A very close friend of mine opened to me recently, that he's into mature lady's only ie 35 years upwards. He's 26 years and it has been a huge problem for him recently, because he doesn't want to settle with someone much older than him. Please what should he do??

He probably values high emotional and mental reasoning capability that is why he settles for very mature ladies. I am in the same boat with him , i only love mature ladies . I don't mind marrying a lady older than me .

Sirvingeo:
He probably values high emotional and mental reasoning capability that is why he settles for very mature ladies. I am in the same boat with him , i only love mature ladies . I don't mind marrying a lady older than me .

same here,intelligence is numero uno for me, even if you're miss world but not intelligent and also lack maturity it's a no no for me.

I also love complex ladies,skin deep beautiful ladies bore me,I love exploring.

Sirvingeo:
He probably values high emotional and mental reasoning capability that is why he settles for very mature ladies. I am in the same boat with him , i only love mature ladies . I don't mind marrying a lady older than me .

He should go for what he wants, no matter the age?

I thought am the only one who is attracted to mature ladies..... I love them older coz their reasoning and attitude is amazing, you can hold a good conversation with a mature lady for hours without getting bored. Mature ladies are smart and are good advisers! They express their emotions with boldness unlike our young ladies who don't even know what they want aside taking selfie in my car and talk nonsense

same here
but I tend to be scared of approaching them for relationship,
note I'm just 21yrs and most of them are more successful than I am.

That's just fetishization.
I recommend your friend WAITS until he hits his 30s first before thinking about marriage to women that older than him.
The 35+ year old woman that might look good today, will not look the same in 4 years.
Sometimes, all it takes is 1 year for sissy to turn into aunty

Only in his 30s can he have the full mental spectrum needed to make such a permanent decision if "older women" is still the path he wants to walk.

2buffagain:
That's just fetishization.
I recommend your friend WAITS until he hits his 30s first before thinking about marriage.
The 35+ year old woman that might look good today, will not look the same in 4 years.
Sometimes, all it takes is 1 year for sissy to turn into aunty

Only in his 30s can he have the full mental spectrum needed to make such a permanent decision if "older women" is still the path he wants to walk.

So true
In situation like this
I will advise too the guy should wait till 30 before he marries but continue dating
Reason is that , his taste might change
And if it doesn’t then maybe that is his thing

LONEER:
same here
but I tend to be scared of approaching them for relationship,
note I'm just 21yrs and most of them are more successful than I am.

It doesn't stop you from shooting your shot

2buffagain:
That's just fetishization.
I recommend your friend WAITS until he hits his 30s first before thinking about marriage to women that older than him.
The 35+ year old woman that might look good today, will not look the same in 4 years.
Sometimes, all it takes is 1 year for sissy to turn into aunty

Only in his 30s can he have the full mental spectrum needed to make such a permanent decision if "older women" is still the path he wants to walk.

That's a nice idea

My bf just clocked 30,while I'm in my 30s. He knows my age and he's OK with it.

Initially I was uncomfortable with it because hes dashingly handsome ( which I like, lol),he own his own biz, travels in nd out of naija. But can pressure one for Africa . I give In to him, Mehn he's very patient guy . He is not having No for an answer. For every doubts in my mind, which I voiced out, he has an answer already

Sighs, I eventually succumbed when it looks like he was more serious than other guys who were my age and older than I am.

I can feel his passionate love and plea not to leave. which is good.

Don't mind me, I like to feel I'm needed in any guy who wants to be with me. I simply had to remodify my answer to yes!

And I'm happy, I did. He's so committed, matured in thinking. I'm impressed.

Some younger guys are OK.

His future is ripe

Matured ladies are the best and once you into them Dey will always come for you.

LONEER:
same here
but I tend to be scared of approaching them for relationship,
note I'm just 21yrs and most of them are more successful than I am.

21 kwa...please do something else for now.

I am glad guys are opening their eyes lately. Not all these empty brains that know all about selfies and Brazilian hairs

Tried that once. It took miracle for me to escape that relationship. She was almost faultless.... BTW she was 36 and I was 20


Smh....

See them liars.
All of Una de say Una like older women cos of their maturity, bla bla bla.

Who come de call all these old cargoes evening newspaper?

You like mature women for fvcks but not for marriage abi? SMH

Hypocrites!

Team young blood abeg

Same here...I like it when a Lady is mature not all this small girls thinking they are doing you a favour or entitlement reasoning or doing like plastic toy up and down...some of them will talk anyhow and I will be like .."I bo ni eleyi ti wa naa"...or "nibo la n ti ri eleyi naa"

taiwoawoniyi:

21 kwa...please do something else for now.

I know sir i was just airing my opinion, tho i don't see anything wrong in 21yrs old dude being in a relationship.

luiscarter:
A very close friend of mine opened to me recently, that he's into mature lady's only ie 35 years upwards. He's 26 years and it has been a huge problem for him recently, because he doesn't want to settle with someone much older than him. Please what should he do??

It is u, not ur friend

If na ur friend, wetin concern you na

DenreleDave:



It is u, not ur friend

If na ur friend, wetin concern you na

You are high on cum

LONEER:



I know sir i was just airing my opinion,
tho i don't see anything wrong in 21yrs old dude
being in a relationship.

Being in a relationship is not a small thing o brother.
You have to be mature mentally, emotionally, financially.
If you're not ready for marriage in a feasible duration, just find something more productive to do.

luiscarter:
A very close friend of mine opened to me recently, that he's into mature lady's only ie 35 years upwards. He's 26 years and it has been a huge problem for him recently, because he doesn't want to settle with someone much older than him. Please what should he do??

All these things are always happening to your friends. .
Which day will you people admit that you're the one in need of help?

kingxsamz:


All these things are always happening to your friends. .
Which day will you people admit that you're the one in need of help?

I'm a good friend to my friends