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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 7:14am On Nov 12, 2019
womenareapes:
seriously!
set of useless females!
as for me! I stop approaching those Apes.
I've stopped too in a very long time ago.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by womenareapes: 7:19am On Nov 12, 2019
luvyaself95:


I've stopped too in a very long time ago.
the moment you concerning yourself with those Apes, that's the time you started seeing them coming your way!

BUT I SAID UNTO YOU! DON'T GIVE A FVVVCK ABOUT THEM
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 7:21am On Nov 12, 2019
womenareapes:

the moment you concerning yourself with those Apes, that's the time you started seeing them coming your way!

BUT I SAID UNTO YOU! DON'T GIVE A FVVVCK ABOUT THEM

why will i give a fvck except game of sex.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:23am On Nov 12, 2019
kunleweb:


Haba boss even you too make this kind of comment

It is a statement of fact bro.

In fact but for the fact that i love Christ why should i involve myself in a marriage that is just too overhyped considering the NEPA attitude of most ladies? if a man is loaded he can get as many ladies as he wants, young or old and of diverse exterior dimensions...however, that is not an option for me cos it is a path to disaster.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Mariangeles(f): 7:24am On Nov 12, 2019
luvyaself95:


I did that oh i Approach her as i was about to talk to her she just walk out on me i was so surprised and she made me swear that moment i will never toast Any girl that give me green light or whatever so after that day we do see each other like 2 to 3 times in the week but i always do as if i don't know her and have never talk to her before.

she still stare at me like before on the Monday or Tuesday as i was fetching water i notice someone was looking at my side then I turn to look turn out to be her, this morning i was talking with a pharmacist outside her shop while we were joking and laughing saw a face gazing at me like about 3 shops before the pharmacist shop i continue staring at the person until the person turn out to be her again immediately i talk in my mind is this girl mad or something can she stop staring at me.
abi bank dey give her money for it ni.

naija girls are Problems.
grin grin grin

You haven't seen anything yet... grin
She'll keep starring at you like a cat
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by kunleweb: 7:25am On Nov 12, 2019
Toks2008:


It is a statement of fact bro.

In fact but for the fact that i love Christ why should i involve myself in a marriage that is just too overhyped considering the NEPA attitude of most ladies? if a man is loaded he can get as many ladies as he wants, young or old and of diverse exterior dimensions...however, that is not an option for me cos it is a path to disaster.



Then get loaded to get their unwavering commitment bro. You can't change the rules, but can only apply thyself intelligently. Make money and your in-laws will respect you relentlessly
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:27am On Nov 12, 2019
wany:


A guy over 40yrs still been childish in speech,no wonder your marriage crashed.men your age are busy with meaningful stuffs cause at this age over 40 retirement is near,but here you are gallivanting with your suppose children mates .idleness is really sickening.

lol! it is the fact that im used to wailers like you that is making me respond to you and not that you are worthy of my attention. You have no idea how extremely busy i am but you can never be too busy to do what you love.

I know you are young enough to be my daughter but when you get to that age of 40 or more, you will see the joy it brings when you interact with babies of your age.

Enjoy your day.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:31am On Nov 12, 2019
kunleweb:




Then get loaded to get their unwavering commitment bro. You can't change the rules, but can only apply thyself intelligently. Make money and your in-laws will respect you relentlessly

You are a comedian, did i tell you im poor? even when i had no money i had too many to deal with. You really don't need money to get a lady and you can very rich and still end up a loser with ladies.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Mariangeles(f): 7:32am On Nov 12, 2019
virgoquin:
cue from what Biko

Tell me if it is your sister you will wish for her to be chasing a man for two whole fucking years but the man is not responding instead his attention is on other women.

If it is you sef tell me you can chase a lady for two years without any positive result and you won't get tired
grin grin grin
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by kunleweb: 7:32am On Nov 12, 2019
Toks2008:


You are a comedian, did i tell you im poor? even when i had no money i had too many to deal with.


Didn't say you're poor though you just confirmed you can do more with more. Make more is what I suggested like you implied here explicitly.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 7:37am On Nov 12, 2019
kunleweb:



Didn't say you're poor though you just confirmed you can do more with more. Make more is what I suggested like you implied here explicitly.

And as i wrote, you don't really need money to be with a woman even in Nigeria. This is a topic for another day.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by kunleweb: 7:39am On Nov 12, 2019
Toks2008:


And as i wrote, you don't really need money to be with a woman even in Nigeria. This is a topic for another day.


Obviously we don't. But to sustain the demands of the relationship to sail smoothly and earn unwavering respect. To preserve the family from fluctuations you need enough money my brother, not just money, trust me,loving is sweeter with money. Or you think the cake Chioma ate recently doesn't taste sweeter in her mouth than the average lass?

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Osobi32(m): 7:40am On Nov 12, 2019
Toks2008:


This is beyond my understanding.

You will hear a lady tell her friends how she so much desires a certain guy that is not even aware she exists and she will practically turn down any other guy yet she will hardly let the guy she desires know she wants him.

I don't understand walahi.
the truth is most women don't know what they really want that is why they behave the way they do. The annoying part of it is that the moment they see same guy with another lady Na war be that ooo grin. Confused people
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Rahyberg(m): 7:52am On Nov 12, 2019
luvyaself95:


I did that oh i Approach her as i was about to talk to her she just walk out on me i was so surprised and she made me swear that moment i will never toast Any girl that give me green light or whatever so after that day we do see each other like 2 to 3 times in the week but i always do as if i don't know her and have never talk to her before.

she still stare at me like before on the Monday or Tuesday as i was fetching water i notice someone was looking at my side then I turn to look turn out to be her, this morning i was talking with a pharmacist outside her shop while we were joking and laughing saw a face gazing at me like about 3 shops before the pharmacist shop i continue staring at the person until the person turn out to be her again immediately i talk in my mind is this girl mad or something can she stop staring at me.
abi bank dey give her money for it ni.

naija girls are Problems.

I can relate big bro.

Mine was funny, I saw all the kinda of light I'm to see on this gal, I summon courage by going to her shop to go play my pranks. On getting there, I shot all my shoot and the gal have me her two digits. I called her a week after i collectwd her number, she was anxious to hear from me.

I thought of a means to deduce if she was really into me upon all the green light she has shown.
I only call her on Sunday's, I called for 5 consecutive Sunday's, while I missed the 6th Sunday, this gal didn't even brother to call me.
I didn't call her as well, I saw her at her place of work, she wink me and I behave like I didn't see her . She called me that night to greet me using just 2minutes telling me she was out of AIRTIME.

She sidelined me while I also sidelined her.

Since 2015 she has called me last, this gal has started to call me lately telling me she loves me then but she is 2 years older than me that is why she didn't answer me.

Well , I can't blame her for that bcoz in the next 3yrs, she will be clamouring for marriage while I'll be on the verge of enjoying the bachelor life to the fullest.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by yusluvad(m): 7:53am On Nov 12, 2019
Beautiful, lovely, and educative thread.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by kunleweb: 7:55am On Nov 12, 2019
yusluvad:
Beautiful, lovely, and educative thread.


Its funny almost all comments overlooked the Op's use of words in the title " her dream man "

A lady wooing a man is not a privilege every man must enjoy, just a tiny niche called her dream man. So, yes, a lady should woo her dream man, and not every man.


There's a tiny amount of men called special, that qualify for breech of protocol, its a candid advice for ladies to do all they can albeit rightly, not to miss out on these special breeds when destiny comes calling. That's what this thread is about.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Maj196(m): 7:59am On Nov 12, 2019
Why the fvck will a lady woo me? To me dat reeks of desperation. If you try that shiit with me of course I will oblige buy you are in for a wild ride.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by AgentNairaland(f): 8:00am On Nov 12, 2019
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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by MNDY(m): 8:07am On Nov 12, 2019
Duggedised12:
Lol ,any lady that does this is in for a rude shock . why will you walk up to a guy and ask him out? Have you ever seen a hungry lion turn down a prey? Or have you seen who you will give sugar and will turn it down( except for people with diabetes,lol) ,goat dey e own you jejely carry yam go give am and you expect him to say no?Nigerian men that still slut shame and brag about how they have slept with a girl as if they will be given a badge of honor for it na im you wan go ask out? Even the ones that have never said hi to you will brag behind your back to their friends just to look like an undisptued fuckaholic, as a lady try it with Nigerian men,i sorry for you.

Ladies ask yourselves how you will feel when your bf in the middle of an argument tells you "i never wanted this relationship,you were the one that came to force /seduce/ask me out ". You as a lady don't have a microscope to know who is mature and who is not so don't screw yourself over by putting yourself in a corner to be labelled as "desperate".

Kings seek out their queens, even animals understand this that is why they seek out their partners when they are ready to mate. The only thing i see here is when women give the "green light" and starts playing hard to get, and we as ladies need to stop doing that but that is where it ends . Never accept the responsibility of chasing, this generation of men who are lions online and cats offline want to change the narrative .Even the good old bible said "he who finds a wife".

I repeat , never walk up to a man and ask him out ,send your signals , befriend him if possible and when you send those signals and he responds ,there is no need in playing hard to get. Thats just it.

If women fear being hurt along the line for making the first move, Gender Equality should be discouraged then. Because men move on after their feelings are hurt. As a matter of fact, men are hurted the most - A man is made to train another man's child and later made to know about it by his wife etc.

You are saying all these to your fellow Nigerian women. Other women elsewhere are not like Nigerian women. The mentality is different.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by MNDY(m): 8:15am On Nov 12, 2019
Rahyberg:


I can relate big bro.

Mine was funny, I saw all the kinda of light I'm to see on this gal, I summon courage by going to her shop to go play my pranks. On getting there, I shot all my shoot and the gal have me her two digits. I called her a week after i collectwd her number, she was anxious to hear from me.

I thought of a means to deduce if she was really into me upon all the green light she has shown.
I only call her on Sunday's, I called for 5 consecutive Sunday's, while I missed the 6th Sunday, this gal didn't even brother to call me.
I didn't call her as well, I saw her at her place of work, she wink me and I behave like I didn't see her . She called me that night to greet me using just 2minutes telling me she was out of AIRTIME.

She sidelined me while I also sidelined her.

Since 2015 she has called me last, this gal has started to call me lately telling me she loves me then but she is 2 years older than me that is why she didn't answer me.

Well , I can't blame her for that bcoz in the next 3yrs, she will be clamouring for marriage while I'll be on the verge of enjoying the bachelor life to the fullest.

Women are not very wise. Their time expires, some of them know it and still will not apply wisdom. This hard-to-get thing is very peculiar to Nigerian girls and one rule is very certain about women: Women love attention, make them want you by starving them of it.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 8:19am On Nov 12, 2019
Rahyberg:


I can relate big bro.

Mine was funny, I saw all the kinda of light I'm to see on this gal, I summon courage by going to her shop to go play my pranks. On getting there, I shot all my shoot and the gal have me her two digits. I called her a week after i collectwd her number, she was anxious to hear from me.

I thought of a means to deduce if she was really into me upon all the green light she has shown.
I only call her on Sunday's, I called for 5 consecutive Sunday's, while I missed the 6th Sunday, this gal didn't even brother to call me.
I didn't call her as well, I saw her at her place of work, she wink me and I behave like I didn't see her . She called me that night to greet me using just 2minutes telling me she was out of AIRTIME.

She sidelined me while I also sidelined her.

Since 2015 she has called me last, this gal has started to call me lately telling me she loves me then but she is 2 years older than me that is why she didn't answer me.

Well , I can't blame her for that bcoz in the next 3yrs, she will be clamouring for marriage while I'll be on the verge of enjoying the bachelor life to the fullest.

Go enjoy your bachelor life jare nothing do you if that is all what she has to say.
out 100% lovely couples in the world am very sure 20% to 30% the wife made the first move.
and
out 100% lovely couples in the world am very sure 10% to 20% wife is older than the husband.
destiny matter sometime.
all will need is to apply common sense that all.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Advancedman(m): 8:19am On Nov 12, 2019
theButterfly:
Rather than wooing a man, a woman should give him hints that she's interested and let him pick it up from there.
A man who's likewise interested will make the subsequent moves thereafter. If he doesn't, move on.

Clap for yourself!
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Duggedised12(f): 8:20am On Nov 12, 2019
MNDY:


If women fear being hurt along the line for making the first move, Gender Equality should be discouraged then. Because men move on after their feelings are hurt. As a matter of fact, men are hurted the most - A man is made to train another man's child and later made to know about it by his wife etc.

You are saying all these to your fellow Nigerian women. Other women elsewhere are not like Nigerian women. The mentality is different.
the same way the mentality of western men is very different from Nigerian men,infact na when Nigerian men go abroad dem dey get factory resetting most times and their perception on relationship and how to be a gentleman changes,any Nigerian man that carries his typical Nigerian man mentality to date a western lady usually ends up in the streets ,so it works both ways.No woman should throw herself at any man just to prove a point of being equal , atleast not to a Nigerian man that will go behind you back and brag about it.


By the way the real agenda of gender equality was actually geared towards equity not necessarily equality but trust humans to misconstrued things to fit their own selfish agenda.

As for the man being made to train another man's child tho i don't see how this topic of who should ask who out escalated to that point but i will just say , no human male or female deserves to be deceived like that ,for a start i wouldn't want my sons to be. So there is no where you will find me supporting such great deception.

And lastly let me say this ,there is nothing like oh this gender is hurt the most ,hurt is hurt there is nothing to quantify it. Which is why down playing people's feelings is a bad idea. You will see people saying "people have been through worse" well too bad for them but it doesn't change the fact that this person is currently going through something too. So please drop that idea that one gender is hurt the most there is no statistics to back that up.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by luvyaself95(m): 8:21am On Nov 12, 2019
Mariangeles:
grin grin grin
You haven't seen anything yet... grin She'll keep starring at you like a cat
very soon i will tell her if don't stop staring at me i will start bidding you.
Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 8:40am On Nov 12, 2019
truthsayer009:


is that not COCOCANDY? I didn't know you two were dating oh! Wawu shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

Coco wettin? You wan make I die before my time!

Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Nobody: 8:40am On Nov 12, 2019
Advancedman:


Clap for yourself!

Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Kaybex007(m): 8:40am On Nov 12, 2019
Back in the days, I used to be the kind of guy who was ready to woo any lady I am interested in, most especially those one who give me green light, just take a look and you are gone for it, but nowadays I get tired of telling stories to a lady you know is interested in you and forming hard to get. I come across ladies who give me green light so many time, but what is the essence of going to approach her when you know that it's same formula she will apply just like others. Nowadays I just prefer going to woo the one who is not giving me green light and let me know that I am starting from the scratch, not when I think I've gotten to the middle of the matter then suddenly I find myself at the beginning. As for me, any lady who has interest in me should just walk up to me and don't be shy, if I turn down your request, it doesn't mean you are not beautiful, it's just that you are not the type I would have interest in.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by jaxxy(m): 8:48am On Nov 12, 2019
Thus is funny. Guys waiting for gals to woo them and gals waiting for guys to woo them. Crazy confused piece of garbage. If u like a gal go for her period don’t be waiting for her to do anything. If u can’t go for her as a man what makes u think she will come woo u against all odds As a woman.

Yes I’ve had gals woo me severely bt my reaction was Smtn im not proud of till 2day. I never took them seriously tho I know better now.

The only time this makes sense is if the guy is unaware of the lady and she has to make her self seen or known to him.

Pls to our brothers living in foreign lands u can’t copy and paste everything u see there and expect it to work seemlessly here. Many things are involved.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by pansophist(m): 9:01am On Nov 12, 2019
Women consider themselves the prize, and initiating a relationship with a guy, in her head reduces her worth as a sought-after prize. Our culture is built on the idea that the female is all perfect, a goal, and any man with one is a lucky man.

From music that glorifies the female, prioritizing her affairs societally, men kneeling down to propose and doing all spending just to impress her, and flamboyant weddings to usher her into a mans life, all these have a psychological effect that inflates the female ego and makes her extremely uncomfortable to initiate any relationship with a man. This behaviour is common with younger women under the phase of male abundance, and withers away as they grow older and the pool of suitors shrinks.

If a woman wants you bad enough, she should either approach you or make herself accessible when you approach her. If she is doing none of these things, it's best to move on. Afterall, you can give a horse water, but its left for the horse to drink it.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by Toks2008(m): 9:04am On Nov 12, 2019
kunleweb:



Obviously we don't. But to sustain the demands of the relationship to sail smoothly and earn unwavering respect. To preserve the family from fluctuations you need enough money my brother, not just money, trust me,loving is sweeter with money. Or you think the cake Chioma ate recently doesn't taste sweeter in her mouth than the average lass?


I don't want to believe you are so ignorant of so many facts.

Ladies say they hate jobless guys but they will spend their rich guy's money on a jobless guy just for a sex rump.

Thank GOD for Jesus else I know wettin I for don take ladies eyes see even when I no get shishi.

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by franchasng: 9:04am On Nov 12, 2019
Toks2008:


I honestly feel for our ladies.
You like a guy yet all you do is wish he woos you.
Guys always take advantage of this situation....when a lady woo a guy, that relationship if it ever leads to one, always end in regrets for the lady because the guy will only accept her for fvcking sake not for anything serious.


It can only work well and end well if the girl is very beautiful and financially independent more than the guy.....if not, the guy will only fvck her free and dump her later angry angry



Do you know how many guys I approached and wooed only for them to turn me to their sex mate fvcking me everyday for free and making me thing I found love, not knowing they only wanted to deflate my big bombom for free, pls ladies don't woo any guy!! angry angry

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Re: Opinion: This Is Why Every Lady Should Woo Her Dream Man. by ikhalyfah(m): 9:06am On Nov 12, 2019
luvyaself95:


never follow a girl in your life that will make your worthless better still work hard earn money and see how they will be following you everywhere you go like MTN.
Exactly.
Women and money ehhn

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