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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:55am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: No they aren't as they both have not stood before God, but till now have only stood before tradition, parents and men. She wants God's blessings and wants to stand before Him unblemished. He knew he was dealing with a born again from the onset and should stick by the rules of engagement even obatala,amadioha,sango,oya,yemoje,amadioha,ikenga,Buddha has rules Don't get it twisted. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Duggedised12(f): 9:57am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:see this one, you really are ret@ded lol,so yo see my comment as hate? Lol what will some not see on this forum,a vermin with a useless LovePeddler of mother thinks everyone is like the females in his family. OK come and fix me , since you obviously have online human diagnosis. I am waiting,meanwhile how do you want the thunder that will fire you? Loud or silent? ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by LadyHeaven(f): 9:57am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: I doubt any sane person would believe that everything would go their way, she is not asking for much than for her man to bed her after wedding her in the presence of the Lord, it's not to much to ask, if my man tells me before hand that after marriage we would live with his mother for a while and I go ahead to marry him and turn around later to say I can't live with her because I felt he was only "joking" won't that make me a confused being? We should learn to respect each other's choices. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by bizhop01: 9:58am On Oct 31, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy:So is right for born again christian to left her father house and live and sleep with the same bed with a man that is not her husband? If she don't want to have sex with a man that paid her bride price, what's stop her from staying in her father house until white wedding? This is religion madness along with misinterpretating. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 9:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Yawns. Try harder. You took ten light years to come up with this thrash. Waste of fees. Should have been sent to do menial jobs. You're as stvpid as you're broke intellectually. Nigga's got beta use of time. Now. Stay fvcked. Damaged being 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by content208: 9:59am On Oct 31, 2019 |
scaramucci: The traditional marriage is the real marriage. That's what we were doing before oyinbo man foisted on us and we have been stupid to place more importance on oyinbo idea than our own |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:00am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:............ |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:01am On Oct 31, 2019 |
LilMissFavvy: My lil chum chum. Chum Chum Chukwu ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:01am On Oct 31, 2019 |
paix: dude they are married as far as the two families agree and the bride price have been paid they are married |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:01am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: Well Bro, everyone has their own beliefs. I only blame the guy he would have backout. Leave born-again jore, these set of people are the people with hideous characters. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:02am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: please show the place In the Bible that relates with what you said.. and tell me what is the highest type of marriage rite done in the Bible |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Duggedised12(f): 10:03am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:lol,no i took a second mor0n, i doubt cos you took time to read to page 16 to dig put my comment ,who does that? Lol ,you don't want to fix me again? Mother fucker. Atleast i am not a scammer looking for who to flease of their money on nairaland thief ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:03am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:So the parents don't represent God? God is no longer everywhere? What has doing marriage in one's culture got to do with obatala and co? Are we this weak ? Don't go there as it makes no sense. Seems u are one of those pastors who deceive ladies but go behind their back to do otherwise. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by upuphim(m): 10:03am On Oct 31, 2019 |
You should have gone for ladies with the same belief with you. People like you will break marriage vows. But I blame her for accepting you and also for going with to Abuja after traditional rites. Those saying she is not virgin, was that her reason. She believes PREMARITAL SEX is a sin. So if you can't wed her in church and have your love consummated, return the bride price because broken engagement is better than broken home. 5 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:03am On Oct 31, 2019 |
StacyO: You seem not to understand. A woman is human despite the need for submissiveness in marriage. If he demands for virginity test, it will damage her ability of him to trust her word and their decisions in the marriage proper. The decision from the onset was assumably not about sex or the vagina, but about principles, morals and beliefs, upholding and standing by then will prove his belief in her and improve them even as they go on with decision making tussles within and in the marriage. My two cents, I can marriage a disvirgined woman, but if you say you're a virgin and no sex, no wahala, if after the first sex you're not a virgin, the next morning, I'm calling it off, its called fraud. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:04am On Oct 31, 2019 |
upuphim: Straight home. No need to create thread. He still can walk away even now |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:05am On Oct 31, 2019 |
sassysure: Who is this trying to sound wise. The Op's girl isn't the reason for your sloppy morality. Get lost. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:06am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Low. Try harder |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:07am On Oct 31, 2019 |
LadyHeaven: "It isn't much to ask" that how it goes for every other issues, well I don't blame her, the guy who thought he could change her mind is the one to be blamed. For every 1man there are 3women, don't know why men stress their selves when it comes to issues of finding a wife. Any type of woman a man seeks they are everywhere, is just finance that limits a man's choices. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:07am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905: I'll show you if you're the owner of the vagina. Olodo. Kids who denigrate principles, that's why they always fall victims to what wasn't meant for then to become victims of. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:10am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:.......... 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:10am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: I can stake my ticket this isn't about hideous issues. See bro, no woman can ever lie to me. Once any woman does, a man should know where to go to get/find answers without even asking the woman. I catch many a lot before/without confronting them. Plus, one can't get married to someone they haven't watched. If he engaged her, during the courtship he should have ascertained her persona and should ba able to matchup the principles against the personhood to know if hes dealing with a liar, which in this case isn't the case. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by DozieInc(m): 10:10am On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter: You deserve a medal. Igwegeorgiano listen to advise |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:11am On Oct 31, 2019 |
elitejosef: By next available Saturday, I mean just follow her the wedding. My fiancee too want her an elaborate white wedding. I told her that when she decides on a date, she should communicate that to me and I will show up on the day of the wedding to play my part. Let her plan the wedding and tell him the date and venue. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:12am On Oct 31, 2019 |
StacyO: He's unable to turn her own to lose her guard on his own. He's trying to enter the oucci through her head instead of through her mind. To fvck any lady, you must increase desuriablity and make her mentally fvck you and be all over you mentally before the physical act takes place. Na she go dey ask first. Ask him of his behavior, you'll see the answers there. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:12am On Oct 31, 2019 |
You are so freaking childish yet you want to settle down. She told you everything and her stand before you got into the relationship. If you truly love her you will do the needful then have her as you wish. You are sounding like she is an item you paid for. If you love her follow her lead in the end you both will be happy. Trust me there is nothing as bad as making love to a woman whoose mind is not there. She will resent you eventually. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Acidosis(m): 10:12am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Adabekee04: Traditional wedding or the payment of bride price is not enough for you to sleep with your man? You're a religious fanatic. White wedding is not in your bible. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Duggedised12(f): 10:12am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:13am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Duggedised12: Blackmail typical when they can't debate intellectually. You lost a debate not money, now go scrub the toilet floor eediat |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:14am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: If she dont want to have sex, what is she doing in his house,hypocrite? What message is she sending across by living with him in the same house, isn't that a sin too? The bible said If your left hand will lead u to sin, cut it off. She sleeps with a man whose brain is already wired to see her as his wife. She is a wicked soul. She should go back to her mother's house in owerri. Robbing Peter to pay Paul. The man has restraint and I commend him. Some other would have raped her and nothing will come off it. She is his wife. Simple. U hypocrites trying to justify nonsense. How come u didn't see that she is already living with him as his wife yet she is claiming holy. All the sins that man has been committing because of her is on her , pastor hypocrite who prefer another man's culture than his. Be it masturbation, be it thinking of looking outside etc is on her head. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by MisterKings(m): 10:14am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: Stay put...No wedding till you have sex. This is how it will go...if you allow this, she will expect you to allow all other rubbish she throws at you as the years go by in your marriage. The real marriage is the traditional marriage, not white wedding, that one is just party. So tell her, you are now her husband and if she will not do what you want, you will cancel the white wedding entirely. This is not PRE MARITAL sex. You are now married. Dont let religious fanatics fool you. She is your wife now, I see no reason why she wants some pastor to tell her that before she starts acting as one. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by XchUskY4u(m): 10:15am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Virginity test is the best OPTION to clear YOUR DOUBT |
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