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If you're not ready you're not ready... It will hurt her but you hv to do what's best for


ps: this habit ur forming will make it difficult to fall in love in d long run.

AlphaME:
Hello romancelanders. i've had feelings for this particular girl for a long time now and we've been friends all through that period, but i never let her knew about it. the problem i'm having now is that she's fallen for me, yeah you read that right, it's a problem because i'm not financially stable and thats the reason i never told her how i felt. now i'm thinking of maybe hurting her in a way so she'll just forget about me, and hope my feelings for her die a natural death. i'm kinda confused wether to let her go. PS: we're both undergraduates and in same department

When you were having the feelings were you also feeling rich?

Because you are just wasting your time and life.

My dear, focus on building your financial life and stop catching or sending feelings....

No one here will give you a wiser counsel because in this economy people have to be smart.. And you are here proving less smart.


Pls wake up and move on with your life o

I know life can quite be unfair somtimes i mean why give me love when i can't afford it.

Are both glued to each other's loins?

Ladylite:


When you were having the feelings were you also feeling rich?

Because you are just wasting your time and life.

My dear, focus on building your financial life and stop catching or sending feelings....

No one here will give you a wiser counsel because in this economy people have to be smart.. And you are here proving less smart.


Pls wake up and move on with your life o

that is why i want to let her go and continue working on myself until i'm buoyant. PS: you don't chose who you fall in love with

Chicken hearted men every where..

Because say girl give u small attention..e don be say she de fall for u...

AlphaME:
that is why i want to let her go and continue working on myself until i'm buoyant. PS: you don't chose who you fall in love with

You are wrong. Love is a choice not a feeling.


You have a choice not to speak about your feelings... It's called maturity.

Immaturity is always impatient.

So you were immature and now your eyes is opening little by little.

Ladylite:


You are wrong. Love is a choice not a feeling.


You have a choice not to speak about your feelings... It's called maturity.

Immaturity is always impatient.

So you were immature and now your eyes is opening little by little.

it seems you don't get it, we're just FRIENDS and we're not in any relationship. i developed feelings but chose to keep it to my self(maturity), and now she's in love with me. my predicament here is that if i make her think i don't love her i lose a friend and i lose someone i love. which is quite sad, but it's a neccesary evil.

Pubichairs:
Chicken hearted men every where..

Because say girl give u small attention..e don be say she de fall for u...

Oga turkey heart. attention from girls i don't lack, just so you know. now run along and go shave some pubic hairs.

Undergraduates? Same department?


That relationship will FAIL

I'll advice you to sleep with her till you're tired

True love is not determined by affluence or earthly possessions,you might be driving ur "MISS RIGHT" away,give love a chance