Good morning @all

Thanks you all for your kindly advise last week. It exactly 7 days now someone (Ex) wished me dead. I brought the issue here and I was able to pick out reasonable advice. Majority said I should ignore her and move on, other conclude I must file a report.

A day after she posted the picture, I went to report her to a sarz officer holding the posted picture as evidence, they were shocked to see it, but it was already late in the night, so they told me to call them very early the following morning, to perfect the arrest.
I had made up my mind, I had never arrested anyone in my life, this had to be a very tough decision for me, especially someone that once showed me kindness.

That night, I had a dream, saw a particular person that wanted me to make sure I repot the case, warning me seriously in the dream never to involve the Sarz.

I was confused while waking up, I dailed the policemen contact, and immediately my battery went from 9% to 0% while calling. I had never experienced such on my phone.

I started feeling scared, but kept all to myself, that's how I refused to call the policemen. So I moved on as suggested by many. 3 days after she started calling and dropping messages, I taught it was another form of threat, I recieved her message, only to ser her apologizing. I tried not to respond, as my instincts keeps saying she's up to something, I was seriously angry from within, after reading her apologises and rejecting her several calls, my heart became very bitter, was feeling sick and couldn't think straight since then. I taught I was going to actually die.

This became persistent, serious nightmares. So this morning I decided to listen to a radio program, only for the sermon to keep addressing me and pointing at all my situation, like it was arranged for me. Lastly the preacher said I may end up dead if I refuse to forgive.

I don't want to hear her voice, so I decide to forward a Mesage to her on her Instagram page, notifying her if I've forgiven her.
But God this is something that forced tears out of my eyes.
I pray I feel better soon, been weak since yesterday due to severe loss of appetite.

It is u thinking too Much about the issue. Sometimes wen we think too much about things we go through everything we see reflect on them.
I might be wrong.

Op , you should forgive her truly.it will help you too . But try to keep her at arm length distance. She has a very bad mind

Sonfethopia:
It is u thinking too Much about the issue. Sometimes wen we think too much about things we go through everything we see reflect on them.
I might be wrong.

Someone said so, but I've tried working on it still yet I always get sacred at the sight of any unusually things since that day. I quit taking bikes or even avoid waking by the roadside. Almost using my mind. I really want to try the forgiveness.

erifeoluwasimi:
Op , you should forgive her truly.it will help you too . But try to keep her at arm length distance. She has a very bad mind

yea, but he should continue with the formal complain in the police and let her sign an undertaking.
Then forgive her and avoid her.

Thank God you forgave. Your own sins are forgiven. You are made whole in Jesus name. Go and sin no more.

It's nothing bro. Just some girls and their inherent stupidity orchestrated by their unchecked emotion

How many people have gone to Ig to check the chinkogold s page..


Loool

He should be thankful to GOD,sey dat girl no run go one juju for rivers state wey dem dey call tomorrow too far....by now dis him phone for Don dey for sell now or one family member for dey use am.

Very weird creatures.

Op, how old are you dakun? Like 17, 19?

You know how many dead threats i've received in life?

They will be pained, it's normal, they'd say and do a whole lot of nonsense, don't even give them attention, let the painment increase. It's normal they get hurt when you break up with them. They'd eventually return back to their senses after just like yours is doing now. She's coming back to herself. Thank God you didn't arrest her, you'd have hurt her the more.

The days she wanted you dead and gone is almost over, forgive her and help her recover quickly.

erifeoluwasimi:
Op , you should forgive her truly.it will help you too . But try to keep her at arm length distance. She has a very bad mind

she doesn't have a bad mind, she was only very hurt. They wished for every evil they can think of during that period, it will take time buh she will be okay las las.

Some of them knows how to manage themselves during the hurting period though.

Kapilta:
she doesn't have a bad mind, she was only very hurt. They wished for every evil they can think of during that period, it will take time buh she will be okay las las.

Some of them knows how to manage themselves during the hurting period though.

To wish someone dead because you are hurting is the worst thought you can have. If she had means she could have killed him that hour.

setobaba:

Someone said so, but I've tried working on it still yet I always get sacred at the sight of any unusually things since that day. I quit taking bikes or even avoid waking by the roadside. Almost using my mind. I really want to try the forgiveness.

smh. Why are you so scared of death though? You don't have control over it so why so scared about it? You can't live forever dude, you gon die someday for sure, so why so scared about some unnecessary/irrelevant stuff, come on live your life, not saying you shouldn't be careful about living buh it shouldn't be because of the stupidity of your ex.

You gon die las las, just make sure to know Jesus while you still can and never stay far away from God. Don't be scared of death bro, it's something you don't have power over and your ex can not kill you buh all the same pray bro.

What if they pursue you in your dreams? Or lay heavy heavy curses on you in dreams too? Or you dream of someone tryna lock you in an isolated building in only God knows where. I have dreamt of all this man, they've threatened me physically and spiritually buh i give no f**k. I'm not scared of death and by the way, it was just a relationship, none guaranteed it's gon last forever.

Though i have stayed away from girls though, the emotional stress is more than the enjoyment and they are emotionally bias. Do same if you can for a while.

erifeoluwasimi:

To wish someone dead because you are hurting is the worst thought you can have. If she had means she could have killed him that hour.

lies. If she was only filled with the thoughts of op living the world so she won't see him again, if she really wanted to hurt or kill op, she'll surely know the right way to go about it if she's truly a bad person you called her.

A girl killed her ex here some months ago using thugs, most of them know this right way.

Clout chasing. Am I the only person who found your first topic funny.

All the same,

Please help save a life

https://www.nairaland.com/5507357/please-save-emmanuels-life

This guy, you have time o. Na small girl deh give you POBEM like this?



My guy stop dating o. You never mature.

BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
Clout chasing. Am I the only person who found your first topic funny.

All the same, RIP to me in advance

Amen for you

setobaba:

Amen for you

OK maybe the joke was too harsh but you need not go back to people who wish you dead. They might just make their wishes come true.

BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
OK maybe the joke was too harsh but you need not go back to people who wish you dead. They might just make their wishes come true.

Not maybe, how could you be joking with someone else death?

erifeoluwasimi:

To wish someone dead because you are hurting is the worst thought you can have. If she had means she could have killed him that hour.

Pray the one you love don't dump you.

setobaba:

Not maybe, how could you be joking with someone else death?

but you forgave someone who wish you dead. How is my own different? Because I am a man

BUTTERMILKSUGAR:
but you forgave someone who wish you dead. How is my own different? Because I am a man

Pls stop been sarcastic

setobaba:

Someone said so, but I've tried working on it still yet I always get sacred at the sight of any unusually things since that day. I quit taking bikes or even avoid waking by the roadside. Almost using my mind. I really want to try the forgiveness.

Apologies for my 'stupidity'.

Have you considered turning to Jesus, and handing over the lordship of your life to Him? Salvation and absolute deliverance is in Him alone. In Him is light, and that light is the life of men. Why not let Jesus sort you out?

You wanted to involve SARS seriously.

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yea, but he should continue with the formal complain in the police and let her sign an undertaking.
Then forgive her and avoid her. [/quote

You better let sign undertaking before she kill you like chicken trust no one ]

Haba! this is very bad to be thinking bad to your fellow human being when he never offended you Omo buruku jatijati. Kindly forgive her and let go

Mr. Man, move on with your life before you die from your own silly self pity and self imposed depression.

You're starting to behave like a pussy.

I guess you used to beg her for sex when you guys were still together.

You even went to report her to SARS.

That's not smart.

SARS and regular police will only extort the both of you before letting her go.

One of them will also definitely collect her number and try to hook up with her later.

Don't be surprised if the same SARS dude comes to arrest you on trumped up charges after few bangings.

They don't even need to come up with ridiculous charges. You threatened to release her nudes, didn't you?

Mr Man, I suggest you lock up on this issue and let it slide.

But it seems like you're hanging on it cos you still like the babe.

And she probably still likes you too.

Or why else was she monitoring your WhatsApp status and even going as far as posting your pic on her Instagram page?

Did she do that to all her exes? The answer is definitely a no.

Sort your issue with her and turn her into your side chick.

She's no longer worthy of being a girlfriend since she already sampled your friends.

I wouldn't mind if you could give me her number so I can sample her too.

I really need a girl to experiment one mad doggy sex style I just learned on.

In return, I'll help you spy on her to make sure she won't carry out her death threat.

Me, you and your friends could even form a vagina fans club named after the girl and meet once in a while to drink and chat about the sex styles we've used on her.

Do we have a deal?