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peepydelano:
It's been a while so I decided to pay my cousin a visit as his marriage is fast approaching and on stepping into his house, I met some funny and awkward arrangement in his sitting room,infact every damn thing was out of place and I couldn't help but burst out laughing and so I asked him outrightly why such arrangement and I received a shocker from him.He told me point blank that he settled for such arrangement to prevent much damage when he's eventually fighting with his wife to be after their marriage,I was shocked but didn't respond and later that evening madam fiancée came back from work and I asked her if she sees no problems with the arrangement but I got another shocker when she told me that He made such arrangement to prevent much damage when and if they fight eventually,affirming the response of my cousin earlier and I couldn't help but advised both of them to go their separate ways as they are preparing for a disaster and not marriage.The madam fiancée has picked offense with my response while my cousin responded by saying that no couple these days that does not fight and that it is normal, he said it is only a problem when you make the fight public. I told him I will inform his parent about this intending disaster and see if something could be done, but they are already seeing me as an intruder who does not wish them well.Should I keep mute or go ahead and report to his parent?

Are they abnormal?

peepydelano:
It's been a while so I decided to pay my cousin a visit as his marriage is fast approaching and on stepping into his house, I met some funny and awkward arrangement in his sitting room,infact every damn thing was out of place and I couldn't help but burst out laughing and so I asked him outrightly why such arrangement and I received a shocker from him.He told me point blank that he settled for such arrangement to prevent much damage when he's eventually fighting with his wife to be after their marriage,I was shocked but didn't respond and later that evening madam fiancée came back from work and I asked her if she sees no problems with the arrangement but I got another shocker when she told me that He made such arrangement to prevent much damage when and if they fight eventually,affirming the response of my cousin earlier and I couldn't help but advised both of them to go their separate ways as they are preparing for a disaster and not marriage.The madam fiancée has picked offense with my response while my cousin responded by saying that no couple these days that does not fight and that it is normal, he said it is only a problem when you make the fight public. I told him I will inform his parent about this intending disaster and see if something could be done, but they are already seeing me as an intruder who does not wish them well.Should I keep mute or go ahead and report to his parent?

they have both agreed to turn their living room to WWE ring. It's their decision to perform smackdown so stay out of their decision

You should mind your business, this is what I think you should do.

Lol your people are very funny and at the same time serious sef, seems they are very compatible with each other the way i see it abeg just free them na dem go taya last last..

You should have asked them if they've bought their boxing gloves too.

Obviously those ones aren't preparing for marriage. They are preparing for a boxing tournament.

Wetin concern you for their matter

MDBrand:

Are they abnormal?

They are very normal, I think the lady is a desperate gold digger

REDDEVILS1:
they have both agreed to turn their living room to WWE ring. It's their decision to perform smackdown so stay out of their decision

and watch him ruin his life?

crackhaus:
You should mind your business, this is what I think you should do.

what becomes of the marriage with this kind of mentality from both sides,will it be fare on my part if I can salvage the situation now and save him from the disaster ahead or keep mute and watch him eventually drown

Chubhie:
Wetin concern you for their matter

He's my cousin, that is my concern

FrLukas:
You should have asked them if they've bought their boxing gloves too.

Obviously those ones aren't preparing for marriage. They are preparing for a boxing tournament.

exactly and the lady sees nothing wrong too

Larryfest:
Lol your people are very funny and at the same time serious sef, seems they are very compatible with each other the way i see it abeg just free them na dem go taya last last..

Free them you say?I am finding it hard to

peepydelano:
what becomes of the marriage with this kind of mentality from both sides,will it be fare on my part if I can salvage the situation now and save him from the disaster ahead or keep mute and watch him eventually drown

Did you stop to think that maybe your cousin and his fiancée have an interesting sense of humor?

peepydelano:
He's my cousin, that is my concern

Let go of the need to rescue your cousin. Now, if he comes to you for advice, You only give your honest opinion and leave it at that.

What "funny and awkward arrangement in his sitting room" did you see? You said so much but yet so little.

crackhaus:

Did you stop to think that maybe your cousin and his fiancée have an interesting sense of humor?

No traces of humor from their response ooo,in fact my cousin is even trying to sink it in my head that all couples fight and most tends to hide it and that you only become foolish by letting people know about your fights.He said even pastors and imams beat their wives but no one gets to hear of it.Infact I couldn't say much to him because he's way older than me and actually believes he's teaching me "Inside Life" as he puts it.

i would have said the same thing....these people are just wasting their valuable time, as this union is hell bound for sadness and pain or worse (aka death)

there is a huge difference between having an argument/disagreement with your partner AND physically beating that person.

theButterfly:
What "funny and awkward arrangement in his sitting room" did you see? You said so much but yet so little.

hmm its a place I've been before,how will someone raise his plasma tv to be touching the roof and so much more,I wish I can post pictures.funny but not funny

peepydelano:
No traces of humor from their response ooo,in fact my cousin is even trying to sink it in my head that all couples fight and most tends to hide it and that you only become foolish by letting people know about your fights.He said even pastors and imams beat their wives but no one gets to hear of it.Infact I couldn't say much to him because he's way older than me and actually believes he's teaching me "Inside Life" as he puts it.

Hmmmmm

I no even understand this post sef