Rich4god:
I belong to a counseling unit in my church so sometimes, couples who have issues in their marriage do come to us for settlement and counseling.... The stories I hear eh. It's just as if immediately the wedding is over, cat and dog will just be released in the house.

cassyrooy:
You're Gamaphobic.

electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated

Jewessgratitude:


Read your Bible. What happened at Pentecost? Its says they were filled with the Holy ghost and started speaking in tongues. So yes I speak in tongues because Im filled with the Holy Spirit.

mysticgal:
1. What if we fall out of love with each other?
2. What if he dies before me?
3. What will happen if I feel i can’t take his bullshit anymore?
4. What if he doesn’t support me or I feel alone in the partnership.
5. What if an accident happens right in the relationship, would I stay or would I leave?
6. Is love enough or what if he is too much of a spender or an NFA aka no future ambition?
7. Can I bear his family members or mine during marriage?
8. How do we resolve conflicts, what if he tries to abuse me?
9. What if I have mediocre sexual experiences all through out.
10. How would he cope if I die, get disabled, leave, never want children or even like pets?

It bugs me a lot

Neurotika:
1). Marrying the wrong person,
2). Losing your personal identity (once you become daddy everything changes)
3). Falling out of love
4). Boredom

stanliwiser:
I laugh in Japanese. Stop piling unrelated verses to prove your point.

Jewessgratitude:


Read your Bible. What happened at Pentecost? Its says they were filled with the Holy ghost and started speaking in tongues. So yes I speak in tongues because Im filled with the Holy Spirit.

BarrElChapo:


I believe you, that word "infilling" I encountered it first reading his book "Spirit within and Spirit upon".. it's nice to still see people taking godliness as a lifestyle.. Cheers !

Humility017:


love your responses so far...
please keep it up...
the expectation of the righteous shall never be cut short....

Ronald1:

Gamaphobic... I heard something like that xterday... Thank you tho...how can u help me

BecaciaBarbie:

So all you did today, which is Monday was having different rounds abiii?

mysticgal:
1. What if we fall out of love with each other?
2. What if he dies before me?
3. What will happen if I feel i can’t take his bullshit anymore?
4. What if he doesn’t support me or I feel alone in the partnership.
5. What if an accident happens right in the relationship, would I stay or would I leave?
6. Is love enough or what if he is too much of a spender or an NFA aka no future ambition?
7. Can I bear his family members or mine during marriage?
8. How do we resolve conflicts, what if he tries to abuse me?
9. What if I have mediocre sexual experiences all through out.
10. How would he cope if I die, get disabled, leave, never want children or even like pets?

It bugs me a lot

makydebbie:
Imagine if my husband isn't crazy about this ass anymore sigh.

This big round soft ass.

lefulefu:
marrying a dirty girl
marrying an ex runz girl unknownly

Jewessgratitude:


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cassyrooy:
Auntie na adipose tissue (a kinda of fat) full there. But if he gets tired feed him breast.

Only bastarđ don't like ass or breast.

But if you changed that he couldn't handle you anymore, then na your fault and loss.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

Simplep:
That he doesn't wake up one day and say he's no longer interested without doing anything wrong..

Jewessgratitude:


Read your Bible. What happened at Pentecost? Its says they were filled with the Holy ghost and started speaking in tongues. So yes I speak in tongues because Im filled with the Holy Spirit.

petitejolie:
that's y some people wont marry but they live together nd av kids. The funny thing is DAT dey stay longer together than if dey had gotten married. Its as if something just rears its ugly head at d sound nd sight of marriage. Im really scared

makydebbie:
Imagine if my husband isn't crazy about this ass anymore sigh.

This big round soft ass.

makydebbie:


I don't expect 99% of nlders to get my post, they'll interpret what I want them to interpret when my underlying message lies there.

At bold, yes yes he go suck.