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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Lukebryan2sure: 11:53pm On Nov 06, 2019
jaxxy:


Smtmes or mosttimes a gal turns u down or doesn’t like u cos she doesn’t know u yet and in sm ways I think it’s understandable and forgivable.

The problem lies when u can’t find a way to get her to know u and see whatever quantities u possess either because of poor/bad strategy or u probably just not her type.



Very true
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Joystark(f): 11:56pm On Nov 06, 2019
Not like I wasn't loved back.
Just wasn't loved the way I wanted.

Dunno if that makes any sense. undecided

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by victorian(f): 11:58pm On Nov 06, 2019
obembet:
Yes. I was blind by love then, I love the guy and he never love me. He just like me as a lady. Even till now, I still like him even he's about to marry. Sad.





Eeyah I understand how u feel, sighs.

That's life.
But the beautiful thing is this : he's never meant to be yours. And if he had date you out of pity or out of Lemme not break her heart. My dear he will. Still break your heart in the worst ways u can ever imagine.
Assuming he accepts your love and date you, don't you know u will be the one dating yourself in the relationship because he won't love you like the way another man who is inlove with you will love and cherish you.
Then along the line frustration and hatred sets in from you to him. The love u once felt will become hatred, las las divorce enters.

So it's better to end his chapter in your mind. Stop contacting him , even as a friend. Open your heart to other men out there whom are so ready to love and adore. When u open your heart, u will definitely love someone whom u find attractive but loves u so much.

That's the way I handled the man I once loved. I closed his chapter and soaked my self in lives of men who were wooing ,but I didn't really get close. But I allowed myself to be adored by other men. Let them adore me and pamper me, then I looked at all of them in my mind remembering how they all behave trying to make me fall inlove , then I said to myself Victorian, Men truly love you forget that one who's confused and don't know what he wants in life cheesy He has chose his path, so bye bye to him. I won't look back anymore! It's over!

Choose one of these men , open your heart to love and accept him back. Las las u will be fine. But pray about it , so u don't get heartbroken later

Don't worry jare cheesy

This is just a phase. You will be happy and in love later with someonelse. That's just phases of life we go through.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by sacx: 12:33am On Nov 07, 2019
The contemporary definition of love sucks! To me, it translates to weakness. I have never been weak in my life and don't intend to start now cheesy

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Nobody: 12:42am On Nov 07, 2019
realestniggah:

Lol.. At least you smash.. Some of us did not smell pant
no mind am,

Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by IgweBUIKE1(m): 12:49am On Nov 07, 2019
smithe113:


My love for her ended when I called her one evening and she picked only for her to be moaning while saying she's busy and would call me back. I never got her call back till today and every iota of love I had for her at that point turned to hatred
learning by whip lol
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by LyfeJennings(m): 1:29am On Nov 07, 2019
Back in the days
God punish me if I ever love anyone who doesn't love me back twice
No time at all
Emi ika
I can't even love myself then I'd love someone else
Am I mad

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by LyfeJennings(m): 1:30am On Nov 07, 2019
victorian:






Eeyah I understand how u feel, sighs.

That's life.
But the beautiful thing is this : he's never meant to be yours. And if he had date you out of pity or out of Lemme not break her heart. My dear he will. Still break your heart in the worst ways u can ever imagine.
Assuming he accepts your love and date you, don't you know u will be the one dating yourself in the relationship because he won't love you like the way another man who is inlove with you will love and cherish you.
Then along the line frustration and hatred sets in from you to him. The love u once felt will become hatred, las las divorce enters.

So it's better to end his chapter in your mind. Stop contacting him , even as a friend. Open your heart to other men out there whom are so ready to love and adore. When u open your heart, u will definitely love someone whom u find attractive but loves u so much.

That's the way I handled the man I once loved. I closed his chapter and soaked my self in lives of men who were wooing ,but I didn't really get close. But I allowed myself to be adored by other men. Let them adore me and pamper me, then I looked at all of them in my mind remembering how they all behave trying to make me fall inlove , then I said to myself Victorian, Men truly love you forget that one who's confused and don't know what he wants in life cheesy He has chose his path, so bye bye to him. I won't look back anymore! It's over!

Choose one of these men , open your heart to love and accept him back. Las las u will be fine. But pray about it , so u don't get heartbroken later

Don't worry jare cheesy

This is just a phase. You will be happy and in love later with someonelse. That's just phases of life we go through.

Amelia
I see U
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Eroms4life17(m): 3:28am On Nov 07, 2019
obembet:
Yes. I was blind by love then, I love the guy and he never love me. He just like me as a lady. Even till now, I still like him even he's about to marry. Sad.
I wan do small tatafo. What attracted you to the guy?
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Chuks4440: 3:28am On Nov 07, 2019
adedehinbo:
u should have summon the courage to tell,he will never say no,u see we men,all of us are very cheap,we would never say no

Speak for yourself bro.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Nobody: 4:33am On Nov 07, 2019
@Op, Of course but it was nothing serious.

sacx:
The contemporary definition of love sucks! To me, it translates to weakness. I have never been weak in my life and don't intend to start now cheesy
Love in moderation is actually a strength, it can make one a better person.It's evil when it becomes an obsession.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by 9jaRealist: 5:02am On Nov 07, 2019
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by 9jaRealist: 5:03am On Nov 07, 2019
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by placeofallure(f): 6:02am On Nov 07, 2019
Awww, it has never happened to me. This may not be unconnected to the way I was wired to believe boys should seek out girls. I've never run short of admirers , so there's no extra feeling to harbour for some ungrateful guy. Call it self esteem or ego or pride, I no just get extra emotions to give when they're still rushing the little I wanna give.
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Sanchez01: 6:15am On Nov 07, 2019
Nnemuka:
I am in that place right now.. cry
I have a young man who truly loves me, I mean he stalked me for so long, summoned the courage to talk to me and I dont know why I can't bring myself to like him atleast.

in all honesty I don't know how to reciprocate and love him back.
Someone should help me before I lose a good man because of little things I can ignore
Look past those 'little things' and bring yourself to like the good part of me. Why we often find it difficult liking people is because we unconsciously look out for the horrible part of them and then take note without knowing it.
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by odigbosky(m): 6:24am On Nov 07, 2019
pussyAvenger:
lf your
current girl is broke, then you're still the looser

No she ain't
She has a job
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Rejoice5000(f): 6:27am On Nov 07, 2019
obembet:


No, I can't tell him. Am not that cheap
Ego! i opened up then to one Army guy i never regret i did.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Candycrushy(f): 6:30am On Nov 07, 2019
Am a victim too...
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Sniper101(m): 6:35am On Nov 07, 2019
Na today?

my only 'consolation' back then was the fact that I was steadily hitting the kpekus.

Yeah! We dated.
But I knew she didn't love me half as much as I loved her. And I really loved her.

...good old Uni days grin
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by sholarr12: 6:42am On Nov 07, 2019
Candycrushy:
Am a victim too...
Really? Did it happen a long time ago or recently?
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Sanchez01: 6:42am On Nov 07, 2019
adedehinbo:
u should have summon the courage to tell,he will never say no,u see we men,all of us are very cheap,we would never say no.
Not all men are brostitutes, bro. Some of us will conveniently say no.

Keeping or running multiple relationships is one huge baggage and very unhealthy to the mind. No matter how free the food is, it always comes back haunting. Please be principled enough and learn to say no even in the face of temptation.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Sanchez01: 6:48am On Nov 07, 2019
sacx:
The contemporary definition of love sucks! To me, it translates to weakness. I have never been weak in my life and don't intend to start now cheesy
Lol! Love does make people vulnerable but loving the right person is a huge plus!

Hard guy, hard guy, one small girl will now catch you someday and mash your heart like Potatoes to be given to a toddler. grin

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by benzene00: 7:10am On Nov 07, 2019
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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Tchalz(m): 8:08am On Nov 07, 2019
On January 3, 2017, I officially became a fool! Heartaches back-to-back-to-back, sleepless nights, countless insults, etc.Dis girl even sat me down and gave me an advice on how to relate with girls[Jesus!].She would have me go out with her, only to abandon me midway and follow aristo. Girl would give me a fore-warning that her Malaysian boyfriend is coming to town. During this period I shouldn't call her or she will not answer my calls. I was literally begging for her love! Even the scanty attention I got from her was out of pity.Of all the stories I've read here,mine is the worst. I thank God for today sha

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by bigcee(m): 8:21am On Nov 07, 2019
Candycrushy:
Am a victim too...
Na wa o! See wetin you carry.

Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by bigcee(m): 8:23am On Nov 07, 2019
Tchalz:
On January 3, 2017, I officially became a fool! Heartaches back-to-back-to-back, sleepless nights, countless insults, etc.Dis girl even sat me down and gave me an advice on how to relate with girls[Jesus!].She would have me go out with her, only to abandon me midway and follow aristo. Girl would give me a fore-warning that her Malaysian boyfriend is coming to town. During this period I shouldn't call her or she will not answer my calls. I was literally begging for her love! Even the scanty attention I got from her was out of pity.Of all the stories I've read here,mine is the worst. I thank God for today sha
Lwkmd grin your own worse o grin

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by bigcee(m): 8:26am On Nov 07, 2019
placeofallure:
Awww, it has never happened to me. This may not be unconnected to the way I was wired to believe boys should seek out girls. I've never run short of admirers , so there's no extra feeling to harbour for some ungrateful guy. Call it self esteem or ego or pride, I no just get extra emotions to give when they're still rushing the little I wanna give.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by sacx: 8:33am On Nov 07, 2019
MhisTahrah:
@Op, Of course but it was nothing serious.

Love in moderation is actually a strength, it can make one a better person.It's evil when it becomes an obsession.

By better person, you mean kind, soft, emotional, nollywood cheesy? Nah, I like myself in an unemotional state.
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by sacx: 8:34am On Nov 07, 2019
Sanchez01:

Lol! Love does make people vulnerable but loving the right person is a huge plus!

Hard guy, hard guy, one small girl will now catch you someday and mash your heart like Potatoes to be given to a toddler. grin

Impossicant cheesy
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Nobody: 8:48am On Nov 07, 2019
placeofallure:
Awww, it has never happened to me. This may not be unconnected to the way I was wired to believe boys should seek out girls. I've never run short of admirers , so there's no extra feeling to harbour for some ungrateful guy. Call it self esteem or ego or pride, I no just get extra emotions to give when they're still rushing the little I wanna give.


how i wish u won't change, ur type plenty beggin & runnin after men ... @39.

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Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Immarocks(f): 9:14am On Nov 07, 2019
hmmmm presently in the situation....he obviously doesn't love me yet i find it difficult to let go worse part is that i have to see how he flirt with other girls every day at work but he will always says there is nothing between him and those girls.
Re: Have You Ever Loved Someone Without Being Loved In Return? by Teaorcoffee(f): 9:15am On Nov 07, 2019
I did! For 11 yrs

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