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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kokaiye: 2:10pm On Nov 09, 2019
ANewMumIJNAmen:
Dear glowing mummies, Good afternoon. I hope you all are bumping well.

Please I beg put mouth in this my matter. I'm 18 weeks.

Went to see the Dr this morning. After every every, we did scan and I saw my LO. I'm always happy doing scan because I enjoy the view.

Then Dr decided to do a transvaginal scan to check the cervix length. We then saw that the middle of the cervix was open, like a canal and with fluid. Yes the inner and the outer parts were closed but the middle was open. Even the Dr was confused. He said the liquid might drain and the cervix might close but he can't trust it as it might open again. So he's suggesting a cerclage. I felt so bad because he checked the cervix about 5 weeks ago and it was ok.

I was just crying like a baby. I don't know what to make out of this. I feel so down. Hubby travelled and I haven't told him yet. I'm so heartbroken. I was just rocking my bump a few days ago now this?

Please has anyone had such an experience? What could have caused it? Maybe it's the hormones but I can't stop crying embarassed embarassed cry cry
do d cerclage 2 prevent story dt touch.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kokaiye: 2:13pm On Nov 09, 2019
Mommdav:


I am going to say this to you with all the love in my heart. You may take it the wrong way but I will tell you all the same.

My dear suffery suffery oo. Easy easy biko. Pray you don't face battle in life. I belief that will change the way you see life and respond some questions. You have a lot to learn. Sometimes it's just best to stay back and watch. You mustn't give an opinion all the time. I am very sure there are mamas far older than you on this forum and there may be some you are older than too. I am sure you won't talk this way if you face them face to face.

This forum is faceless, the more reason we should be polite when we address people. Sometimes you think you know all but you don't. I am sure there are mamas in their forties and fifties on here with life experiences. Some who have had up to their forth child while some are just having their first child. Sit back and learn dear. Some are lucky to be married at age 22 or 23 while others at age 48 are still praying to God for a life partner. Who are we to judge them? Biblically is wrong to judge people. Only God can judge because He sees us well and the battles and circumstances we have each faced. Be careful dear..be careful.

Even if she has come to seek your advice concerning her marriage you don't have to sound that rude, disrespectful or judgemental to pass your opinion. Jesus teaches about love, if we say we are Christ follower we should try and emulate Him.

God bless you.
loud it my sister.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Gloriousheart(f): 2:21pm On Nov 09, 2019
ANewMumIJNAmen:
Mummy GloriousHeart please where are you? cry embarassed
Mummy, let's see on the other side whenever you're ready. I dey here. Just saw this.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kokaiye: 2:23pm On Nov 09, 2019
davsquared:


To the best of my knowledge, many naija hospitals dont conduct strep B test. It was in an obodo oyibo hospital during my 2nd preg that i heard of it for the first time. Nothing like that in my first.(private hospital in Lagos)

As for pain meds, you really have to ask. Or just kukuma find out about epidural if you feel your pain threshold is low. Cos most pain relief dont do much for labour pain.

Bottomline try not to worry so much. Your body was made to do this grin
i tot as much too ooo cs wen i mentioned d strep B test 2 d doctor, she was just looking confused.... I dnt blame her sha.... Readin so much on google made me knw abt it sef.... So i was lik doctors shld knw abt it too in Nigeria but she said dey dont do d test... I guess na 4 abroad dem dey do am.... N 4 d pain relief med, sinc it doesnt do much, i dnt tink i wil request 4 it... May we all deliver safely.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by kokaiye: 2:26pm On Nov 09, 2019
spixytinxy:
Amen ooo, June seems like forever for me. Can't just wait
hmmmn.... My sister naso d tin dey be ooo.... But dont worry june will soon b around d corner... May God mk it easy 4 us all.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by davsquared: 2:29pm On Nov 09, 2019
ANewMumIJNAmen:
Dear glowing mummies, Good afternoon. I hope you all are bumping well.

Please I beg put mouth in this my matter. I'm 18 weeks.

Went to see the Dr this morning. After every every, we did scan and I saw my LO. I'm always happy doing scan because I enjoy the view.

Then Dr decided to do a transvaginal scan to check the cervix length. We then saw that the middle of the cervix was open, like a canal and with fluid. Yes the inner and the outer parts were closed but the middle was open. Even the Dr was confused. He said the liquid might drain and the cervix might close but he can't trust it as it might open again. So he's suggesting a cerclage. I felt so bad because he checked the cervix about 5 weeks ago and it was ok.

I was just crying like a baby. I don't know what to make out of this. I feel so down. Hubby travelled and I haven't told him yet. I'm so heartbroken. I was just rocking my bump a few days ago now this?

Please has anyone had such an experience? What could have caused it? Maybe it's the hormones but I can't stop crying embarassed embarassed cry cry

Teamie, no cry abeg. I think a cerclage is just preventive and for the safety of the baby . You can still rock your bump wella. cool cool
Biko smile cos this nine months journey will not be cut short but you will testify at God's appointed time. grin grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Pweetiebabe(f): 2:37pm On Nov 09, 2019
@ Zaynie mama biko book me for 1 car seat, am really interested in that ma'am....Let me spread my mat and pillow here till tomorrow
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Gloriousheart(f): 2:44pm On Nov 09, 2019
iomoge2 , Congrats mama! May you, baby and your entire household continue to know peace and blessings from the latest addition. Amen.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by angeltolly(f): 2:46pm On Nov 09, 2019
@Zaynie lemme book car seat too o. Thanks in advance
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Liftedhands(f): 2:49pm On Nov 09, 2019
kokaiye:
i tot as much too ooo cs wen i mentioned d strep B test 2 d doctor, she was just looking confused.... I dnt blame her sha.... Readin so much on google made me knw abt it sef.... So i was lik doctors shld knw abt it too in Nigeria but she said dey dont do d test... I guess na 4 abroad dem dey do am.... N 4 d pain relief med, sinc it doesnt do much, i dnt tink i wil request 4 it... May we all deliver safely.
If you know your pain threshold is very low? Biko ask for epidural early enough before you change am for doctors and nurses when contractions hit hard during labor by then it's too late to administer lolz.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 2:52pm On Nov 09, 2019
Prudify25:


EDD May 22nd
May Captain, come and carry your teamie
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 2:55pm On Nov 09, 2019
AmishaHussnah:


Present cappo. I am trying to be good. Dealing with each symptom as they come and thanking God all through, not been easy. I'm over ambitious almost done with shopping, lol.
no update yet edd is confusing. Doctor gave me February 2, ultrasound gave January 30 but I'm staying with my LMP EDD February 5, since I'm a FTM. Toilet typing tho grin

May God be with us all and deliver us safely. May we all come out with our beautiful and healthy children singing praises to Almighty God.
My paddy @bolded grin, that's how we roll grin.
OK, I will update Feb 5th for you.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jeniluv(f): 2:59pm On Nov 09, 2019
Mama Zaynie,oya come naaa,2pm haf pass sinceeee.....
Our blood is 'hotting'...lolz.....






.....And I just realized its for tomorrow##hahahahaha....my blood is really over hot
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 2:59pm On Nov 09, 2019
tyhgfrdeswscbhf:
grin grin all this people saying signing in again 2024 una dey try ooooo
Once I sign out 2020 by God's grace I am signing in again 2021 tongue tongue
No time to waste
Mama d mama cheesy cheesy
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 3:01pm On Nov 09, 2019
FloraEC:
This one everybody is rolling eyes, Lolzzz. H&H bumping to everybody and supernatural delivery.
Meanwhile, Monday is public holiday. cheesy
Lolzzzz, it's a rolling eye something cheesy cheesy
Inside life cheesy
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Ligxy(f): 3:06pm On Nov 09, 2019
angeltolly:
@Zaynie lemme book car seat too o. Thanks in advance
Ha! The car seats yaff finish... Me sef want, but then, I may not be qualified anyways.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by spixytinxy(f): 3:20pm On Nov 09, 2019
kokaiye:
hmmmn.... My sister naso d tin dey be ooo.... But dont worry june will soon b around d corner... May God mk it easy 4 us all.
Amen oooo, can't wait for June to come jare
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by beyedew(f): 3:22pm On Nov 09, 2019
ANewMumIJNAmen:
Dear glowing mummies, Good afternoon. I hope you all are bumping well.
Please I beg put mouth in this my matter. I'm 18 weeks.
Went to see the Dr this morning. After every every, we did scan and I saw my LO. I'm always happy doing scan because I enjoy the view.
Then Dr decided to do a transvaginal scan to check the cervix length. We then saw that the middle of the cervix was open, like a canal and with fluid. Yes the inner and the outer parts were closed but the middle was open. Even the Dr was confused. He said the liquid might drain and the cervix might close but he can't trust it as it might open again. So he's suggesting a cerclage. I felt so bad because he checked the cervix about 5 weeks ago and it was ok.
I was just crying like a baby. I don't know what to make out of this. I feel so down. Hubby travelled and I haven't told him yet. I'm so heartbroken. I was just rocking my bump a few days ago now this?
Please has anyone had such an experience? What could have caused it? Maybe it's the hormones but I can't stop crying embarassed embarassed cry cry
Hello sis, how are you feeling now? I will suggest you speak at length with your Dr after which you suggest to him to tell you the best path to follow. Try not to cry OK, thank God you did the transvaginal scan and you got to know about this early. Na something wey no get solution be the worst OK. It is well with you.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by spixytinxy(f): 3:27pm On Nov 09, 2019
Honeysweetest:
not team June,but January,but I can relate,it will pass, lots of us experienced this,but now,we are good, days are moving fast,be hopeful, it will pass
thanks for d encouragement, I really appeeciate

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by spixytinxy(f): 3:37pm On Nov 09, 2019
@zaynie am interested in d baby carrier dat if u change your mind abt d active and team part cos am a ftm and also team june

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by juola(f): 3:41pm On Nov 09, 2019
spixytinxy:
Team June, ftm, dis journey is not easy at all. Where r d team June mamas?
Its not ooo. But I guess am still enjoying myself cos I only feel back pain that makes me cry to sleep sometimes. And dizziness when am stressed.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by spixytinxy(f): 3:46pm On Nov 09, 2019
juola:

Its not ooo. But I guess am still enjoying myself cos I only feel back pain that makes me cry to sleep sometimes. And dizziness when am stressed.
it is well, we will definitely scale through by God grace

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by ANewMumIJNAmen: 4:00pm On Nov 09, 2019
Thank you everyone for your kind words. It's very comforting. May God bless your kind hearts.

Just spoke with hubby now and he's being as supporting as he can be. And me I'm trying to relax too. The Lord who started this journey will see it to completion.

I'll go on Monday for the procedure and I'll report back. If there's anything I need to know about it or how to prepare, please don't hesitate to tell me.
Thank you all so much kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 4:01pm On Nov 09, 2019
Mommdav:


I am going to say this to you with all the love in my heart. You may take it the wrong way but I will tell you all the same.

My dear suffery suffery oo. Easy easy biko. Pray you don't face battle in life. I belief that will change the way you see life and respond some questions. You have a lot to learn. Sometimes it's just best to stay back and watch. You mustn't give an opinion all the time. I am very sure there are mamas far older than you on this forum and there may be some you are older than too. I am sure you won't talk this way if you face them face to face.

This forum is faceless, the more reason we should be polite when we address people. Sometimes you think you know all but you don't. I am sure there are mamas in their forties and fifties on here with life experiences. Some who have had up to their forth child while some are just having their first child. Sit back and learn dear. Some are lucky to be married at age 22 or 23 while others at age 48 are still praying to God for a life partner. Who are we to judge them? Biblically is wrong to judge people. Only God can judge because He sees us well and the battles and circumstances we have each faced. Be careful dear..be careful.

Even if she has come to seek your advice concerning her marriage you don't have to sound that rude, disrespectful or judgemental to pass your opinion. Jesus teaches about love, if we say we are Christ follower we should try and emulate Him.

God bless you.
lolll��, Christ was love,do u know ur Bible,or do u read where suit u,he also ignore when wrong takes place,this is ur definition of showing love?��, u did not see my good advice,let her man do the needful,and I hope he is not the person forcing her to get pregnant before he do the needful as some men do, Lol, u call that judging, because I said things like that are not supported, do u know my story,do u know my battles,u better calm down with this ur I will not be able to talk to some mamas here if I see them face to face,lol, I fear no man nor mamal, u ended ur Epistles by saying emulate Christ,are u? u think u make any sense to me? loll,see emulators of Christ,let her man do the needful and other things will follow, oya write another Epistles, come again and teach me about battles of life.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Honeysweetest(f): 4:11pm On Nov 09, 2019
a thief comes to ask me where he will hide his stolen items, all I need to do is to tell him what he needs to do without pointing out the errors of his ways,all because I don't want to be termed a condemer, I did not correct with love,at least I corrected,pick the correction and forget about the way it is said,I came to understand that the way I made my correction is not the problem with some mother's here,their problem is that I dare to point out that this is wrong, what is engagement bikonu,unless u have a different meaning in ur tribe or dictionary, just this truth people are ranting and vibrating here, lolll, u will all be fine, mention me the more,dm me the more, I stand by what I said.

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by lovecherish: 4:22pm On Nov 09, 2019
Am team February edd is 24

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by iomoge2(f): 4:31pm On Nov 09, 2019
BA

My princess landed on Thursday at 8:37pm via emergency surgery.
Mother and baby doing great. grin
Daddy looking for more money. tongue

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by labasulla(f): 4:55pm On Nov 09, 2019
iomoge2:
BA

My princess landed on Thursday at 8:37pm via emergency surgery.
Mother and baby doing great. grin
Daddy looking for more money. tongue

Congratulations mama kiss

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Blackfinegirl(f): 4:57pm On Nov 09, 2019
ANewMumIJNAmen:
Thank you everyone for your kind words. It's very comforting. May God bless your kind hearts.

Just spoke with hubby now and he's being as supporting as he can be. And me I'm trying to relax too. The Lord who started this journey will see it to completion.

I'll go on Monday for the procedure and I'll report back. If there's anything I need to know about it or how to prepare, please don't hesitate to tell me.
Thank you all so much kiss

Btw did he tell you the length of your cervix?

Also did he check for infection?

Please make sure you are on the bed until Monday, I hope you are on admission.
Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 4:57pm On Nov 09, 2019
zaynie:
Please, I have a lot of things on my hand to giveaway courtesy some moms on NL.
They are all Preloved but most look really neat. Usually we do this on the newborn thread but seeing as the items I have are mostly for soon to be moms.
Please be here by 2pm cos it's a first come, first serve basis, no DMs please.
To qualify, you must have been on this thread for at least 3 months and must belong to a team as at 1pm today with at least 20 comments (I won't be counting invidious comments please).
All these are to make sure only the active members benefit most.

Some of the items include
A baby bed
Moses basket
2 car seats
Bouncer
Playmat
Baby carrier


Aha! Mama Zaynie, I refuse to see that part o, me need some stuffs u mentioned o. Shakara no dey for this one o grin. I don even change to pidgin English grin grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Nyxx123: 5:00pm On Nov 09, 2019
iomoge2:
BA

My princess landed on Thursday at 8:37pm via emergency surgery.
Mother and baby doing great. grin
Daddy looking for more money. tongue

Congrats Ma'am
Lol @ bolded. More money for Daddy jare grin

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Re: Pregnancy Are You Pregnant Or Going Through A High Risk Pregnancy,,lets Talk by Jeniluv(f): 5:02pm On Nov 09, 2019
iomoge2:
BA

My princess landed on Thursday at 8:37pm via emergency surgery.
Mother and baby doing great. grin
Daddy looking for more money. tongue
Wow wow,big congrats mama...and she por
rted gallantly to our wonderful team November....God bless and keep our princess,we love you baby..Please rest well and come and sama us your BS....


Congrats once again....

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