m): 8:00am On Oct 31, 2019 |
She told you and these and you still made her your wife, no advice for you bro. What God has join together... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 8:00am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Ursulaa:So this means ur a real virgin virgin as in not those ones who give head and take anal |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by horserace: 8:00am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I had the same issue with my wife when I was dating her,we court for 5 years before we our marriage and her virginity was intact but I have always help myself with other girls ever since I know she was a virgin,i have date five virgin before but my wife is one in a million.so bro try to stick to her decision uote author=igwegeorgiano post=83593823]Friends on NL I greet you all. Trust your day is going well? It is with very heavy heart and confused state of mind I sent this post on this platform so you can advise me on what line of action I should take. Pastors and genuine men of God should also advise me on what to do as well. There is this lady i have been dating for about a year and 6 months now. We love each other to the moon and most importantly we respect each other opinion and decisions. She is a born again christian who appreciates the things of God more than she appreciates me which of course I have no issues with. When we agreed to start up a relationship after being friends for about 6 months, it was agreed that there will be no sex until the wedding night but at a point I asked her "what if we are done with traditional marriage rites are we still not gonna have sex? To my creates surprise she said we won't until church wedding is done. I did not actually took her serious. Fast forward, on the 15th of July 2019 the traditional marriage was done in her father' compound in the east and all I was asked to pay and give was paid and given without any remainder . after the traditional marriage we went back to my house in abuja. Note that we were not staying together before now. I am base in abuja while she is in owerri. When we got home that night I told her we can now make love as husband and wife hence the traditional rites has been done and most importantly the bride price paid. To my amazement my wife bluntly refused. She told me she will never compromise her stand on pre marital sex I have been very faithful to our agreement based on her claim that she is a virgin. But refusing me my right over her body after every thing including the bride price has been paid is something I can never subscribed to and to this end I have I have involved her parent and her pastor her decision however, still remain no sex till the wedding night. I am putting the wedding on hold for now until she willingly allow me make love to her and she seems not to be comfortable with my decision as well. This is the dilemma I have found myself please I need your wise counsels on this. Thanks and remain bless. Moderators kindly push this post to the front page so it can have adequate views it deserves thanks[/quote] |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by pidtzcruz(m): 8:01am On Oct 31, 2019 |
okoroemeka: Nice stuff joor.....if na for me oo, i will jus arrange for one Sunday and pastor go jus bless the two of us...i go con kno wether she no go allow me enter[quote][/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 8:01am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905: you do know even the whites most of em don't go to churches to Wed and yes it's still termed a white wedding. the idea of white wedding for a Christian is the legal bounding of a man and a woman before the altar of God by a priest or a pastor in a view you can say this is a religious white wedding . 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nwaonyishi69: 8:01am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Sorry, but, did she claim she is a virgin or is she marrying you out of pity? Well, the case is your own and your heart should lead you. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 8:02am On Oct 31, 2019 |
pidtzcruz: kiiiki.... 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by okwute82: 8:02am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Oga abi madam go and read your Bible very well and stop deceiving urself, u are married once the both families agree and give their blessings kolawole247: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ctleurocollege: 8:02am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905: What sort of question is this? Those vows made during church wedding is it for the British or to God? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Christmasdon(m): 8:03am On Oct 31, 2019 |
MR MAN tell her you are the head of that relationship and your words stand. She can't control you. let her go if she wants. you are the one to say sex before marriage or not. you are a man for goodness sake. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 8:03am On Oct 31, 2019 |
WriterX: please show me where in the Bible that says white wedding is the real wedding.. you do know that white wedding is also a traditional wedding to White's .. do you still know we have different races and culture's so if Asians Indians africans don't conform to another race way of life then they are not right In the sight of God |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ursulaa(f): 8:04am On Oct 31, 2019 |
dairykidd: Lol, its not like there's anything special about it bt if that's what makes them happy .... 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 8:04am On Oct 31, 2019 |
obidark: hahahah well come to the 21st century where ignorance, stupidity and overall foolishness are celebrated. continue your life bruh, I have no qualms with you. |
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