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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ursulaa(f): 9:39am On Oct 31, 2019 |
dairykidd:Its not like am not happy about it, I've never been a fan of premarital sex 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:39am On Oct 31, 2019 |
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 9:39am On Oct 31, 2019 |
witworth: wat....?? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Acidosis(m): 9:40am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Adabekee04: White wedding night or traditional wedding night? Please clarify. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 9:40am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Ursulaa: oo my,you cute.... ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Gudlite: 9:40am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Bros ,you are aware of her conditions before Sex,and yet you continued with marital plans with her, My humble advice,since you have started with that conditions,it ought not be a partial acceptance.,Just complete it,if you truly loves her Fix the wedding or alternatively,you mustn't make the wedding elaborate, you can call a man of God to bless the Union and you are good to go. Trust me ,you will be tired of having sex with her. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Kingpele(m): 9:40am On Oct 31, 2019 |
[quote author=marvin905 post=83617526] read my statement again.. what do you mean by him being a Christian[ a Christian is someone that abide in the virtues of lord Jesus Christ, and a godly church is against sex before wedding, if u are in Rome behave like romans, if the op is not a serious Christian, the girl might be disappointed with time, this one he has started bringing their matter even before the marriage begins to the world, if he is traditionist, he should go and marry a traditionist, who will have sex after trad. It this such as this that bring house of God into disrepute.... A good Christian will not demand sex still it is blessed before God in the presence of the church as witnesses to their union... If is an ocult sect, will he treat their rules as he is doing now to sound Christian doctrine... That the point.... |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 9:41am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Gudlite: dont mind am....he is a stvpid man.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 9:41am On Oct 31, 2019 |
LadyHeaven: "My principle my principle" is the result of failed marriages today, no one wants to bend for the other. Marriage is all about compromise, if you want everything to go your way hmmm... you are on your own and besides once a bride price is paid she automatically becomes his wife other forms of marriage are just ceremony. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:42am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Adabekee04: Don't let the insecurities of unstable people get to you my dear 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 9:43am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: thx....her parents already approved.... whats his problem....?? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Deepthoughts: 9:44am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:what were you thinking when you accepted the no sex till wedding night condition from her,at least you should have also add a caveat that if she turns out not a virgin eventually,then divorce and refund of your expenditure shall follow,then you can be even.As it is now I suspect there is a short coming she is trying to hide from you until you are trapped,my mind is even telling me it has to do with her kpekus,so be prepared. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:45am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: Good character and submissiveness. What part of submission dissolves a woman of her right to her choice, especially when not even married. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Adabekee04(f): 9:45am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Church/white wedding of course Acidosis: 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by obidark: 9:46am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Deepthoughts: lets be honest and let the hogwash talks....!! she doesnt love him....!!....simple.... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 9:47am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:............... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 9:47am On Oct 31, 2019 |
obidark: Na so virgin girls be their know know to much, just because you met them a virgin they think they are better than every other person. Gone are the days when men they find virgin like I said, good character and submissiveness is the most important. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 9:47am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Oyindaberry: I understand you, there should room for compromise in relationships. But standing her ground isnt really the main thing here... the point is that he didnt bother to acknowledge her stance on the subject...he just thought he would be able to have his way later. So its him who is recalcitrant. If you expect somebody to just drop their beliefs just because you say so without any deliberation then it means that you dont have respect for that person. It means you just see them as your toy that you will be chopping and changing on them and they cannot do anything about it. Is the wife stupid? Doesnt she have a reason for her behaviour or her own view? Why doesnt he try to understand her instead of shrugging her off as if she is a child? Thats why I made the last statement "shouldnt you be happy that...?" I meant that he should be happy that he married somebody who can take a firm decision and not be blown by the winds or forced into doing what she is uncomfortable with. If he had said that they had been arguing about it for the whole 1 year and she refused to be moved, then you would have a point. But he heard what she said, didnt bother to explain that he didnt like it for such a long time and now is coming back to complain. If you are saying it generally then yes, there should have been some room for manoeuvre seeing as they both have different beliefs and its not good to just go strongly ahead without considering how your partner would feel. Compromise is the word. But there was no discussion in this case, how did he expect her to suddenly give up on what she believes in without persuading her first, rather he used her parents and pastor to try to bully her? This is the same behaviour that guys use to force a woman to stop working after marriage and stay at home when she has been working all the while and he behaved as if he was okay with it. Why not make your opinion clear from the beginning so that both of you have the opportunity to decide if you want to go ahead |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Duggedised12(f): 9:47am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:you mother is the slut,the real one ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 9:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
fela4live: Of course, traditional marriage has spiritual backings. Who said that it doesnt? Even my own parents only did trad so kindly see yourself out of my mentions! Confused people who dont read somebodys post very well Shior! |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by paix(m): 9:49am On Oct 31, 2019 |
I would sincerely advice you wait till after the wedding. Payment of bride price is an indication that the woman you intend to marry is now readily yours. Please be patient, I don't believe she's hiding anything from you, whether she's a virgin or not; that's not the point. Bear with her and don't nurse any ill feelings. The sex you are craving for, you'll always have it over and over after the wedding. Good luck as you patiently wait. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Yawns, fellow woman hater who calls herself posh, classy, elegant and decent but takes offense when another lady SAys the same about herself, woman hater. The Op's chick isn't responsible for your loneliness. Fix your yourself, turn yourself to a mechanical shop to get fixed today, oode |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by smokeyupu(m): 9:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Drkeo:What if she has a 9 inch clitoris or what if she's a Hermaphroditus's? Or a retired akuna wet don finish? Traditional wedding done guy should pray and proceed |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 9:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: They are married Uncle Kunle, once the girl's parents gives you the permission to take their daughter and her bride price has been made she automatically becomes your wife. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ricki: 9:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Newguyhere: Hmmmm, i have to admit 1st time reading a line like this .........read in seconds and ponder on it for ages. Sir, You have wisdom. I salute |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by midnighter(f): 9:52am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Alaniyiokorausa: No I am not saying that. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Bigii(m): 9:52am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: Real G. I hail you bro. Oil dey your head ![]() With us, no woman's condition can see the sunset ![]() We know ourselves. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:52am On Oct 31, 2019 |
StacyO: If she does a virginity test, it will hurt the marriage even more. Trust will ne shattered completely in the union.He agreed from the onset and was unable to put her in the mood to make her love and crave for sex. He has to wait. If she fails his test, it equates fraud, he then has the right to call of the marriage. My two cents 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Annie001: 9:53am On Oct 31, 2019 |
It painful to read some comment So because she wants to remain a virgin till her wedding night means something is fishy We are in a terrible world nowadays Op she told you from start and you agreed so pls wait till your wedding night Do not listen to all this people that will later end up with a prostitue as wife to destroy what you have been patient for Shalom Secondly if you stand on the terms of having sex with her before her white wedding I will advice the lady to even leave you because you are not worth it Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Ursulaa(f): 9:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
obidark:Awww... Thanks a lot 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Annie001: Thanks. Another sane comment. What's more weird is seeing females stand against the Op's fiancee like she's responsible for their disvirginity. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 9:54am On Oct 31, 2019 |
[quote author=Kingpele post=83618162][/quote] all what you said doesn't make someone a good Christian.. I can do it and still won't be a good Christian.. let me clear this to you even without getting a blessing from the church they have the right to sleep with each. as far they have done what God have said concerning marriage please read your Bible.. as far as the two families agree and the bride price have been paid they are married in the sight of God whether church blessings or not |
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