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Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by cococandy(f): 11:49am On Nov 12, 2019 |
She actually doesn’t feel like she deserves better. If she did, her actions would show it. Gloriagee: 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 11:49am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Octopusssy: Oya which one do you recommend? I also have one for you, complete with veil. None of them are ya rubber glove Toto scraping gold circle though
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Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by nana06: 11:50am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Hi TJ... Maybe I think differently or I have chosen to see it from a different angle. But I think for now, what you need is give yourself a break from the world, anything women, friends, family and even social media, say 21days or a month.. You really need to think about you, what you really want and also the kind of future you want for your little you(baby) 'coz whatever decision you make will determine the future of your baby... I remember my 1st day at ante-natal, when a particular male nurse was to address us, guess what his 1st statement was?? He said "Pregnancies in Africa are usually as a result of mistakes" then I whispered to the lady beside me "even us too way don marry"? The man replied "auntie tell us say u been no get other plans"? Truth is you really need a time alone and just ur baby's picture on your phone to think!!! No responsible woman "married by mistake or not" wants a broken home all 4 d sake of their children and truth is you connected with the 2nd lady bcoz somewhere in your subconscious, there's a class segregation between u and ur wife, u feel she's a burden and marrying her may not give you that marriage fantasy but then, the bad news is if this 2nd lady could be this dramatic to the extent of not considering the little baby b4 putting up the fake IG, what would happen when you guys are married and u cheat on her( a trait which I think you "may" have 'coz u easily moved) she would burn down the entire house, kill you and kill herself or everyday her village people will come and settle issues b/w u guys... U see, while you may consider my advice to think about yourself, also consider if you take your time to teach the momma of your baby so many things you know if she is willing to learn and measure up? Marriage is a constant work in progress, there are too many things to say but the most important thing I want you to know is that you should try everything within your powers to avoid toxic partners, they don't forgive and they are good at paybacks no matter how much you try to apologize. Along the course of marriage love fails but sacrifice keeps it going till the love is built again... I wish you stay around Abuja, i would have loved to meet you so I take u to meet with people who had similar situations and what their decisions led to. However, I wish you and your little you (baby) the best in life. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Ademoore07(m): 11:50am On Nov 12, 2019 |
baby124:I need to be sincere with you. u never jam gifted people. One of my sibling is a case study. Before anything happens, he had already seen it coming 7 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by MichaelUweh(m): 11:51am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Guy , your problems are ,firstly, you have a huge lust for women and a betrayal ,Secondly, you are indecisive and a gold digger. thirdly, you are not faithful and sincere. If I should quote you line by lines, she's a pst. daughter, I didn't want her to be my wife, "but u have been sleeping with her raw" ? I impregnated her unknowingly , she didn't want to give birth out of wedlock, she lured me into marrying her coz we had a pact ", we did TM & white, I don't like wearing the ring, we lived separately, in all these u didn't do anything coz she used federal might to compelled u to do them . I met one girl in an event, later we kelewu and kelewa for like twice and bla bla bla... bros, u are a liar and a deceiver and equally deceiving yourself . You will not make heaven unless you repent. My candid words and advice to you is go back and marry that one that gave birth to your child coz you have directly or indirectly reduced her value and no man will take her serious in this 21st century where every young guys and even Papa's are looking for fresh young girls to marry. . . 4 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by nan1: 11:51am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Op nawa for you I Know your problem you see the marriage as bondage cos you still want to keep fuc.king around you have not finished exploring but remember AID and other STDS are real in case you forgot spend more time with you wife and daughter just for like 6months and come back and tell us if you still want a divorce retract yoir steps now before it's too late 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Octopusssy(f): 11:51am On Nov 12, 2019 |
ornicus:Trojan. Sounds very capable and masculine |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by SmellingAnus(m): 11:52am On Nov 12, 2019 |
midnighter:very reasonable comment... The first comment I read that also passed some blames to the wife... Let me put it as it is.... The wife manipulated him into marriage... Finito... But op too being a sissy was blackmailed into marriage... Op also has a very selfish lying nature which he seems not to see as a big deal and I pity for more girls that will fall into his hand... 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by AfonjaBoston: 11:54am On Nov 12, 2019 |
Which movie be this brother? 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by BlackPantherCri: 11:54am On Nov 12, 2019 |
cococandy: He has not even considered seeking his wife's forgiveness. He is still trying to justify his infidelity as it they put a gun to his head when he was impregnating her. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Gudlite: 11:56am On Nov 12, 2019 |
CONFUSED MEN EVERYWHERE!!!! What do you stand to gain ?What did you intend to achieve or end up with. You are playing around with the emotion of two innocent ladies and you think you are smart, you can"t play your game for a long time, it will be exposed soonest. Karma will catch up with you and You will surly pay for it. You are not sincere to any of them, Shame on you Mr CONFUSION 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by midnighter(f): 12:02pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
SmellingAnus: Exactly. All three of them are to blame, but he is the "placeholder". He doesnt have a spine otherwise that girlfriend wouldnt dare go against his instruction and disrespect his wife. His wife who cornered him into marriage in the first place and then agreed to live on the other side of town! Thats just the state of society...she was so desperate for marriage that she agreed to stay out of his sight just so that she could answer "Mrs". Couldnt she see the insult in that arrangement? Kai! Threatening suicide on top of pregnancy. What type of stupid suicide is that ![]() The thing is that he also brought his own sins to the table so he is not totally lost. But the way he is trying to defend his girlfriend's actions and at the same time remove his own culpability in messing up with his wife shows that he hasnt really understood the problem. He is not a particularly bad person but indecisive and allows himself to be carried away and manipulated too easily without counting the cost. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nehemz(m): 12:02pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Hmmmm men's are very wicked, u stated having sex with her while u know that u do not love her from ur heart. 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by pek(m): 12:04pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
The greatest mistake I see in all this is the op not living with his wife. Not agreeing to live together opened the door for all these. By living together, the love would have come seamlessly. My take: cut off completely from the second lady and go live with your wife. 5 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by luluosas(m): 12:05pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
You are as stupid as your post. Idiot human being. Repent, or perish in hell fire, because your despicable affairs has no imitation. FreemanTJ: 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Cyynywhite: 12:05pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Moral of this story...
1. Never start what you cannot finish
2. Pray never to find your true love after marriage....
Na so e take be.. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by pek(m): 12:05pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Nehemz:which one be men's again biko? 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by cococandy(f): 12:05pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
BlackPantherCri: He’s already told everyone that he doesn’t care about his marriage to her. So I don’t expect him to apologize to her. He’s the one who’s right and she’s wrong for ‘forcing him to impregnate her and then trap him into marriage’. The cheek on that guy 4 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 12:06pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Op, you're sick. Wait until you get this one pregnant, you don't know depression kills ba! Ask Ubi Franklin. 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Omojudy: 12:06pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
crackhaus:Ever heard the phrase, hell hath no fury like a woman scorned? 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by SmellingAnus(m): 12:08pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
midnighter:so true... Currently his wife doesn't even want the marriage again... Op is not happy that the wife is leaving during period, he would have preferred they divorced much later cos he doesn't love her and according to him he will never be happy in the marriage... |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by kachii77: 12:09pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
Loool.....I think most of ur post on this topic are almost 99% correct ....op is not just seeing it yet...lool ladies decide what is truth actually...I don’t buy for 1 second that she never suspected op ...the amount of times she asked op in different ways .....nah..she knew something was up...she’s probably hurt that it was finally true based on evidence baby124: 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by mbjsuki(m): 12:10pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
MY BROTHER,TO TELL YOU THE HONEST TRUTH. I WILL STRONGLY ADVICE YOU STICK TO THE LADY THAT IS CARRYING YOUR BABY. THE DID HAS BEEN DONE PLEASE DON'T GO ABOUT 2FACE* ! HAVING MANY BABYMAMA'S YOU ARE LIKELY TO RISK AND INCUR MANY ISSUES. TURN THE TABLE AROUND AND ASK YOURSELF THIS QUESTION. WHAT OF IF SOMEONE DID THIS TO YOUR SISTER, WILL YOU BE HAPPY? YOU HAVE MADE THE MISTAKE,WHILE NOT DEAL WITH THIS AND SEE WHAT COMES OF THIS FIRST THEN YOU SHOOTING IN MANY DIRECTIONS. DO YOU WANT TO BE A FATHER OF MANY NATIONS? 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 12:12pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
BatleFox: You so evil-minded to the essence that you don't believe in abstinence and you don't believe in celibacy.... Son of vipers... Waste generation... Keep living your de_ulded life... |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Gloriagee(f): 12:12pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
You're right. Who agrees to stay at the other side of the same town after marriage? ![]() cococandy: 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by God2man2again(m): 12:16pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
After two years, you are now telling us. How true is this story? How are we sure you are saying the truth? Another format on nairaland. 1 Like |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Austineperez(m): 12:18pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
If this story is true then you are not only foolish you are a boy ! A small boy!! Nonsense ![]() ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Nobody: 12:18pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
FreemanTJ: Why are you like this ? You are married and toying with someone's heart. Later they will say men are scum because of people like you. 4 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by midnighter(f): 12:19pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
SmellingAnus: Oh I didnt even remember that last part Can you just imagine? Shes saying she wants to stop and he's still talking rubbish. He doesnt want to be around her, he keeps her on the other side of the island like bale of okrika, now she too doesnt want to see him and hes still complaining Because he doesnt want to be the one who got dumped, he cant imagine the short black woman dumping Oba of Benin like him, he wants to be the one to rubbish her life first so that he can feel better. Everything is a competition of "smartness" or game of chess to him Walahi this man is bloody stupid 6 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by delpee(f): 12:20pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
All I can see is a man who is not ready to face his responsibilities as a married man. He's still in the spirit of sowing his wild oats while breaking hearts in the process. @OP Be a responsible father to your daughter at least. You brought her into the world and she should not suffer. You can choose to build a proper relationship with your wife who appears to like you despite your shortcomings. You're also free to walk away (divorce) if you have no feelings for her. At least she'll be free to move on and possibly find someone who really appreciates her. On the other hand, you can choose to marry your prophetess girlfriend. Just note that you need to change your lifestyle to make any marriage work. You're currently too deceitful and self centred. It's difficult to manage a home successfully with that attitude. 2 Likes |
Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by keezyman: 12:20pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
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Re: I Impregnated A Pastor's Daughter, We Rushed The Wedding by Simbrixton(m): 12:21pm On Nov 12, 2019 |
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