Dear Ladies Listen.
Honestly some of you ladies are the cause of your problem.

A very nice guy comes to you with all the sincerity of his heart and wooed you; he expresses love and kindness to you, yet you rejected him.

You say he is not handsome, you say he has no money, he is not tall, blablabla.
But when a player comes to woo you, you accept him because he told you sweet lies, he is handsome and good looking, pretending to be a nice guy.

You are more attracted to physical appearance and sweet words. You become carried away, you open your legs for him, he used you dumps you and shatters your heart into pieces. Now you are crying that men are wicked.

NOW WHO IS TO BLAME? Is it you, the lover of lies and flashy things or the guy? Many ladies have missed their Mr. Right because they are searching for a tall, handsome and rich man.
Except you change from this mentality, you will always be used and dumped and end up marrying a man who will be punching you and cheating on you.
BE WISE.

Op sounds like a rejected man.

All they want is an already made man not handsome man. A lady will choose a toad with money over an handsome man.

Well, the heart wants what it wants. You can't burden it by being with someone u not attracted to, no matter how kind or nice he is.

AwkaetitiBabe:
Well, the heart wants what it wants. You can't burden it by being with someone u not attracted to, no matter how kind or nice he is.

and that heart bear it if tings goes unfortunate

In addition, instead of approaching God on that guy who comes to them for love, they use their canal mind to conclude. I have 2 girls I was grooming and advising. One of them has landed in the wrong hands already, while the other escaped narrowly but was ashamed to narrate the story. I heard from her close friend. The victim was told all sort of lies by a guy who lives abroad, promising her heaven and earth, bought her a Samsung phone and all. This man came to Nigeria last December without showing up to this girl for weeks. Eventually, he lied that he has been busy. In short, she was lured into traditional marriage and all,before the guy returned he had impregnated her and after he left the country, this girl later got to know he's married to 2 different women with kids. She's in her 3rd trimester now. The guy doesn't pick her calls anymore. Whilst all these were happening, she shut me out of her view. She hid all from me because she knew I'd not be in support of it.
Some ladies wouldn't listen once they want to achieve their self-will no matter how much you persuade them, until the matter backfires and they'd start crying like a baby. This topic matches what I've always been ruminating on, about our ladies.

The second girl landed in the hands of rapists. She was so lucky one of them knew her very well and he showed her a way of escape which other members of the gang weren't happy about. They still chased her to the bus stop from where she eventually escaped. On another occasion, her friend asked her to accompany her to a party organised by her boyfriend and they were meant to sleep over. On getting there her friend introduced her to her boy friend's male friend and the guy lodged her in a room. This guy was already peeping through the bathroom door while taking her bath as he was impatient to sleep with her. The girl wore a bumshot which prevented the guy from having his way and he left the room angrily that night to sleep in his house. The following morning, the girl left the hotel room , leaving her friend and boyfriend behind. She didn't tell me all these cos I'd have found it hard to believe. She narrated all these to her best female friend so I believed her. I've always warned her and advised her but she still wanted to satisfy her desire instead of facing her studies.

I have another girl who has already graduated. She's always putting pressure on her boyfriend on marriage and I always advise her to get a job first and stop bothering the poor guy. Her boy friend travelled out of the country to seek greener pastures. The guy has barely settled down and everytime they communicate, the next thing is, please when would you come and see my parents because they're disturbing me to bring my man? The guy feels bothered now and he has refused to pick her calls. She called me and was crying like a baby that her bf doesn't pick her calls anymore and I blamed her for the issue. The guy sends her money and she could use part of it to enrol in a fashion school since there's job . The only thing in her head is marriage...after marriage , what next? Would they eat stones? They both need to complement each other's efforts.

There was another whom I assisted while serving in lagos. She's not yoruba but she liked confiding in me. She used to tell me...sir, my guy must be tall and handsome because I'm pretty. I'd just laugh and tell her, it's not about the height, but the compatibility and love. A dwarf , if married to a giant, wouldn't breed dwarf for sure. And if the reason for looking for a tall man is to enable you enjoy sex with his big or long manhood...you're making a great mistake but she doesn't listen to me. Suddenly, she cut herself off me because I was always saying what she didn't want to hear. One day she brought a guy, tall and well built. I didn't seem to like him because after interviewing him, he wasn't saying what I expected so I kicked against it and she said, sir are you my parents to dislike my guy? She didnt talk to me again until I heard she got married to him. I saw her profile picture with a wedding ring on her finger. I called her to congratulate her.

2 years later, she called me and asked me to please introduce her to a good gynaecologist in abuja and I gave her my friend's number. Her problem was huge..my friend told me her man had low sperm counts, small manhood, etc and she came for a solution but she had advised her medically on what to do to rid the guy of the medical condition he had by first asking him to show up for examination. On the issue of small manhood, he said he advised her to live with it and make do with it that, height doesn't determine manhood size that a short man could have a very long and big manhood while a tall man could have a very small one. Height doesn't determine the size, contrary to the believe of many. He narrated the story of a woman who came for medical help that her husband had given her tears in her private part because he's too big down there and she couldn't cope anymore...and the man was short in height.

What matters most is happy marriage. Whites aren't particular about all what our ladies kill themselves about. Once there's true love, that's all. Our ladies should seek God first in their relationship rather than apply a canal knowledge whilst choosing their life partners, same goes for the guys out there. Good morning all.

iamgprince:


and that heart bear it if tings goes unfortunate

Indeed. Same way men ignore kind humble girls to go for the classy sassy expensive ones too. Touche huh

AwkaetitiBabe:
Indeed. Same way men ignore kind humble girls to go for the classy sassy expensive ones too. Touche huh

So there are still humble girls and guys are taking red pill

Uhmm

AwkaetitiBabe:
Indeed. Same way men ignore kind humble girls to go for the classy sassy expensive ones too. Touche huh

For fun yes men go after those classy, sassy expensive babes but I tell you, they will never settle down with such. They see no perfect future with such ladies.

There are lots of them on Instagram parading them selves as slay Queens. It is still those same classic babes that do escort on codedruns charging 100,000 per night. Isn't it amazing?

Mcslize:


For fun yes men go after those classy, sassy expensive babes but I tell you, they will never settle down with such. They see no perfect future with such ladies.

There are lots of them on Instagram parading them selves as slay Queens. It is still those same classic babes that do escort on codedruns charging 100,000 per night. Isn't it amazing?

Amazing indeed.