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Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by realtalk19: 6:19am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Hamachi: Marrying the wrong partner who isn't able to cater and provide for the family hereby making me a bread winner. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Olufemiolaolu(m): 6:23am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Fisher007:You have said it all. Women fake submission b4 marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Octopusssy(f): 6:23am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Losing a child. |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 6:26am On Nov 19, 2019 |
maynation: Oya na �. Nofin do you. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by LadyHeaven(f): 6:27am On Nov 19, 2019 |
nnanyereugo: Your name...its very special to me and aside today, I have never seen anyone else bear the name, it's unique and I hope you embody its uniqueness. PS- Everyone hates snakes it's initial gragra that makes some men act like they don't. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Octopusssy(f): 6:27am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Going by the responses here, it is safe to assume 90% of comments are made by kids or agbayas who refuse to grow up 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 6:30am On Nov 19, 2019 |
I would have laid it out here but am afraid of what might happen years later with my post Life just isn't fair I pray on my soul i am able to weather the storm |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Ajagun1(m): 6:34am On Nov 19, 2019 |
U just said my mind especially ur number 3. Most ladies this days will want to come in to a home and turn thehusband to her family's personal ATM taylor89: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by cococandy(f): 6:35am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Losing my husband to death. I think that’s one of my greatest fears. Amongst losing my mom or my baby. #Shivers. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by FromZeroToHero(m): 6:36am On Nov 19, 2019 |
My marriage is 1 year and 7months but I must say that it is the best thing that has ever happened to me. 9 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by cococandy(f): 6:37am On Nov 19, 2019 |
You never start. She will cheat and have kids for other men as well. What’s good for the goose.... Your entitlement is mind numbing. To think you even believe you deserve all this. taylor89: 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by donjobill: 6:40am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Lindaa97: Best option is consensual open marriage, if he's open-minded to concede to it. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nobody: 6:42am On Nov 19, 2019 |
I'm somewhat introverted and I love being alone most of the time.My work is my "love".I'm afraid i might find it hard balancing work and marriage OR I might not love my woman enough.Still contemplating if to marry or not 4 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by IghravweIG(m): 6:43am On Nov 19, 2019 |
I'm thinking of going the baby mama way. Make i just give one babe belly, make she born for me. Marriage scares me. I value my peace of mind and sanity. 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Vivvvy1(f): 6:43am On Nov 19, 2019 |
electroTech: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by nairalee(m): 6:43am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Fisher007: Guy please how do I see u? I owe u crates of beer for this 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by donjobill: 6:45am On Nov 19, 2019 |
cococandy: Learn emotional detachment. Not easy though. But we'll worth the effort. |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by highbeekeys(m): 6:50am On Nov 19, 2019 |
The possibility your spouse changes character badly.. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by partnerbizn5(m): 6:50am On Nov 19, 2019 |
electroTech: Are you an anti natalist? |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by sweetkev(m): 6:52am On Nov 19, 2019 |
oneuote author=Fisher007 post=84154520]Hmm where do I start from? Marriage is a scam. Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, adoption or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history. Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section ![]() You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other. The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose For men: Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us. You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide. You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married". You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs. To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist. You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one. ![]() [/quote]bro one bottle of beer for you. If you see the pressure my family are putting in my head to get a wife, No be here oooo 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by partnerbizn5(m): 6:52am On Nov 19, 2019 |
mysticgal: You mean, you don't want kids? |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by partnerbizn5(m): 6:53am On Nov 19, 2019 |
AryaSand:Are you an antinatalist?? |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MedicH: 6:54am On Nov 19, 2019 |
pocohantas: Lol if u do anything violent, any form of assault na law suit go help put u in check. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by IghravweIG(m): 6:57am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Tchange1(m): 6:58am On Nov 19, 2019 |
The only answer is Marrying a lost glory as a wife is the greatest fear of any man. |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Gwagone: 6:59am On Nov 19, 2019 |
I'm not surprised seeing people who got married today and break up tomorrow |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by ABOVEDELAW: 6:59am On Nov 19, 2019 |
YOU ARE A TRUE SON OF YOUR FATHER, I LIKE INTELLIGENT BRAINS. taylor89: |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Acidosis(m): 7:00am On Nov 19, 2019 |
maynation:Baba? ![]()
Don't let the negative experiences of others give you a wrong impression about marriage. Yours can be different if you make deliberate efforts to enjoy peace and lasting love. Give love a chance when you find a good man, and you will find peace. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MedicH: 7:00am On Nov 19, 2019 |
cococandy: What's the matter with cheat and have kids with other men are you not ashamed of yourself bringing it up? Is that the marriage norm now? 3 Likes |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by Nmezor(f): 7:01am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Marrying a Wolf in a Sheep's clothing. 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by DanDeeBoss(m): 7:02am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Fear of losing My kids and Wife Marrying the wrong woman..... Men!!!! Scares the crap out of me.... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: What's Your Biggest Fear About Marriage? by MedicH: 7:03am On Nov 19, 2019 |
realtalk19: Is it bad? It's not. Either way somebody has to engage his/her passions and his/her drive for the money. How or why can't you tell a man with passion before marriage? Such abilities are never hidden because form the things he's always conscious of you can tell. One clue is if he does sport betting, run. 2 Likes |
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