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Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by kense88: 7:11am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Martinez39:Well said. More power to you |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Equity15(m): 7:54am On Nov 01, 2019 |
pansophist:lmao God bless the red pillers(pillars). |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Equity15(m): 7:57am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Fountainofyouth:nah, I didn't just join NL. I know how you guys infiltrate a male only thread those days. guess you have changed. and you're right. guys here don't respect wishes, we jump into any thread afterall na una teach us. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by IamNotWariz: 8:03am On Nov 01, 2019 |
Cc tosinmama48 |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 8:42am On Nov 01, 2019 |
alexmakaay: Honestly there are only few women on earth that can appreciate sincerity of truth. I've always known they like the comforting lies. Relationships are not for me. I don't know how to not say the most obvious truth, and call white black. Her: is the soup too salty? Me: yeah.. It is. Just minimize next time. Her: you complain too much. Everything little I do is complains. I'm tired. Me: Your comments on this thread has saved me. All of you. All your comments. From yesterday till today I can say I'm a bit better. Although, a part of me still want her, in my head I know what I need are better things. Thanks people. 7 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 8:46am On Nov 01, 2019 |
okoroemeka: Yeah.. From day one I always knew she was gonna be the type to fall easy, hate easy. A disturbed person who didn't actually know what she wanted. We played house for the entire 7 months and her good sides kept making me think it could work. In her dictionary, I only have bad sides. Bad sides like simple criticism and correction of a few flaws. Bad sides like providing the most appropriate answers to questions like "is this dress okay? " Women don't want appropriate answers. They want comforting answers. Thanks for coming by. 3 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by realest2(m): 3:13pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
NO WOMAN OR LADY IS TOO SPECIAL TO BE REPLACED, except your family members of course |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 8:57pm On Nov 01, 2019 |
realest2: I understand. Thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Goalnaldo(m): 1:19pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
swaggzo:exactly!! Nobody is telling you not to fail in love. Just don't beg if she decides to leave! |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Mobree: 2:00pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
And if all men take the "red pill" and all women become "feminists", what would Love look like? What would marriages be like? Going through this thread made me sad. Looks like there's no longer "Selfless" in Love. Everyone is calculative, trying to know and counter his/her partner's next move. To those who do it, is there peace in it for you? I'm just wondering sha o. Looks like we all are always on our toes with this love thing. I'm not sure that's what it was meant to be like. Anyway, OP, like I do say, Ticket wey go cut go cut...E no geh watin you wan do. I wish you all the best! P.S: I'm a lady...Sue me! 1 Like |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 10:18pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
Mobree: The whole thing is now messy. Everyone looking to exploit the next. Things will be much more difficult than they used to be. Men blaming women. Women blaming men. It's really messy. It's not supposed to be this way. Love used to mean something great. Now it's just a curse word. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 10:19pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
Goalnaldo: Alright, goalnaldinho. I get you. 1 Like |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Nobody: 2:46am On Nov 04, 2019 |
OP, you just displayed a bad attitude and it's a disgrace to the community of real men. Never beg to be loved! making people feel indispensable and is tantamount to mental slavery and you castigating your fellow guys just to look good in the faces of women is WRONG. However, you just have to let go. You can't force people to stay with you....if they are not destined to be with you, they can never stay...so, you need to let go. It doesn't make her a bad person but it just mean that her part in your story is over. You have to let go so that you won't keep waking a dead dog; you need to know when it's dead. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by cooooooks(m): 4:33am On Nov 04, 2019 |
This idea that e don be if somebody leaves you needs to be shut down for good. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 6:57am On Nov 04, 2019 |
cooooooks: I understand. We men need more education on this since from the early stage, media brainwashes little boys and feeds them with these ideas of what a "man" or perfect "gentleman" should be in the presence of a crazy, imperfect, wayward, undeserving, careless woman. Ubunja, Martinez39, astrog, harddon and some others are doing a good job on the forum by trying to eradicate nonsensical gentlemanism and open the eyes of many men. But we need more of the gospel. Thanks for your input. 4 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 6:59am On Nov 04, 2019 |
9jamyHome: Since I opened the thread, I no longer feel the weight. I think of her sometimes, but it's part of letting go. A gradual process. Thank you. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by ubunja(m): 1:49pm On Nov 07, 2019 |
pansophist: ubunja: 6 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 9:05pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
ubunja: I'm following your works now. I've really enjoyed some of them. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Elvinho2244(m): 9:56pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
Chai.... you get sense abeg, I'm clapping for you till 12 pm |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Ekemeze: 10:09pm On Nov 08, 2019 |
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Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by ubunja(m): 12:09am On Nov 09, 2019 |
Ekemeze:even God Himself hates people who beg. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by daharry(m): 12:22am On Nov 09, 2019 |
ubunja:And i don't think we have to beg for the miseds |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by MikeGreat00: 12:47am On Nov 09, 2019 |
ubunja: We are waiting for these books. Friday is gone already. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by ubunja(m): 1:39am On Nov 09, 2019 |
daharry:no one is asking you to. If it's taking too long then the internet is your friend. Don't you guys always say I copy stuff from the internet anyways? Go get it from there then. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Nobody: 2:10am On Nov 09, 2019 |
swaggzo: What's your zodiac sign? |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by daharry(m): 8:13am On Nov 09, 2019 |
ubunja:Those whose accused you of copying and pasting should have provided evidence,i never did. When would the blog be launched? Your write up needs to have its own space. 2 Likes |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by ubunja(m): 9:55am On Nov 09, 2019 |
daharry:the space is there and I will introduce it soonest. You could have asked me what was delaying. Instead of that line about me needing to be begged. That was very entitled of you. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by daharry(m): 11:22am On Nov 09, 2019 |
ubunja:Oh! Maybe my choice of words were not appropirate,i really miss your miseds anyway. You've kept us on suspense, but still take your time.Better late than never 1 Like |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by Ekakamba: 7:50pm On Nov 09, 2019 |
Whether you're saying the right thing or not, I just forking love one thing about you. Your bluntness! Martinez39: |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 7:14am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Ekakamba: It was nice having you guys around. Your inputs were really helpful. 1 Like |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by swaggzo(m): 7:56am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Elder0001, Martinez39, tintingz, seun Jeff1607, lordreed, just4fun, rottennaija, banjicom, Michellekabod2, Joseph1013, Tillaman, JONNYSPUTE, 1Sharon, astrog After this thread was made she came around again and it felt like everything was on it's way to be alright, in the last 4 days. However, yesterday, she has gone back to the old things again, trying to say it won't work and we can't be and stuff. Her excuses are the old things from months back which are even insignificant. She says she's scared and "there's no love for me in her". There's no love for me but you started to text and call last Sunday.. After I had moved on pretty well, and we've hung out pretty much since then. What is wrong with this person? I'm in a maze right here. Then right now, I get a good morning text from her. I'm a soccer game now. |
Re: Men Only: How Did You Get Through This? by rottennaija(m): 8:05am On Nov 12, 2019 |
swaggzo: How old is she? |
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