pocohantas:


I had to attach random pictures, to put things into perspective.

stop looking down

This is why most dudes prefer to wear briefs than boxers

pocohantas:


Would you say this if I was the one flaunting camel toes? It is not decent irrespective of who is doing it. Yes, grown men (and women too) can be told how to dress to work. We have dress codes. I have mine and I adhere to them.

I don't need anyone telling me to look elsewhere when someone is always standing in front of me while I am sitted. What I need is advice on the MOST professinal way to put it to him. This one is only hard because sexual organ is involved and my intentions could easily be misinterpreted. I also do not want to escalate it.

You are in quite the trilemma now.
I can only imagine
Truth is if you act dismissive of a person throughout the week for putting up a bulge dey will learn to stop

The sad thing is the second you even draw attention to a staff with the bulge dey will beginto think something else

i think you should have a talk with HR where the dress code book is updated with new pictures and reshared.
every once in a while we did that in my old office
there was this chick who loved pushing boundaries. one day she came in a killer mini. na HR see am, send her back home straight
funny as the girl was from a Behind home and should have known better. my second company, the MD had a preference for people from buta backgrounds because in particular, they understood proper dressing. no under shirts with stupid messages. imagine your colleague coming to work with a tshirt saying all i want is a beer and a Mouth Gig - you got a problem with that?

anyways. someone should be reporting you too. i hear you like to shave /wax, wear minis, and apply baby oil. causing silent commotion during client presentations

pocohantas:


I am the superior
I have handled it though. It is the new trend of fitted pants. Lots of guys are guilty of it, just like ladies are guilty of VPLs. They just find it harder to take corrections or at least, admit it is there.

Not easy to blur out though, when they are always standing there to hand in reports. That is not to say it has any positive effect- I just consider it an eyesore.


Lol. I guess you know these things better. Yes I have. Made it seem like a joke, but the message was passed anyway.

How did you handle it?

ornicus:
i think you should have a talk with HR where the dress code book is updated with new pictures and reshared.
every once in a while we did that in my old office
there was this chick who loved pushing boundaries. one day she came in a killer mini. na HR see am, send her back home straight
funny as the girl was from a Behind home and should have known better. my second company, the MD had a preference for people from buta backgrounds because in particular, they understood proper dressing. no under shirts with stupid messages. imagine your colleague coming to work with a tshirt saying all i want is a beer and a Mouth Gig - you got a problem with that?

anyways. someone should be reporting you too. i hear you like to shave /wax, wear minis, and apply baby oil. causing silent commotion during client presentations

*giggle

Ishilove:

How did you handle it?

He came to my desk as usual and I jokingly asked if there is something he wants me to notice. As I do not understand why he is trying to blind me. He didn't understand at first, I said "you are harassing me with your tight trousers". He said if I call his trouser tight, what would I say of XYZ's own. Truly that one own sef bad. He called that one and somehow, everyone joined in the conversation.

It was at COB. Made a nice topic

pocohantas:


He came to my desk as usual and I jokingly asked if there is something he wants me to notice. As I do not understand why he is trying to blind me. He didn't understand at first, I said you are harassing me with your tight trousers. He said if I call his trouser tight, what would I say of XYZ's own. Truly that one own sef bad. He called that one and somehow, everyone joined in the conversation.

It was at COB. Made a nice topic

So the boys in your office are Competing to blind the women with eggplant bulge.

See as the two guys are doing tight trouser rivalry

the nerve with which he referred to his colleague sef dem don dey plan you oh, little feminist.

pocohantas:


He came to my desk as usual and I jokingly asked if there is something he wants me to notice. As I do not understand why he is trying to blind me. He didn't understand at first, I said you are harassing me with your tight trousers. He said if I call his trouser tight, what would I say of XYZ's own. Truly that one own sef bad. He called that one and somehow, everyone joined in the conversation.

It was at COB. Made a nice topic

Have they stopped the visual harassment now?

ornicus:


So the boys in your office are Competing to blind the women with eggplant bulge.

See as the two guys are doing tight trouser rivalry

Do you know eggplant cups are sold in the market? Like butt pads, they give the illusion of a very sizeable package.

Ishilove:

Have they stopped the visual harassment now?

He wore a less fitted one and asked me if it is okay. It was fine, but I think that main culprit is carrying something more than him in the wrong briefs. We would revisit the dress code, because they complained one girl's waistline shows when she is sitted.

Thegamingorca:
the nerve with which he referred to his colleague sef dem don dey plan you oh, little feminist.

No one likes to be guilty alone na. Everyone started mentioning the fck up of others.

ornicus:


So the boys in your office are Competing to blind the women with eggplant bulge.

See as the two guys are doing tight trouser rivalry

Lol. They are just young guys that want to be trendy 9-5ners. The trouser sef hang for up.
Nawa

Ishilove:

Do you know eggplant cups are sold in the market? Like butt pads, they give the illusion of a very sizeable package.

Just tell us someone disappoint you with fake big prick

pocohantas:


He wore a less fitted one and asked me if it is okay. It was fine, but I think that main culprit is carrying something more than him in the wrong briefs. We would revisit the dress code, because they complained one girl's waistline shows when she is sitted.

Nawa

Pocos new responsibilities - crotch measurement and certification for display

ornicus:


Pocos new responsibilities - crotch measurement and certification for display

I'll bet there are some perks that come with the new assignment

ornicus:


Just tell us someone disappoint you with fake big prick

Lol

Ishilove:

Do you know eggplant cups are sold in the market? Like butt pads, they give the illusion of a very sizeable package.

Abeg which market?

Thegamingorca:



Abeg which market?

I have no idea. I can find out if you want.

ornicus:


Just tell us someone disappoint you with fake big prick

LMAO!

Smh

I get what you are talking about. Imagine me trying to purge my mind from everything illicit sexual desires and lust, yet having to deal with all these silly unilag female students interning in my office.

When I see them showing off in their excessively tight cheap bend down select jeans with their behind jutting out, the first emotion is rage...serious rage!!! But there is nothing I could have done about it than take my attention away.

pocohantas:


I had to attach random pictures, to put things into perspective.

If you are really serious about this, then don't go direct. If you have HR discuss your office General dress code with them (I mean for ladies and gentlemen). Then you can tell them what don't want to see from gentlemen.

It could be the trouser, this is common with chinos, except he was watching porn or something but can you ladies see what you put us through when you open all those cleavage

kense88:
If you are really serious about this, then don't go direct. If you have HR discuss your office General dress code with them (I mean for ladies and gentlemen). Then you can tell them what don't want to see from gentlemen.

No make me put person for trouble . We done address am. They are doing better now.

pocohantas:


No make me put person for trouble . We done address am. They are doing better now.

Am glad. No more unnecessary distraction

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