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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by micxwell(m): 11:50am On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1:Let's go back to 100years ago! Was there church marriage? Traditional marriage tops it all then. Things have changed. If she's not a virgin, the marriage will eventually crash. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Acidosis(m): 11:51am On Oct 31, 2019 |
healthserve: Not a crime that you can't think for yourself dude. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by eguarojeona: 11:53am On Oct 31, 2019 |
NLSavage:Had a similar experience.Lol 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 11:57am On Oct 31, 2019 |
nextstep: You are indeed a mature mind! Majority don't know what it takes/means to be HAPPILY married&it's Y most are emphasising the bride price/right to d body. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 11:57am On Oct 31, 2019 |
cococandy:And she packed her bags to go and live with him in abuja ![]() People like that don't live together. She should be staying with her pastor's family or her parent. Tempting the young man unnecessarily yet saying no. She is lucky. Very lucky indeed. She is already living in sin as she is an enabler of sin ![]() All these our church people. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ZIMDRILL(m): 12:00pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
BarrElChapo: am sure you quote the me wrongly |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 12:00pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Mogambo123:That is, if the guy is a virgin! Which I doubt! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 12:01pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Enemyofpeace:Why & how won't you eat nonsense? 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 12:05pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
scaramucci:God blessed you with everything in life! You're not 100 percent complete, until you beg Him to give you some sense!
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Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mignone(f): 12:05pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Offpoint: The so-called white wedding doesn't have to be a lavish one;in fact, ppl (esp easterners) spend more on d trad. than to receive the priest's blessings. That aside, the point here is that there was an agreement. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Krizeukay: 12:05pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Bro, since you agreed to her early request of no church wedding no sex, do the needful. You are the one breaching the contract here. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Enemyofpeace: 12:05pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
mignone:At the end of the day you will discover that some people have been there before you. I just hope you didn't pay too much dowry on her. What is bad in test driving a car? I ate nonsense. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by mofemoyin: 12:11pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Bye bye you don enter one chance. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by rockyh(m): 12:11pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
What if u end up not having a white wedding does she mean to no sex again. Go home n ask her this question her answer would determine if u will move on or just take ur bride price back from her family mind u the white wedding is just a church blessing that's all because even the church will ask u if u have done your traditional marriage before the white wedding igwegeorgiano: |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:11pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242:Headstrong? are you kidding me? I hope you realize that God's commandment is more important than anything in this world! you want her disobey God to please him? you must be joking! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by BecaciaBarbie(f): 12:17pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano:Oh please! so what? I'd be disappointed if she succumbed to your pressure...sex is no food! I cant believe we still have people who reason this way. What is the big deal in having a small church wedding and devouring her that night? think man, you are starving yourself by delaying because she wont have sex with you until you do the rightful thing. The church wedding can be a very small arrangement, not necessarily an elaborated one and reception could be out of it. Be a man please. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by dennel(m): 12:18pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Op must be thinking about how much hookers he wud have gotten in his bed with the bride price paid and all the expenses for the traditional...* anyways, whr I come from, both traditional and religious wedding are like 5&6* probably if you had tried dt we wouldn’t be having this conversation or post! I understand that you are a man n those Tns matters a lot which most of those girls doesn’t consider but so selfish and sticks with the so called no sex before marriage tn* she mit be a real virgin you never can tell, she might mean it...forget that there’re experienced, dirty and borehole virgins out there* Just respect her decision and trust your instincts... You can hold yourself or go help yourself wisely whr safe* Respect her |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 12:20pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
do you really think you re the first person she is sleeping with.? mugu. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Acidosis(m): 12:29pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
dennel: Why is Church wedding so important in your place? Is it about the foreign British suit and white gown or the fact that you need your pastor's blessings? If the latter is your reason, why cant a man just go on a visit to the pastor's office along with his bride for blessings? I hope you won't quote any scripture or make reference to the bible cos that tradition is non existence in the same book you and your pastor hold in high regard. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by icankel: 12:30pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
midnighter:God bless u my dear, I feel like sending any available Boko haram person to his location. The girl been honest and transparent to him yet he's still lamenting, maybe he only wanted sex and the girl played smart on him 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 12:32pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
martowskin1: You are so right. She should have stayed with her family till the white wedding instead of living with him as a "half wife". If she's going to be his wife, she has to do it completely with all the benefits. She can't sleep in his bed as his wife and expect him to free her. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by buzorcharles(m): 12:34pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
igwegeorgiano: She may be a Virgin. But know that she MAY not like sex afterwards. She MAY BE complaining of pain during sex. Speaking out of experience. Meet my wife a virgin. But lovemaking name once in 2 wks 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 12:39pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: There's a thin line between being disciplined and stubborn. We should know when to drop the walls. Besides, her body is no longer hers alone. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 12:40pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
micxwell: That was my point. She's just being stubborn 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by tosinhtml: 12:40pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
BiggyB242: What you just described is totally different from what the OP is saying. This is a case of religious woman who wants a church wedding, that is all. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Erastuslove: 12:44pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Before you bought the package it was clearly written, "OPEN ONLY AFTER WEDDING" so why are you trying to be a thief? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 12:44pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Stop subjecting people to your standards madam. Your principles your biz, hers her biz. That's how it works. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by tosinhtml: 12:48pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1: Actually, the problem is Ignorance. This is what happens when you're dating an Ignorant person who has told you she is ignorant from the jump & you still went ahead. Church wedding & Traditional is totally unnecessary, proper waste of funds. - Go to Court - Tie the knot - Take pictures together - Then head to a decent low-budget reception Go home & Fvck your wife happily, Then head to Obudu Cattle Ranch for honey moon. Finito. |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by ImaIma1(f): 12:53pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
kunleweb: It's not "my standards". It's real life. I did trad, court and church before I moved in. Would you call that my standard? What is the standard? Is traditional marriage accepted as marriage? Is only court or only white accepted as marriage? It's her life, her business, her body...yet.she moved into his house after the traditional marriage as his wife...for what? To assume other wifely duties excluding sex. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by dennel(m): 12:55pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
Acidosis: Well, you can’t force everyone to reason just like you and that’s why we have different opinions, races, beliefs, religions, tribes and all... We all can’t sleep a turn our heads on a side, so dts why you need to look deep into others perspectives and either take or leave their decisions or ideas... Mind you, I still didn't oppose or claim you’ve spoken wrongly responding* Ts your own opinion n you damn entitled to it* 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by kunleweb: 12:58pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
ImaIma1: She reserves a right to her definitive of principles and institutions ma |
Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by Nobody: 1:04pm On Oct 31, 2019 |
okoroemeka:Hahaha maximum power |
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