Richy4:
I might be wrong on this assertion but I have to voice out what I think.

The more I read all what op is writing, the more I think that this story might be fictitious.. it lacks nuclear family originality, orientations and flavour.. let it not be that he is just leading the readers on..

Reading between the lines, the write up has the quality of someone that is still single, no children involved, unlike someone that was married for 7yrs with kids.. Anyone that studied a bit of literature and understands it will agree with me that most of the time, it's not about what was written but what wasn't.. and I won't say more of what wasn't.. just leaving it for the reader to make their choice.

Lastly No sane respectable responsible married man would graphically describe his wife's sexual dealings like that. Even some that were into boyfriend and girlfriend relationship that respects their partners cannot even go into details when talking about the 'place' his supposed children were incubated before coming to this world. That's pure disrespectful to the children if this guy is truly married.. Maybe I'm being old fashioned but anyways
I apologise if this is real. I'm done here.

ImaIma1:


His utter lack of respect for his wife shows in his uncouth words. No discretion at all.

I might actually start to think the story is fake because no responsible married man can just bare it all including mentioning "honeypot", etc.

myang500:


Its actually not what u thought of iyt to be, i have heard so many damning words in the last seven 7 years, words like, am wasting her yansh, that she will give the ass to someone else. My advise to anyone single guy here, marriage is good, but be very patient before u choose a life partner, if u happen to impregnate a lady whom u know u are not compatible with, dont be forced to marry as it falls to my own kinda predicament. I am not the kitchen type, i work and work to pay the bills. now to break it down, i didnt want to type much just to make things known how it is, in a year, if i had spent 5.2 million which covers everything concerning the family, she had only spent maybe like 250k, is that sharing bill? her own definition of sharing bill is just cox we went out just last week, we both shared the bill for food and ish, and takes care of groceries once in a while, left to her she always say shes not suppose to be spending a dime after which i empowered her financially with her businesses...am a correct husband that any correct woman would rush, just a pity i have fallen into a pit that am finding hard to climb due to the love i have for mu children... life is hard with the wrong woman i must say.

myang500:


Its actually not what u thought of iyt to be, i have heard so many damning words in the last seven 7 years, words like, am wasting her yansh, that she will give the ass to someone else. My advise to anyone single guy here, marriage is good, but be very patient before u choose a life partner, if u happen to impregnate a lady whom u know u are not compatible with, dont be forced to marry as it falls to my own kinda predicament. I am not the kitchen type, i work and work to pay the bills. now to break it down, i didnt want to type much just to make things known how it is, in a year, if i had spent 5.2 million which covers everything concerning the family, she had only spent maybe like 250k, is that sharing bill? her own definition of sharing bill is just cox we went out just last week, we both shared the bill for food and ish, and takes care of groceries once in a while, left to her she always say shes not suppose to be spending a dime after which i empowered her financially with her businesses...am a correct husband that any correct woman would rush, just a pity i have fallen into a pit that am finding hard to climb due to the love i have for mu children... life is hard with the wrong woman i must say.

crackhaus:

Someone is expressing himself regarding suspicions of his wife's infidelity and this viral infection is typing total nonsense about respect & strangers.
What's the connection?

You must definitely be a cheat as well for that comment to be causing you discomfort.

myang500:


I have made several move to at least see that my instincts were through, but then I found out at a time that she was already having an affair with a guy but not too sure if they have gone as far as having sex, i even created a thread here on family section about 2 years ago. She already figured out all the ways I used to track her. So i just dont bother myself any,ore

zeb04:
[s]you know crackhouse,you can state your points clearly without insulting your mother uncle[/s]

ImaIma1:


But that's the truth. The OP lacks discretion and maturity even in his words. Just completely washing his dirty linens outside without no caution whatsoever.

ImaIma1:


But that's the truth. The OP lacks discretion and maturity even in his words. Just completely washing his dirty linens outside without no caution whatsoever.

spiritedtete:



She is cheating on you 100%.... As a married man with longer years of experience.... The red flag is you ain't giving your wife a satisfactory sex...


Got get a dick Enlargement... Don't even tell her. Surprise her. Do it fast and win her back.


To her answer about women being the same... That is a big fat lie. Some women will see your average performance she didn't like as a life saver. While some will not. Interms of attitude.. No human is the same. Don't allow her manipulate you.

Learn to also keep quiet after few sentences... Don not argue with her back and fourth... You will lose your respect quickly. Learn to conserve your emotions. Let your look speak more.

myang500:


The above is not our problem, we have a good sexual life, we are opened about our sexuality, thus making it easier for us to satisfy each other, besides your notion of me getting an enlargment is probably drawn from the fact that she said "your small di8ck" mind you am an average sized dickk guy, the only difference was that she had dated a guy with a plumbing tool for 2 years before we met, so it is always easier for most ladies like that to classify average size dick as small based on what they have been receiving. Infact the text message i saw which she hid between her and her love potion seller states clearly that our sex life is good, but that she just needs something for me to love her more.

crackhaus:

Someone is expressing himself regarding suspicions of his wife's infidelity and this viral infection is typing total nonsense about respect & strangers.
What's the connection?

You must definitely be a cheat as well for that comment to be causing you discomfort.

genq:



Love potion seller?
Dude you've got to be trolling

myang500:


Kindly shut the hell up, i am posting anonymously, if words arent penned down with details and out of anger, I might not be understood,whats with the washing dirty linen when nobody knows who is being talked about.

myang500:


The above is not our problem, we have a good sexual life, we are opened about our sexuality, thus making it easier for us to satisfy each other, besides your notion of me getting an enlargment is probably drawn from the fact that she said "your small di8ck" mind you am an average sized dickk guy, the only difference was that she had dated a guy with a plumbing tool for 2 years before we met, so it is always easier for most ladies like that to classify average size dick as small based on what they have been receiving. Infact the text message i saw which she hid between her and her love potion seller states clearly that our sex life is good, but that she just needs something for me to love her more.

ImaIma1:


I should shut the hell up? If that how you talk to your wife? You are here wailing and whining about her being disrespectful yet you cannot even keep your emotions in check and act like an adult.

Were you tied and dragged to the altar? You decided to marry someone after 2 weeks of dating. You decided to taste what you were not ready to eat. Be careful how you use your tongue on me. I am not your wife and I am not the type of woman that you can bully or suppress.

Be guided!

myang500:


I have made several move to at least see that my instincts were through, but then I found out at a time that she was already having an affair with a guy but not too sure if they have gone as far as having sex, i even created a thread here on family section about 2 years ago. She already figured out all the ways I used to track her. So i just dont bother myself any,ore

genq:



Oh else what?

Are you femcels capable of doing more than typing lengthy epistles on nairaland and insulting men?

myang500, don't let her incoherent rants silence you o.

zeb04:
the reason your wife don’t respect you, is because you dont respect her. See the way you are talking about your wife to strangers. If you cant respect her, at least respect yourself or your children.

myang500: she quickly termed it that i was trying to say shes cheating, that i need to get a life and stop being insecured.

myang500:


Part of the major problem I have here is that, deep inside of me I know this woman must have cheated on me, I cant count the number of clues that I have seen over the last couple of years. Infact this past june, i figured out that she moved a deleted chat of she and her ex to whatsapp arvhive, and another message of this jaruma type online seller talking about how what she bought from her didnt work. Supposedly love potion. I asked why she moved message from main to archive if she didnt have something to hide, she was like the dude says alot of rubbish and she wouldnt want me to see such and start thinking otherwise. Plenty attimes, when am entering the honey pot, it feels different, feels bruised, honey pot wey i don dey knack for years, i know the feeling if its fresh and if its not. I cant even begin to count clues here, but it bothers me alot to know that she is cheating but cant find shit out. She has surpassed phone and monitoring stuffs, she upped her game and i aint trying to follow up anything as it can kill a man in no time. This is a woman where if issues arise, she wants to just say sorry and expect me to move on, after doing something very terrible, but if i aint gotten over myself in like a week, you'll start hearing stuffs like this is the kind of thing that will make give give listening hears to those that wants to listen and make her vulnerable to cheating. Thats when you'll see that she starts to change her looks, start wearing move revealing clothes out, thats probably to make me feel somehow, or otherwise. I will repeat guys, you destiny is attached to whom u marry, choose wisely.

myang500:



I saw it, we only dated for 2 weeks, pregnancy involve, i dont know much about her, but the little i have seen, i wouldnt have been able to ask for her hand in marriage. I have dated plenty,and I can categorically say shes not my type. N yansh put me for this situation, though with 2 children, am sort of stalk.

zeb04:
the reason your wife don’t respect you, is because you dont respect her. See the way you are talking about your wife to strangers. If you cant respect her, at least respect yourself or your children.

crackhaus: The issue now is a simple one because it's just a case of what are you going to do at this point?
Do you want to save your marriage and get it back to a place of total peace and fidelity, or do you believe it is too far gone to be salvaged?

Belafonte:


Na you dey fúcking up na. You dey make better money one woman dey do you anyhow. Sorry, but I have not time for rubbish. You fúck up, end of marriage.

Imagine working so hard and your wife is busy sharing her pússy everywhere. She disrespects you because she knows you an do nothing. She has seen you finish. You have probably fúcked her with another man's cum still in her.

You better go and do a DNA test on your so-called children.

myang500:


I already did a DNA test on them both, they are my biological children. No worries on that side. The see finish issue is what i always tell her, na the see finish make her do things that I have stood up like a man to draw a ine on never to happen but will still happen, then will expect me to take her sorry and move on immediately, when i keep the silent treatment, she comes up with i dont know how to handle issues, or i dont like to communicate, communicate wetin over and over again? The funny thing is, yesterday I had gone to a salon to request for home service for pedicure and manicure. So two ladies followed me home. Upon my entering, i told her two people are here to come and do pedi and medi for me. So i asked the house maid to boil water. Within some few seconds, she approached the ladies saying, please and please go and get the water yourself once it has finished boiling, the house maid and i are going out, in a rash tone to know she was angry, i then called her aside, and told her that was uncalled for, these people are here to work, you didnt have to lay your personal wrath on them, she was like yea but i ought to have told her before choosing to bring the ladies home for service, i was like you have always deliberated for me to bring in whoever i want to whenever you refuse to help me with my leg saying its salvery for me to ask her to do my leg. This is still in the midst of reconciliation with me, that she brought up this attitude, the see finish is extreme and it justifies the fact that I know that she can never change, the attitude is in her. Shes asking that we go for counseling, i know its just for the clout, it wont change sht, i told her to go first, i will follow, she hasnt.

Timbuktuo:

Imo, this marriage is beyond redemption. That woman will always cheat on him, that's her nature. She is incapable of being faithful. Of course, he can continue enduring it, he's done so for seven years

crackhaus:

As long as you don't die on me.

That phrase is just a saying meant to convey seriousness.

myang500:


Please be informed, it was in her own words that she said we are sharing the bill, if we are sharing bills my brother. she wont be able to survive it, just small sharing here and there, she don turn am to we dey share bills, please check out my last post. I'm a software programmer, i dont have time for kitchen, not everyone can be the same, try to understand that. I have told this woman several times never to tell me that am insecure, it was not needed for her to have said that.

genq:



Don't expect anything less from that zeb04 character she's a known sluuut.

zeb04:
you should be arrested for this.

You dont even know me so why call me a slut ?