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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Rich4god(m): 11:05pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
eni4real:Nope... Not yet. |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by SendAbroad: 11:05pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie: They are talking about marriage is scam, you are saying he should get married ? Sister.....so you want him to use his own hands to throw away his freedom? You yourself, are you true love? 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by webngnews: 11:05pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
hmmm |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:06pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:A spirit filled enthusiastic wife material spotted 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by KIDfurniture(m): 11:06pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Marriage na scam... no true love... both men and women cant be trusted . I cant live with a woman ... I want to marry many women.. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:07pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Rich4god:Hope you know that you will not be able to solve their marital issues like that oo.. Experience is the best teacher on Marriage issue.. It is the only school where we all have to learn... for ever!! 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by murphyibiam15(m): 11:08pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:safe appraisal, only God knows who's spirit filled and the last day will tell all these 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by BOFREJO(m): 11:08pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Broken home!!! I can't afford it cos' It sucks 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Sterope(f): 11:09pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
True electroTech: 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by SendAbroad: 11:10pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
KIDfurniture: But come to think of it, i have wondered why Ned Nwoko has about 4 wives, yet he never married any Nigerian woman until Regina daniels. It seems Moroccan women are more faithful in marriage than Naija women 5 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Iziquiel(m): 11:10pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Jewessgratitude:I knew you were going to say you speak in tongues when you were asked that question. Does speaking in tongues mean you're filled with the holy ghost? 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by KingRabota: 11:10pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
This is the most concise and comprehensive analysis I have ever read about marriage. Totally On point Fisher007: 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by storm001(m): 11:11pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Getting married to a feminist who want the man to be the wife. 6 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Geminita1(f): 11:12pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
taylor89:Who is this one, pray that i am not your wife because i'll just waste you. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by murphyibiam15(m): 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
SendAbroad:the way some of you use isolated cases to generalize is mind blowing, like they're no foreigners marrying Nigerian ladies? |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by emkz: 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
I think it was last year, there was a video of a woman who poisoned her husband, and the man was writhing in pains vomiting blood while the woman was filming and running commentary. They were Congolese and the incident happened in Belgium. The images remained in my memory ever since. My fear is getting yoked to the wrong person and paying for it with my life. One cannot be too careful. It takes the Grace of God to meet the right spouse and not the effort of human, no matter how intelligent. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mirexxx(f): 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Fear of my partner controlling my life and not being completely honest from the onset. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Luizkid(m): 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
You know those nights when you just spread your legs and fart anyhow because u're alone?? Weird 13 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by SendAbroad: 11:14pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
If you want to enjoy marriage, marry Moroccan women...go and ask Ned nwoko. 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Rich4god(m): 11:15pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
eni4real:First, when it comes to issues of married, we the youth mostly observe and carry out investigation/visitation when the need arises. Secondly, our counseling unit is not just about marriage. It's even off recent that we started handling issues on marriage. |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Qadaffi2idiamin: 11:15pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
To fuvk the same possy everyday and nght 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by adeniyi65(m): 11:15pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
electroTech:I totally agree.it's like accepting that what's the usefulness of being present in a social party that will end up in horrible fight and chaos.but we just have to preserve the nature and human chain. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by gozzy121(m): 11:15pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
My own fear is everyday sex cos I can't come n kill myself 5 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Rich4god(m): 11:17pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Geminita1:You just got me laughing so hard.... Taylor89, e b like say you don't get partner. 5 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by pocohantas(f): 11:18pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
babtoundey: I am being understanding here, tbh. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Sonnobax15(m): 11:19pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
BecaciaBarbie:Na diz kind women i dey like. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mechanics(m): 11:20pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Whether fear or no fear, one will still marry except he or she want to be a Reverend father or sister. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:21pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Fisher007:Where is slawomir Dis is a real niggar 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by blues343(m): 11:22pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Sirmuel1:Na NIGGA U BE
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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Geminita1(f): 11:23pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Rich4god:Those are the kind of people you poison very slowly. So much guts to post trash in pubic. If i posted that i would have gotten 500 mentions. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Kokaine(m): 11:23pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
pussyAvenger:hahahahaha. But see... Been broke in Nigeria is not a function of ones lack of intelligence, readiness, or hard work. The country is really messed up. There's really limited opportunity even for the hardest workers. I wouldn't want to base the compatibility test on finance. The thing is... What mentality does the person have. Does she realise that life is not a bed of roses and so she shouldn't make crazy demands or show signs of ingratitude for your efforts. Is her head alike with yours, such that you guys can brainstorm to get financially free. Or is she the type that will say you should rent a 300k apartment just because she doesn't want to fall short of the glory before her friends. Once she's able to see the bigger picture, she's okay bro 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 11:23pm On Nov 18, 2019 |
Probably none, because it may not happen. People must understand that marriage and having kids isn't the ultimate of life; it's not special. It is not an achievement. Pretty much what the couple thinks is 'love' fades away after a few years, children or troubles. It's so fast in some, it happens just after the wedding. My neighbors wedded last weekend only to start fighting with each other over how to share the proceeds from the wedding gifts. Just imagine! The divorce rates in places like the US and most developed countries will even give you an inkling of just how high the failure rates of marriages are. It's only in Africa & Nigeria that marriage is a big deal. The average American man/woman cares less about marriage. I personally believe that there aren't so many cases of divorce in places like Nigeria because many people just like to suffer in silence and not speak up or don't have enough guts to walk out of a bad marriage because of societal and family pressure. Of what people will say. Or of starting all over with a new person. Forget IG, many marriages in real life aren't what they are portrayed as on social media. Time usually reveals all things. Do you think it is easy to love and cherish somebody till death comes knocking? After seeing them for who they are; the entirety of it, when the mundane things that led you into the marriage may have faded away or when life happens? I'm not in anyway encouraging people to remain single but if you must marry, make it of utmost priority to marry the right person. Court, study, date, wait, do what you must to find out, just don't do anything hastily or out of family pressure. Oh, I've made a few bucks and my career's great. I'm stable financially. Next stop, marriage avenue. Or, when family members or friends say 'What are you waiting for? You're not getting any younger o'. No. Remember, the people pressuring you aren't going to be there when things go south in the marriage. And any trait in your partner you cannot cope with during this period, don't expect a miracle to happen in marriage. You will be shocked. I promise you. Sadly, in some cases, one may not even be alive to regret it. That man/woman you introduce into your life can make or mar your life in ways you cannot imagine. Sometimes for life! Worse still, you'll bring innocent children into the marriage to experience the repercussions of your mistake. I understand that no one is perfect, but bro/sis, make no mistake. Some people can be talked or counseled out of some traits. Non life-threatening, or non-sickening traits; of which the propensity to drive you mad or kill you is infinitesimal. Something you know you can cope with and handle. In summary, please, don't be an idiot. If you can't keep your vows or cope with all the pros and cons of marriage, don't go and jabaru another person's life abeg. Just be singling your singleness in peace. Peace. 25 Likes 3 Shares |
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