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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by LEERICIST(m): 12:41am On Nov 19, 2019
Marrying someone who can't make use of Twitter embarassed

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 12:42am On Nov 19, 2019
Advancedman:


3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first


Just marry any or all of them Fool!
mumu
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 12:45am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:


I see u single and smart
Let's hook up
Bro don't do it. She's a time bomb waiting to explode. I can spot them from thousand miles away

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by NiCurious: 12:51am On Nov 19, 2019
IgbosNIGHTMARE:

Don't be silly and insensitive...
You are existing because a marriage or coupling worked out, be grateful for that!

ElectroTech comes across as neither silly nor insensitive, but quite the opposite; serious and sensitive.

His outlook might come from his parents' marriage or coupling NOT working out.

There are many people out there who have been emotionally wounded as children, that they are afraid to live their lives fully, and still have the phantoms of their parents (or other influences) putting fear into their lives and relationships, going forward. Quite possibly he is taking responsibility by not perpetuating a cycle that he has been unable to correct. (Apologies if I guess wrong, ElectroTech. If it's not true for you, it will be true for someone else.)

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Hangulsaram: 12:51am On Nov 19, 2019
Divorce, marrying the wrong person and marrying a cheating wife.
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 12:52am On Nov 19, 2019
Jewessgratitude:


By His grace I know. I also have the gift of speaking in tongues which is an evidence of the infilling of the Holy Spirit.�
Lmfao!!! grin
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 12:55am On Nov 19, 2019
adeniyi65:

angry angry This one seriously weak person o.
She probably doesn't have a womb due to excessive abortions. I sabi her type

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by richie240: 12:57am On Nov 19, 2019
electroTech:
I feel lonely when around people than when alone. Having to live together with someone forever scares the sh!tt outta me. If my future wife would be living on her own and be coming to visit once in a while, then I'll consider getting married someday.

I love kids too but I don't dream of having one. The thought of bringing innocent souls to experience this short and painful existence is still a nightmare I can't afford to bring into reality.

I pity married folks than I envy them. In fact, this whole marriage sh!tt is just overrated


Your post is NOT for everyone.
Only d 'deep' can 'drink' from ur fountain!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 12:59am On Nov 19, 2019
eni4real:
A spirit filled enthusiastic wife material spotted shocked shocked shocked
Don't be deceived

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by zigzagluv: 1:00am On Nov 19, 2019
My wife to be will cheat because im not a sex freak

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Perfectman91: 1:04am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

Even if you cheat, she shouldn't cheat..na talk be that?

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 1:04am On Nov 19, 2019
Geminita1:
Those are the kind of people you poison very slowly. So much guts to post trash in pubic. If i posted that i would have gotten 500 mentions.
Nothing wrong with his post. Its his decision, respect it
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Jeezuzpick(m): 1:05am On Nov 19, 2019
taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

Just settle for a doll. It's already dead.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lindaa97(f): 1:07am On Nov 19, 2019
Falling out of love or loosing myself.....
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by caracas: 1:09am On Nov 19, 2019
BecaciaBarbie:

Ewooooo shocked shocked shocked
Take it easy oooo! That thing called hiv is real and ask yourself what God will feel about your sexual desires? I’d advise you find a true love, get married and have sex day and night!

Wow this babe make brain die
U must be a good wife material.....
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Lindaa97(f): 1:12am On Nov 19, 2019
zigzagluv:
My wife to be will cheat because im not a sex freak
There are intimacy gadgets which could help with her urges.... Plus don't marry a nymph if you fear that happening
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 1:12am On Nov 19, 2019
stanliwiser:
I laugh in Japanese. Stop piling unrelated verses to prove your point.
No mind her. They are the worst set of people

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by drskyfly007(m): 1:12am On Nov 19, 2019
AryaSand:
Having babies.
The whole process is Scary and Traumatising. I've seen photos and videos and I don't think I want to go through it. I feel like if I do go through with it, I'm probably going to hate that child cry cry cry
It is like the major reason I sabotage all my relationships, whenever we start getting serious like this, i stop talking to them. I abandon them in the relationship and move on with my life.
You need to see a psychologist/psychiatrist/mental health expert Asap.

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 1:22am On Nov 19, 2019
[quote author=lefulefu post=84157298][/quote] Checked her dp to see the ass but found none!

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 1:27am On Nov 19, 2019
degamemaster:



You're too stupid with this kind of mentality. Spit on your useless face.
She might be wombless due to excessive abortions abortions. You never can tell

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 1:28am On Nov 19, 2019
IgbosNIGHTMARE:

You'll be cheated upon repeatedly and NOTHING will ever happen...
No mind her, she never jam

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 1:31am On Nov 19, 2019
Biingoo:
Checked her dp to see the ass but found none!
but she no show back nau so how u take see am cheesy.maybe na apple booty she get sha cheesy
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Biingoo: 1:33am On Nov 19, 2019
lefulefu:
but she no show back nau so how u take see am cheesy.maybe na apple booty she get sha cheesy
No be today I sabi that babe. She no get ass. Used to be my NL crush until I see her supporting Tacha undecided
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mablie(m): 1:39am On Nov 19, 2019
Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section tongue

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one. grin





Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Kingsteve(m): 1:52am On Nov 19, 2019
Marry your sweetheart,
your love,
your spec...
It will conquer all fears,
even in the midst of fears!

grin
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by preselect(m): 1:59am On Nov 19, 2019
marrying the wrong woman. . . . . even the devil will have mercy on you cry

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 2:01am On Nov 19, 2019
Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, abduction or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section tongue

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one. grin






You deserve a chilled bottle of beer. I love this writeup grin

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by DonPhilip77: 2:04am On Nov 19, 2019
Fear of seeing the same person over and over again

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by faderayo(f): 2:09am On Nov 19, 2019
The fear of settling down with a man who is a cheat.

A man that abuses

A man trampled on his women in the bid to get her to be submissive

But I dread cheaters cry

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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 2:14am On Nov 19, 2019
Biingoo:
Don't be deceived
It is just a snapshot tho undecided
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by CodedTobx(m): 2:15am On Nov 19, 2019
Marrying someone not compatible with, marry for the sake of marriage
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by mysticwarrior(m): 2:27am On Nov 19, 2019
Regret

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