Stats: 3,188,890 members, 7,935,809 topics. Date: Friday, 30 August 2024 at 04:25 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding (80818 Views)
Wife Insists On Having Separate Bedrooms After Wedding / MARTIAL BED: My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. / My Wife Says No Sex Until Her Mother Leaves Our House. (2) (3) (4)
(1) (2) (3) ... (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) (29) ... (33) (Reply) (Go Down)
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by paix(m): 10:15am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905:That's ok by me. If the white wedding is the stumbling block, why not do it next month? Case closed. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:16am On Oct 31, 2019 |
sassysure: Allow me reiterate, you're the one responsible for your damaged vagina. Stop taking it out on more decent people ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by LadyHeaven(f): 10:17am On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: It's pointless trying to reason with you, you already see the world through a myopic lens so I take a bow, have a good day sir. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by deltateam: 10:17am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: Oga if you are a Christian you would understand her stand. She has been straight forward with you so far. Fault is yours. I deduce you have the funds for wedding and I advise you do wedding and all holds would be unbarred. You claim you love her. This is a test of love. Don't force her against her will otherwise it would amount to rape. Abide by what you two agreed on. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by deltateam: 10:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Drkeo: Lousy comment. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by litaninja(m): 10:18am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Its quite unfortunate that your wife has either been brainwashed to the point where she believes any thing originating outside the shores of her homeland is the holy grail or you are being taken on the ride of your life. Different tribes have had the "marriage" rites from time immemorial. The "traditional wedding" you have done is your marriage ceremony. The christian wedding your wife is so adamant about is another tribe's traditional wedding. You are wasting your money and possibly your time with this person. igwegeorgiano: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:19am On Oct 31, 2019 |
The is nothing like church wedding , we just added that . My clear and sincere advise if she refuses sex push the white wedding or Church whatever it is . When you have paid the bride price you are good to go My brother. I you fix the wedding without sex then whatever outcome bear with it. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:19am On Oct 31, 2019 |
WriterX: I understand your points .. buh let me highlight something for you.. whether we like it or not both marriages are not on equal ground one out weigh the other.. let me put this to you.. you can do a traditional marriage without doing White in our society and in the eyes of God and man you are married buh you can't do a Christian marriage without a traditional no church will wed you ..if you know of a church that will do that please say.. and let me tell you this most people that seek white wedding isn't because of religious beliefs from my own observation.. as for me I couldn't careless about white wedding but if my future says she wants it and financial capable I will give it to her |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: now I know you're stupid |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
MisterKings:And she already packed her bags to Abuja to live with him in his house, yet she want the man to behave like stone. Agree to this and u will.soon start seeing, no sex during fasting for one month, church activities superseding her marital interest. So many of them have lead their husbands outside with their useless laws. I blame the @op, foolishly accepting the rubbish in the first place. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:21am On Oct 31, 2019 |
WriterX: I understand your points .. buh let me highlight something for you.. whether we like it or not both marriages are not on equal ground one out weigh the other.. let me put this to you.. you can do a traditional marriage without doing White in our society and in the eyes of God and man you are married buh you can't do a Christian marriage without a traditional no church will wed you ..if you know of a church that will do that please say.. and let me tell you this most people that seek white wedding isn't because of religious beliefs from my own observation.. as for me I couldn't careless about white wedding but if my future says she wants it and financial capable I will give it to her 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:22am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905:Thank You |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Acidosis(m): 10:23am On Oct 31, 2019 |
The Federal Government of Nigeria must as a matter of urgency place a HEAVY TAX on multiple weddings. You either do one or two of traditional, church/Islamic, and registry or pay a tax of N1,000,000 to your state government. If you are unsatisfied and filled with LUST so much that you desire 3 types of weddings in a poor country like Nigeria, you must forfeit 1 million naira to the government. If you don't know how to spend your money, the government will help. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:23am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb:Don't want to hear stories that touch the liver later sha. @op please use your number 6 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:24am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:24am On Oct 31, 2019 |
paix: and I ask what if he isn't financially capable.. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 10:25am On Oct 31, 2019 |
StacyO: Sorry about your vagina BTW and sorry about how cheaply people passed through in and out ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:25am On Oct 31, 2019 |
LadyHeaven: My friend, we all have different view about life. You don't expect me to take yours and I don't expect the same. That doesn't make you or I either right or wrong. Have a great day. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by MisterKings(m): 10:26am On Oct 31, 2019 |
sassysure: 100% agree with you jare. Nonsense nonsense things they bring up and down in the name of I am a Christian. What if in the end now she turns out non virgin, then what happens? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by WriterX(m): 10:26am On Oct 31, 2019 |
marvin905: no argument from my side, well said bruh |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by lizychimamanda(f): 10:26am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Mogambo123: ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:27am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: U resorted to insults when u were floored? U are no longer a pastor? How many have u deceived, u follow my words but not my action buffoon? Coming online to form pious and righteous. Small jab at you and your true colour manifested immediately ![]() ![]() |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by healthserve(m): 10:27am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Acidosis: See who's spreading fears again EkperemoEgbabi Apitch Willie2015 Now wasn't I accurate the other day? |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by marvin905(m): 10:27am On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: after observing your madness.. I give up on you.. can't waste my strength on someone like you
|
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by darelar(m): 10:28am On Oct 31, 2019 |
To the OP, am sorry to say this but I pray you won't regret that your action later. Am talking from experience, I was dating a girl that said no to sex and as baddo wey I be, I try to be a good boy for once due to several caution from my friend and one of her friend that I know her through. After almost 2 year's, we did introduction in 2012 during fuel subsidy strike and her parents gave us the full right as husband and wife. My girl still denied me sex and even came to my house and spent 13 days without sex. I have to discharge her with excuse that am going for job in Akwaibon and she needs to go back to her place for Xmas in December 2012. Her mum was very angry with her because of her action and my stands is that she need to be pregnant before I can do final marriage on her head . By 2013, she was pregnant for another guy and thanks to God and my � that I didn't put all my eggs in a basket. When am not pleased with her attitude, I was dating two girls, one said we can't marry on religion basis because of her dad and the other one is same religion which makes it more easier. By July 2014, she gave birth and am happy for her. Her parents disown her and I intervene on her behalf and I let her parents know that is the will of God and I have move on. I did my introduction on July and I invited her parents to my wedding in September, they we're very happy and pray for me and said they can't attend because they won't be able to face my family because of what their daughter did. By December, we're blessed with a child. So OP am not trying to discourage but be wise as both gender could act funny when it comes to preparing for marriage. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Aladdin1(m): 10:30am On Oct 31, 2019 |
virgin or not.religious or not.what i see here is that both of you are not sexually compactible.in the future,she would so starve you of sex and attention that you would be so sex-starved and frustuated that you would jerk-off till you nearly yank off your gbola.and you would start regretting of ever marrying her.from what i see here "sex" would be the bane of your marriage to this lady. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Yahami(m): 10:30am On Oct 31, 2019 |
To my pure understanding of faith, you have gotten the righteous wife, a God fearing someone indeed. I advice you go ahead for the wedding ASAP, even if at the end she is not virgin she might have know the righteous ways of life. One of my Mallam have ever told the gathering in his preaching that he can married prostitude from hostel as long as she has learnt the righteous way. Wish you both peaceful coexistence in your affairs, May I be forgiven wherever I err and add to my faith wherever I'm right...I lives everyone here in NL with the words " have fear of God in your view" 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 10:32am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Freehuman:Wow!! People are hiding a lot behind those beautiful faces ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mercy87(f): 10:32am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Oga agreement na agreement. The only thing I blame her is coming to live with you in Abuja. You have put the wedding on hold, You don even report her to her parents and pastors. You try well well. Clap for your self. Marriage never start u don dey do report report. Shame. All what I see is a strongly opinionated man who is equally hard. I doubt the love you even say you have for her. Jacob waited for Rachel seven years and the Bible says it was like a few days to him because of the huge love he had for her. Sometimes its not about right or wrong but making sacrifices, love is sacrificial. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Adabekee04(f): 10:33am On Oct 31, 2019 |
It is my choice Darling and I am entitled to it. Thank you Acidosis: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Rajman45(m): 10:34am On Oct 31, 2019 |
Sirvingeo:Calm down jor.... So the traditional marriage na devil involvement àbí?. Marriage starts and End with the payment or refund of the bride price. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by stephnie44(f): 10:37am On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:well if its d virginity stuff DAT is making u react. Take her for a virginity test |
(1) (2) (3) ... (23) (24) (25) (26) (27) (28) (29) ... (33) (Reply)
Wife Can't Tell Who Impregnated Her Between Her Husband & Her Father-In-Law / Man Raises Family Under Lagos Bridge / A Marriage List Given To A Man In Akwa Ibom (Screenshot)
Viewing this topic: 1 guest(s)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 113 |