jaxxy:


Smtmes or mosttimes a gal turns u down or doesn’t like u cos she doesn’t know u yet and in sm ways I think it’s understandable and forgivable.

The problem lies when u can’t find a way to get her to know u and see whatever quantities u possess either because of poor/bad strategy or u probably just not her type.

obembet:
Yes. I was blind by love then, I love the guy and he never love me. He just like me as a lady. Even till now, I still like him even he's about to marry. Sad.

realestniggah:

Lol.. At least you smash.. Some of us did not smell pant

smithe113:


My love for her ended when I called her one evening and she picked only for her to be moaning while saying she's busy and would call me back. I never got her call back till today and every iota of love I had for her at that point turned to hatred

victorian:






Eeyah I understand how u feel, sighs.

That's life.
But the beautiful thing is this : he's never meant to be yours. And if he had date you out of pity or out of Lemme not break her heart. My dear he will. Still break your heart in the worst ways u can ever imagine.
Assuming he accepts your love and date you, don't you know u will be the one dating yourself in the relationship because he won't love you like the way another man who is inlove with you will love and cherish you.
Then along the line frustration and hatred sets in from you to him. The love u once felt will become hatred, las las divorce enters.

So it's better to end his chapter in your mind. Stop contacting him , even as a friend. Open your heart to other men out there whom are so ready to love and adore. When u open your heart, u will definitely love someone whom u find attractive but loves u so much.

That's the way I handled the man I once loved. I closed his chapter and soaked my self in lives of men who were wooing ,but I didn't really get close. But I allowed myself to be adored by other men. Let them adore me and pamper me, then I looked at all of them in my mind remembering how they all behave trying to make me fall inlove , then I said to myself Victorian, Men truly love you forget that one who's confused and don't know what he wants in life He has chose his path, so bye bye to him. I won't look back anymore! It's over!

Choose one of these men , open your heart to love and accept him back. Las las u will be fine. But pray about it , so u don't get heartbroken later

Don't worry jare

This is just a phase. You will be happy and in love later with someonelse. That's just phases of life we go through.

obembet:
Yes. I was blind by love then, I love the guy and he never love me. He just like me as a lady. Even till now, I still like him even he's about to marry. Sad.

adedehinbo:
u should have summon the courage to tell,he will never say no,u see we men,all of us are very cheap,we would never say no

sacx:
The contemporary definition of love sucks! To me, it translates to weakness. I have never been weak in my life and don't intend to start now

Nnemuka:
I am in that place right now..
I have a young man who truly loves me, I mean he stalked me for so long, summoned the courage to talk to me and I dont know why I can't bring myself to like him atleast.

in all honesty I don't know how to reciprocate and love him back.
Someone should help me before I lose a good man because of little things I can ignore

pussyAvenger:
lf your
current girl is broke, then you're still the looser

obembet:


No, I can't tell him. Am not that cheap

Candycrushy:
Am a victim too...

adedehinbo:
u should have summon the courage to tell,he will never say no,u see we men,all of us are very cheap,we would never say no.

sacx:
The contemporary definition of love sucks! To me, it translates to weakness. I have never been weak in my life and don't intend to start now

Candycrushy:
Am a victim too...

Tchalz:
On January 3, 2017, I officially became a fool! Heartaches back-to-back-to-back, sleepless nights, countless insults, etc.Dis girl even sat me down and gave me an advice on how to relate with girls[Jesus!].She would have me go out with her, only to abandon me midway and follow aristo. Girl would give me a fore-warning that her Malaysian boyfriend is coming to town. During this period I shouldn't call her or she will not answer my calls. I was literally begging for her love! Even the scanty attention I got from her was out of pity.Of all the stories I've read here,mine is the worst. I thank God for today sha

placeofallure:
Awww, it has never happened to me. This may not be unconnected to the way I was wired to believe boys should seek out girls. I've never run short of admirers , so there's no extra feeling to harbour for some ungrateful guy. Call it self esteem or ego or pride, I no just get extra emotions to give when they're still rushing the little I wanna give.

MhisTahrah:
@Op, Of course but it was nothing serious.

Love in moderation is actually a strength, it can make one a better person.It's evil when it becomes an obsession.

Sanchez01:

Lol! Love does make people vulnerable but loving the right person is a huge plus!

Hard guy, hard guy, one small girl will now catch you someday and mash your heart like Potatoes to be given to a toddler.

placeofallure:
Awww, it has never happened to me. This may not be unconnected to the way I was wired to believe boys should seek out girls. I've never run short of admirers , so there's no extra feeling to harbour for some ungrateful guy. Call it self esteem or ego or pride, I no just get extra emotions to give when they're still rushing the little I wanna give.