obembet:
Yes. I was blind by love then, I love the guy and he never love me. He just like me as a lady. Even till now, I still like him even he's about to marry. Sad.

you were never loved back by him？so sad indeed,such a beautiful lady like you....mayb there was something about you he really dont like....stop loving him especially now he is about getting married...

placeofallure:
Awww, it has never happened to me. This may not be unconnected to the way I was wired to believe boys should seek out girls. I've never run short of admirers , so there's no extra feeling to harbour for some ungrateful guy. Call it self esteem or ego or pride, I no just get extra emotions to give when they're still rushing the little I wanna give.

for a guy not to reciprocate to love doesnt meant his being ungrateful,ego or self esteem..you cant force someone to reciprocate to love if the love isnt there...

bigcee:
Lwkmd your own worse o

you need ubunja in your life

Please, Only *legally married husband / wife* has the right to complain of cheating and not two fornicating *BF & GF*


Click on the link to watch this cheating earthquake from Legacy Antony..


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SdITwOLSxdM

Going through it now.

I have never been in love with a girl who doesn't love me me back. I don't just start loving a girl for no reason, I can't fall in love with you if you haven't told me you love me first. What most of you are experiencing is just infatuation.
The first girl's heart I broke when she professed her love to me was hell. I had to date her because I just came out of a toxic relationship and I needed to get back at my ex and same time clear my head with another woman but I never knew what I was doing to her was going to be more than damaging. After about 2 months of dating I had to finally call it off because she only turned me on, nothing else. I don't think about her, I don't even call unless she calls or sends me a love text. I didn't want it to look like I used her, I just had to tell her I needed to focus on myself and school.
She cried and begged but I couldn't bring myself to tell her I just wasn't in love with her. She finally gave up and started hating me from that day. I tried to remain friends with her but she declined and said it's all in, or nothing.

After that experience, any girl who falls for me with out me reciprocating, I just tell you before you start deceiving yourself. If you just wanna be friends and get down when ever let's go!
I don't like using people for my selfish gains or all in the name of being smart

Bola146:

Who are you? Do I know you ni?

Have you gone back to school or you're still at home? It's been long I saw you. As for knowing me, yes you do.

PARIS07:
WHERE IS UBUNJA

he's here Paris

LyfeJennings:


Amelia
I see U

Louder my dear

Even use microphone

They used your heart to play lawn tennis too?

purples25:


this is just so familiar, its funny.

Am having similar issues here. I just don't think shes' into me like i am to her. And what i find annoying is she keeps deleting chats and call records between she and some guys. I haven't confronted her yet because i want to be cool about my approach so as to not ruin things.

I'm a victim of this

Barzinime:
They used your heart to play lawn tennis too?

stop laffing, im sure yours was used to play basketball and football

Infact it was played with by Steve Curry and Ronaldo but wetin concern me?
After letting her fool herself i collected and put it back inside its casing.

purples25:




stop laffing, im sure yours was used to play basketball and football

Barzinime:
Infact it was played with by Steve Curry and Ronaldo but wetin concern me?
After letting her fool herself i collected and put it back inside its casing.

thats sad. Well, casing is the best place for a heart cuz most other people are heartless.

kingsleyebuka55:
for a guy not to reciprocate to love doesnt meant his being ungrateful,ego or self esteem..you cant force someone to reciprocate to love if the love isnt there...

Sure, you're correct, no be by force to love. Some kinda people won't just appeal to you.

ericsmith:



how i wish u won't change, ur type plenty beggin & runnin after men ... @39.

Definitely not my type, I am not just married but happily so. Sorry the type you are talking about does not live here, check the next door.

Moral lesson is that guys should chase money and comfort more than they should chase girls. [/quote]

victorian:






Eeyah I understand how u feel, sighs.

That's life.
But the beautiful thing is this : he's never meant to be yours. And if he had date you out of pity or out of Lemme not break her heart. My dear he will. Still break your heart in the worst ways u can ever imagine.
Assuming he accepts your love and date you, don't you know u will be the one dating yourself in the relationship because he won't love you like the way another man who is inlove with you will love and cherish you.
Then along the line frustration and hatred sets in from you to him. The love u once felt will become hatred, las las divorce enters.

So it's better to end his chapter in your mind. Stop contacting him , even as a friend. Open your heart to other men out there whom are so ready to love and adore. When u open your heart, u will definitely love someone whom u find attractive but loves u so much.

That's the way I handled the man I once loved. I closed his chapter and soaked my self in lives of men who were wooing ,but I didn't really get close. But I allowed myself to be adored by other men. Let them adore me and pamper me, then I looked at all of them in my mind remembering how they all behave trying to make me fall inlove , then I said to myself Victorian, Men truly love you forget that one who's confused and don't know what he wants in life He has chose his path, so bye bye to him. I won't look back anymore! It's over!

Choose one of these men , open your heart to love and accept him back. Las las u will be fine. But pray about it , so u don't get heartbroken later

Don't worry jare

This is just a phase. You will be happy and in love later with someonelse. That's just phases of life we go through.

Nice, So you basically having multiple Men at your beck & call, allowing them to serenade you with gifts & all?

Sounds like a good plan, although if I take this exact same step, i would be referred to as player.
Allow myself to be adored by multiple women.

truthsayer009:


Nice, So you basically having multiple Men at your beck & call, allowing them to serenade you with gifts & all?

Sounds like a good plan, although if I take this exact same step, i would be referred to as player.
Allow myself to be adored by multiple women.

Yup
As a human being, it's good to be adored by people of the opposite sex.

Then later choose one.

Who cares if you are labelled as a player?

We talking of your happiness here

placeofallure:


Definitely not my type, I am not just married but happily so. Sorry the type you are talking about does not live here, check the next door.

so you're married then why all the braggin like u dont give a shit about men. happily married women stick to d family & children section... move

ericsmith:




so you're married then why all the braggin like u dont give a shit about men. happily married women stick to d family & children section... move

Once again, you have displayed how myopic your reasoning can be. And No, dear little one, happily married women are not stuck anywhere. They deserve to be anywhere they wanna be. Misogynists like you seek to cage women but that habit is fast becoming archaic and obsolete. You should do the moving instead and be conformed to the 21st century.

catwalq:
Unrequited love..... Is there anything more painful?

Unrequited love is way better than a heartbreak.

I did hurt some people too and I realized thats just the way life is.
Better to just keep your emotions in check so it wont get trampled on.
You have the nose of Funmi Martins i may be wrong tho

purples25:


thats sad. Well, casing is the best place for a heart cuz most other people are heartless.

placeo[b]fall[/b]ure:


Once again, you have displayed how myopic your reasoning can be. And No, dear little one, happily married women are not stuck anywhere. They deserve to be anywhere they wanna be. Misogynists like you seek to cage women but that habit is fast becoming archaic and obsolete. You should do the moving instead and be conformed to the 21st century.

Indeed i must av bin myopic ...thot i was talkin to a young n attractive woman ... even tho milfs are married,one saggy tin about dem is they want to be everywhr or anywhr small boiz chill on net lookin 4 attention there hubby withdraw
how does directin u to the appropriate section translate into caging .. by d way weytin happily married milf dey find on net @1am ... u must be lonely pele.

Barzinime:
I did hurt some people too and I realized thats just the way life is.
Better to just keep your emotions in check so it wont get trampled on.
You have the nose of Funmi Martins i may be wrong tho

" In check " thats the point here. Not too much and not too little, and yes, the damage would be less.
Who is Fummi Martins? I'll check. Thanks .

LeoFish92:


Unrequited love is way better than a heartbreak.

I beg to differ pls,cause its a constant war btw letting go and holding on

sholarr12:

Really? Did it happen a long time ago or recently?

Long time ago

bigcee:

Na wa o! See wetin you carry.

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DCmonster:
Are you sure you have gotten your senses back? Cos you are still peddling that Mumu love upandan.

lolz

Jestin:
My love should be reciprocated. I have no time and love to waste. Loving someone truly is a good medicine in a relationship but if you are loving for no reasons, you need MEDICINE

nice 1

doctore212:
There was one Olosho in my street, I knew she was an Olosha ooo, but I judt loved her because aside the Olosho thing she is very good.


But she never loved me.

I even use my school fees to pay for her rent yet na only one round she allowed me without touching breast.


All is in the past now.

no touching of boobs haba na


D girl bad