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Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Ibkay32(m): 10:33am On Nov 12, 2019 |
I see no sense in all what this op he's saying
bah ankali |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Surulereman(m): 10:33am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Tales by moonlight. Lies, lies and lies. What did you think will be the consequences of your continuous lies? You are destroying lives. Stop it and live a life of truth. And don't bring your mess on Nairaland for people to clean. Clean it yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Eberex(m): 10:38am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Hmm guy na you cause all your troubles, with ya own hand. First and foremost you were not prepared for marriage and commitment, you went ahead and did skin to skin with her (na so the thing sweet reach)? When you got her pregnant you allowed yourself to be pushed into having a traditional and white wedding. Guy, you are legally married. Go and learn how to love that girl you impregnated. Develop the feelings you had for her when you two were dating. As for the new chick, bone dreams. She has seen the girl somehow, maybe in your phone or somewhere. She dey bobo you and want you to be the one to admit it. In summary, leave this new gal alone or else you will see Karma visit you. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by olivegirl(f): 10:38am On Nov 12, 2019 |
baby124: my dear some men don't like good women, they prefer wild girls like the girlfriend. just make una live him next few years he will come back with chronicles. I pray that the pastor daughter get a man who loves her. we don't pray for this kind of man that doesn't know it takes responsibility to be married not stupid love that easily fade in marriage. 12 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Bonapart(m): 10:40am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:you're a pervert son of a b!tch. You deserved to be hanged by your sisi balls. That's if this st^pid story of your is true. Nonsense 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by joytothewise(m): 10:41am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Lol OP I pity your life.... you are playing them all thereafter what you felt for this lady will hit the stormy weather and you will pay the consequences!!! You playing with there mind and brain!!! All I read so far is rubbish... you are married and you are married ni yen, all those aside plan won't work!! If you not into a lady why not use protective measures?? You will end up giving this one belle again and same thing will occur!! Guy you are playing with your LIFE 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nezzel(f): 10:42am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Op go and work on your marriage and stop living a wayward life. 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by petitejolie(f): 10:43am On Nov 12, 2019 |
See how people get demselves into trouble. Anupama go and finish wat you have started o.youre not a serious human being Nd very wicked. |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by executive12: 10:43am On Nov 12, 2019 |
baby124: Real big shame. He is obviously a player. |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by midnighter(f): 10:43am On Nov 12, 2019 |
But that wife didnt do well...how will you threaten suicide to force somebody to marry you and then cry foul when the man cant stand you again? The wife is also to blame in this in my opinion. How can you beg somebody to marry you what type of marriage was she expecting? Because shes a pastors daughter, did she remember she was a pastors daughter when she was doing rubbish with you behind closed doors? He should leave the second girl alone, she too doesnt seem to have a respect: FreemanTJ: For this act alone, you should be able to tell that the girlfriend is no good. You told her to take the instagram down and she refused and insisted on humiliating your wife who had nothing to do with her frustration. Who the hell is she to dictate to somebody how they should display their marriage on social media? You cant possibly defend this to yourself or anybody reading it. Go and sort things out with your wife, divorce her if it gets to that but just make sure you take care of your daughter in this And you need to work on your habit of lying and evading the truth. All of this could have been avoided if you had let your yes be yes and your no be no 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 10:44am On Nov 12, 2019 |
you are fickle minded. jumping from one babe to the other. this is my advice. break your relationship with the babe you chat with often over the internet and start nurturing the one with pastor's daughter. and hold unto to God. lack of fear of God has made you to indulge in Fornication and adultery. desist from them and live a better life. 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by nkezecheckport: 10:44am On Nov 12, 2019 |
If you sincerely want a way out stop contacting the second girl. By doing that you have reduced your head aches. Then take your mind off dating and focus on work and family by that I mean your daughter, if your relationship with her mum don't improve then you can consider separation. But your first move out of your confusion is stop every communication with the second lady 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Shara01: 10:45am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: Do you think maybe if you just make a determination to give the union a chance, it could work out. As I see it, you have written the marriage off before it began, you still want to explore. You have closed your mind to the fact that it could work out. Believe me, this lady you don't value presently might be your blessing. My advice is, give it a chance. You don't know the value of what you have until you lose it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Kelvin30286063(m): 10:47am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Your major problem is your hunger for sex or attention. While you were sleeping with your now wife, you were enjoying the attention and sex, forgetting the fact that you don't love her. She got pregnant then suddenly you remembered you don't love her. Then you started the same process with the other lady. I'm pretty sure you don't love her too. You only think you do cuz she's not pregnant yet. She's technically not your responsibility. You're a very irresponsible man bro, you should retrace your steps. Leave both women alone and try staying single for a month then you will come here and tell us you've found a woman you're in love with again. Your love sense is triggered by your hunger for sex. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by justmykel(m): 10:47am On Nov 12, 2019 |
You see your life! When they tell una that the essence of a romantic relationship is marriage, una go dey argue. How could you be dating someone you don't find worthy to wife, tell what's the essence of that relationship? Fuckery? 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Shawlambivert(m): 10:48am On Nov 12, 2019 |
The 300th Like for a perfectly composed reply. He's still a baby and age has nothing to do with that. donstan18: |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by BlackPantherCri: 10:49am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: I don't think you are looking for our opinion. You only needed a place to pour out your heart and admit your shortcomings. You are a weak man, to be forced into this kind of marriage. You could have put your foot down and said NO! I will take care of you and the child but I won't get stuck in a loveless marriage. You lie too much, you could have told the new girl the truth from day 1 and allowed her to make her decision to stay with you or not. But you kept lying and pushing the doomsday. Did you think she would never find out? Do you think she is a fool? You don't deserve a woman until you be a man and grow up 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by maxilly(m): 10:50am On Nov 12, 2019 |
I stopped reading after the first part. Na novel? |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by egopersonified(f): 10:50am On Nov 12, 2019 |
'detox from social media', why have I never thought of this excuse. My God! 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Adegbem01(m): 10:51am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:The truth is both of you are responsible for the pregnancy and both of your are free to make choice (especially if it is the one that would affect your life permanently). No sane girl or upthink reasonable girl would blackmail herself into marriage. Taking responsibility for the pregnancy is a point for you and promising to take care of the child is another. You shouldn't have gone further to marry her out of self pity because in the end it will always end bad for both party. Passion of love is overrated but it the only path to long trust, loyalty, honesty and stuff that comes along in a good relationship. Don't push the marriage thing with your wife, that ship should have sail if not help it sail. Try ask for forgiveness from your gf and try(if the impossible can be come possible) to mend the relationship. In all mend fences, ask forgiveness in the best possible way from both of them and move on with your life YOLO 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by GraGra247(m): 10:51am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Pataricatering: Brainless shameless lunatic!! Even the fellow I quoted showed maturity and ignored me. And an idiot apears from nowhere to rage like a mad dog. Go and take your psychiatric pills before you run mad on an issue that has nothing to do with you. Animal! 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by grandstar(m): 10:52am On Nov 12, 2019 |
A shotgun wedding isn't the price to pay because of an unwanted pregnancy. The love child is the punishment. You did not have to marry her if you did not love her enough. From your statements, it's obvious she still loves you. You were evasive mentioning this in your writeup. That's why you're feeling guilty. Deep down you feel you're cheating on your wife and it is striking your heart just like David's heart kept striking him when he wanted to kill king Saul. Deep down, I sense you feel or know that you can make the marriage work if you just put in some effort or more effort. Your feel you have been deprived of a fairytale romance and wedding. For your conscience to be clear, find out if your wife is cheating. That's grounds for divorce. I can hear a voice in your head saying, "I'm a married man, I am a married man. I already have a wife. I can make this marriage work". FreemanTJ 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Amarisa(f): 10:52am On Nov 12, 2019 |
bukibabe: FreemanTJ listen to this... Give your wife a chance,from your write up,you've rarely spent time with her...You have so many things in your head that you've made yourself believe.. *Before you got her pregnant,you didn't know you guys were just friends *After getting her pregnant,you then realized she's not your kind of girl *You agreed to marry her 'Legally' on all ground *You kept lying to yourself all through the whole arrangement, went through with it and came up with your wicked plan to stay apart,claiming you were 'trapped' by your p.enis and 'forced'.. *You 'trapped' another lady and kept lying up n down till she caught you,now you are seeking for help.. *You are Wicked!!!!!! *Your siblings didn't attend probably because they know what you are capable of.. You think getting married to the other lady is where your happiness lies? Hmm...put on your thinking cap and be a responsible man for once!!!! 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by bekpo(m): 10:53am On Nov 12, 2019 |
donstan18: U got it right there, perfect description dough. |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Shawlambivert(m): 10:53am On Nov 12, 2019 |
I'm amazed to read this coming out from a "supposed" lady. Shit happened already. No need pointing accusing fingers. I don't think and agree that's a good enough advice coming from you. ifyalways: 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Khalidase83(m): 10:53am On Nov 12, 2019 |
[quote author=Gforce2015 post=83954478] No responsible man petronise whores 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Saintfrancis82(m): 10:55am On Nov 12, 2019 |
maybe ur story has part 2, and for part 2 we go know weda ur wife catch u guys or the girl ran into trouble. or u still impregnate her for part 3 either them kill you or run away for ur life...... Ur amu always raises anytime u see women 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by SURElee(f): 10:56am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Mumu man, you felt caged? Nonsense talk your penis couldn't wear a condom abi? Accept it you are married. Continue sagging left, right and center, keep chasing after fleeting shadows. 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by nkezecheckport: 10:56am On Nov 12, 2019 |
For lasting marriages: responsibilities transcends love. Commitments rates higher than feelings. Sacrifices greater than romance. Quietness more than response. The other person is more important than myself If you or anyone can uphold the above stated marriages will last. If you can sleep with her you can marry her 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 10:57am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: if I were you, I would look past the imperfections of my wife that seems to make me not like her enough to settle down with her for life and beg her forgiveness and for the sake of the child make a peaceful home with her. You have hurt both women and their families deeply. You are already married with a child. Stick with it. Love is not a matter of emotions, it is a matter of the will. You, deciding that this is the person i will love no matter what. apologize to the two women for being the world's greatest asshole and stick with your wife. with time, you will come to love her and cherish her. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by crackhouse(m): 10:58am On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ:u don't have feelings for her but you had feelings for her when your prick was standing and you got her pregnant? It's better u start having feelings for her now and allow the love to grow because u never know what the next lady have in stock for you. But if u insist then u can Keep misbehaving until u meet a wife that will make you want to commit suicide then you will know your current wife is nothing but an angel. 9 Likes |
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