I will marry any girl that first approach me if she's good.some year s back in aba, one fine lady just woo me for a relationship,I just take her out, buy some good stuffs for her and politely tell her , how I would love to marry her but is very unfortunate that my people don't marry an outsider .she was actually older than me.I admire such girls very well

SGANIVA:
I will marry any girl that first approach me if she's good.some year s back in aba, one fine lady just woo me for a relationship,I just take her out, buy some good stuffs for her and politely tell her , how I would love to marry her but is very unfortunate that my people don't marry an outsider .she was actually older than me.I admire such girls very well

Nice one.

I don't know if lalasticlala will find this front page worthy.

@Op is that why you're still single? Waiting for a lady to woo you?
No vex o, its because I've read quite some comments in some of your topics saying you should go and marry ni.

may320:
@Op is that why you're still single? Waiting for a lady to woo you?
No vex o, its because I've read quite some comments in some of your topics saying you should go and marry ni.

Lol!.. don't mind those monitoring spirits jare.

I'm not single..infact I am with the most beautiful lady in the world.

Let me show you and nairaland goanmarry crew a little glimpse of her.

Toks2008:
Lol!.. don't mind those monitoring spirits jare.
I'm not single..infact I am with the most beautiful lady in the world.
Let me show you and nairaland goanmarry crew a little glimpse of her.

Good to know.
Think this thread deserve fp so the 'goanmarry' crew will know you've upgraded.

may320:

Good to know.
Think this thread deserve fp so the 'goanmarry' crew will know you've upgraded.

I have never been on a downgrade. Marriage is overhyped.

And some will come and tell you, what if he turn you down?


Must everyone you like also like you?

The same way a guy will approach a girl and she turns him down is the same way a guy can turn a lady down too.



But I really know why some girls are scared too. I know that some do have enough liver to ask a guy out. But most times, when they meet the unserious ones, the ones who are still fucklicants. Those type of guys will never say no, even when they do not genuinely like the girl, but because they knew that such scenario comes with a free pusssy to bang, they just accept it, and be treating the girl anyhow. Which is not good.



Girls, let me tell you something, if you like a guy, get close to him, become friends with him first, know the type of guy he is, know if he is truly the type of guy you want apart from the physical appearance and all that, know his level of reasoning, then you can ask him out.


Me, chigozie , I do not believe in love at first sight, I can not be loving you when I have not gotten to know you better. You could be beautiful on the outside with enough curves and all that, but what about your personality? I no go chop your beauty nah. At this stage in my life, I value peace of mind very well, so I cannot use my hand and buy trouble for myself all in the name of beauty and nice curves.


If I approach you and start telling that I love you immediately without getting to know who you are, just know that I am only interested in fuccccking you, that’s all.


So, girls, in as much as the op is right, I also understand your fears too. But you all need to stop that playing hard to get.

chigoizie7:
And some will come and tell you, what if he turn you down?


Must everyone you like also like you?

The same way a guy will approach a girl and she turns him down is the same way a guy can turn a lady down too.



But I really know why some girls are scared too. I know that some do have enough liver to ask a guy out. But most times, when they meet the unserious ones, the ones who are still fucklicants. Those type of guys will never say no, even when they do not genuinely like the girl, but because they knew that such scenario comes with a free pusssy to bang, they just accept it, and be treating the girl anyhow. Which is not good.



Girls, let me tell you something, if you like a guy, get close to him, become friends with him first, know the type of guy he is, know if he is truly the type of guy you want apart from the physical appearance and all that, know his level of reasoning, then you can ask him out.


Me, chigozie , I do not believe in love at first sight, I can not be loving you when I have not gotten to know you better. You could be beautiful on the outside with enough curves and all that, but what about your personality? I no go chop your beauty nah. At this stage in my life, I value peace of mind very well, so I cannot use my hand and buy trouble for myself all in the name of beauty and nice curves.


If I approach you and start telling that I love you immediately without getting to know who you are, just know that I am only interested in fuccccking you, that’s all.


So, girls, in as much as the op is right, I also understand your fears too. But you all need to stop that playing hard to get.

You make perfect sense bro especially the embolden. Getting close to a guy is part of wooing.

I really hope lalasticlala beams this so we can have more input.

Women are fish-brained. They hardly take advice.

may320:

Good to know.
Think this thread deserve fp so the 'goanmarry' crew will know you've upgraded.

egbon is not married at 45 .. . 9ja gals wont woo as they are a confused lot

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This is partly true

In the voice of Faze and African China...if u love somebody walk up to him or her and tell them u love them... Simple

Don't woo any man oooo..

It is not your place to woo..

He who pay the bride price determines the fate of his partner..

Just wait for your Prince Charming..

And please don't Cucumbate while waiting

Be an asset... (I am not talking of Bob and Vangana o)

Wow

luvyaself95:


I did that oh i Approach her as i was about to talk to her she just walk out on me i was so surprised and she made me swear that moment i will never toast Any girl that give me green light or whatever so after that day we do see each other like 2 to 3 times in the week but i always do as if i don't know her and have never talk to her before.

she still stare at me like before on the Monday or Tuesday as i was fetching water i notice someone was looking at my side then I turn to look turn out to be her, this morning i was talking with a pharmacist outside her shop while we were joking and laughing saw a face gazing at me like about 3 shops before the pharmacist shop i continue staring at the person until the person turn out to be her again immediately i talk in my mind is this girl mad or something can she stop staring at me.
abi bank dey give her money for it night.

naija girls are Problems.

You didn't know why the girl was staring at you piam! You run ho meet her.
Did you know whether it was a look of disdain? Not every looking be greenlight o. So, you guys should stop assuming.

Naija men are too local to appreciate this

Even in the animal kingdom: The male species know and have mastered their roles.

Nairaland is a site for people whose heads are stuck in a different world far away from reality.

luvyaself95:


naija girls are Problems.

Huge problems.

They make me think at some point, I'll never ever follow girl in my life

I admire guys and walk up to them and let them know. Nothing much nothing less. No dating or wooing. Just admire and pass.

Toks2008:


Lol!.. don't mind those monitoring spirits jare.

I'm not single..infact I am with the most beautiful lady in the world.

Let me show you and nairaland goanmarry crew a little glimpse of her.

is that not COCOCANDY? I didn't know you two were dating oh! Wawu

dave4rella:


MY fiancee asked me out for good two years

While I was toying with her feelings with other girls
She kept pushing, before I realized she's the one for me.
I wonder what gave her the strength
I promise never to cheat or take her for granted
God bless you my gift.
I will always love and cherish you with everything in me

Thank you hun. I'm glad I never gave up. Lol

theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

Very intelligent of u....this is exactly what intelligent girls do especially if the guy has shown some initial interest.

This only works for independent women.

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Toks2008:
Do you know that it is practically difficult for a lady to be with a man she has no desire for?...and whilst it is easy for men to manage a lady they don't really have feelings for, it will be very difficult for a lady to do same but unfortunately in most cases when a lady sees a guy she strongly desires, all she does is wait and hope the guy woos her...an unfortunate situation I must say.

A lady who has no feelings for a guy will find it hard to be under the same roof with such let alone allowing the guy to touch her in anyway thereby making the guy go through serious heartache and emotional pains...yet if the same lady sees a guy she really desires, she is compelled to just wait and hope or maybe show signs that may not be understood by the guy.

I had always maintained the notion that ladies should be with a man who loves them even if they don't have any desire for the man but this is simply because most ladies usually wait for the man to make the first move even when they are drooling for him and it makes no sense for a lady to be selective when all she does is wait to be selected even by a guy she so much desires.

So i begin to wonder why ladies had to go through the pains of just wishing a guy they desire walks up to them when they can simply walk up to the guy and tell him straight up?...in my opinion, this does not reduce the worth of the lady but it is how a lady comports herself in an affair that determines her worth. If a lady expresses her desire for a guy and he turns her down, the lady should just walk away with her head up high...it changes nothing about her self worth but real men will even respect her for that...but the shocker is that in most cases, men Don't turn down ladies who decisively woo them.

Ladies must understand that we live in the 21st century where gender equality is the order of the day and what is the essence of gender equality when ladies can't express their desire to a man just as a man would?
Enough of the silly hard to get act or showing subtle signs that you want a guy...IF YOU WANT HIM, WALK UP TO HIM AND TELL HIM.

It will shock many ladies to know that there are many responsible marriage ready guys out there who are just fed up with the wooing game and will practically fall for any lady who genuinely shows interest in them and this is the secret few ladies presumed to be "bad girls" are using to get sweet responsible guys.

As long as ladies allow and themselves to be curtailed by the tradition of men making the first move,they may have no choice but to learn how to cope with the ones that come there way.

My candid opinion.

What do you think?

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theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

the problem with men taking up the hints is that, the ladies starts the hard to get game and people like us puke at such games..... All the gals i dated approached me. The once i approached gave me the green light, i followed up and game began.

I totally agree. If I like him, I'll make the move. I think we should do away with these ridiculous gender norms. And this hard-to-get thing is just annoying really. Who has the time?!

[quote author=angelEmade post=83692305]lol if u love a man...walk up tohim and tellhim...no big deal[/qtuote]


Can you do that?

truthsayer009:


is that not COCOCANDY? I didn't know you two were dating oh! Wawu

I thought cococandy is married where you carry this one come from