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Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by micflo28(m): 8:38am On Nov 19, 2019 |
You really don't know this girl. Extend that marriage date and get to know her properly. You guys were apart briefly and she did all this awful things. And to be fair to her, what did you also do while you guys were apart. When you guys understand how compatible the devil in u guys are, then proceed with the marriage plans. Get to know the worst you guys are capable of doing when the marriage is at its lowest ebb. Its not just about her, also know what you can do when you at far away from her and what she can do when you lose your job, broke, sick or paralyzed. Don't rush into that marriage because others are doing so. Take your time and learn more about yourselves. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by BRATISLAVA: 8:38am On Nov 19, 2019 |
DonHummer:next time she will do it again and come and tell him the truth. But has that stopped the problem? No |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by taf4u4me(m): 8:38am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ:bros she didn't lie to you... after all she confessed that she had sex with another guy when you were apart,so what else...Infact she's a legend 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by jaxxy(m): 8:38am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ: She lied to to yes bt she was the same person that came back uncoerced to tell u the truth cos u wanted to take a big step with her and she felt it was only right to be straight with u. I don’t know how long this period was inbtwn both confessions cos that may play a part in determining her sincerity. Sm gals do same things she has done bt never talk about it so u have sm1 sincere or ready to change in that regard. U can get angry, u can scold her so she knows that was reckless bt u might still need to forgive her and if u love her move ahead with her. It’s ur choice. Modified: On second thought she broke up with u, u initiated a come back months after and she accepted bt she she dated and not only dat got pregnant and had an abortion when u were separated. That’s all whole lot of drama. Why was she so reckless and is her coming back to u a sincere note? Why didn’t she say the truth at 1st. These are major concerns and I think u should be careful and know exactly the type of gal she is before making any major move. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Nobody: 8:39am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Magicians: I hope you’re not a Christian. Because you also don’t deserve the grace and mercy of God. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by stickle(m): 8:40am On Nov 19, 2019 |
donbachi: I can't help but laugh. You are something else. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Poanan: 8:40am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ: She did not lie to you. She knew the gravity of what she committed, she still has a conscience. Do you think it is easy to say that to someone? She did not tell you cos she was not sure of how you would take it. Now you just confirmed her fears. If God is to mark our iniquity who will stand? Don't repeat that word LIE again. All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God. There is no perfect person in this world. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Shanana1(m): 8:40am On Nov 19, 2019 |
donchrisville:Yes, u re right. But on the other hand I believe what make the woman to confess is because she think the guy might know that she did abortion later. Why stop her from confessing the first time he demanded for truth, it means she can only say the truth when something is attached and she will still do it again..women are more secretive than men. What I think he should do is to put the marriage on hold and think if he can live a woman that is secretive.. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by rosalieene(f): 8:41am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ:dont take the advices here. posting the problem here was an error. she lied to you then because the relationship hasn't moved to the next stage. For her to reveal it, means she wants to be truthful. I am telling you as a lady, 80% of ladies will never reveal that they had abortion, they will rather carry the secret to their grave so far there was no damage or complications. you know her personally than those calling her a hoe here. your relationship is beautiful, let the past remain in the past and rebuild that trust. Dont let the devil come in and scatter your marriage plan. 5 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by makydebbie(f): 8:41am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ: How old are you? You can't make certain decisions for yourself? You've brought strangers from nowhere and little children to come decide your life for you over here. When you make a decision based on what they say here and it comes back to haunt you, I hope these same people will be here to console you. You want sincerity and you got it now you're complaining. 2 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Nobody: 8:41am On Nov 19, 2019 |
1StopRudeness:The worst calamity that can befall a man is to tie himself to a woman that is more 'open eyed' or more 'out there' than him. Any correct guy man can spot it in a few minutes. As a gee, you no suppose follow babe wey soji or experience pass you for these worldly affairs. Only mugus flout this golden rule. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Pegzzyg(f): 8:41am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Please, don't disagree. I have a married friend who took Postinor 2 & still got pregnant. Give your own advice to the Op & move on... Regards, Anfieldboss: |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by buzorcharles(m): 8:42am On Nov 19, 2019 |
make sure she is pregnant b4 u wed. some bad abortion can hurt badly |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Beverlyjean(f): 8:42am On Nov 19, 2019 |
She broke up with u cos of the same guy that got her pregnant .. the thing was still shacking her then ... I'm sure the boy was showing her so much love... But the moment the nigger tasted the pussi and got her pregnant , thats when he took off ... She then regretted leaving u ... She aborted the preg ... Realised she made a mistake by leaving u for him... U came back and she accepted shaparly ... Prodigal gf ... Smh 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Coldie(m): 8:42am On Nov 19, 2019 |
To me, she told u the truth, this is something she could have let die. And u would never know about. She came out plain since u guys were getting married. If u know u love her continue. But if u know that since u guys started ur dating she has never had an abortion for u before, but had for someone else in just that brief time u guys were apart, and u have a stance against abortion, to me bounce. But how sure are u that the next girl hasn't had an abortion too but hiding it. |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Shanana1(m): 8:42am On Nov 19, 2019 |
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Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Chubhie: 8:43am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Eleyi gidi gan o....
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Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by bethyz(m): 8:44am On Nov 19, 2019 |
If you want to marry her marry her forget all this stories joor. What happened when you separated should have stayed in the past, now you cant deal with it. Na the girl no smart her mouth to lose and she will lose the marriage. All this guys that say tell me tell me DONT EVER TELL SHIT. They cant deal with it. Just like this one. He wants to know yet the cant deal with it. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by pacespot(m): 8:44am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Gaggi: I tell you most men out there are just puzzy, they are weak because they cannot confide in themselves or other men. So they seek solace in women through unplanned relationship or marriage. The word LOVE that people bandy about that many don't know the meaning. How can you say you love someone that is taking you for granted? I think it has to do with insecurity issue. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by BRATISLAVA: 8:45am On Nov 19, 2019 |
pocohantas:I see it as she doesn't want the relationship anymore. The confession us to put him off. I don't know why people always ask what to do when someone comes to them, can't they smell the coffee? The person doesn't want you. And will repeat the same act, after all, they didn't really want you but you came back begging them and they had no choice 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Olakunleyakub(m): 8:45am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Pls who is this person? The best advise of the year so far Male or female donchrisville: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Slimdan360: 8:46am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Only God knows why majority of Nairalanders derive pleasure in breaking peoples relationship, each time they are asked for relationship advise,op only u know ur fiance and u alone can know if to continue with marriage or stop here,stop leaving her fate to people who barely know her, Follow ur heart and make the right decision,but I don't even understand u o,u told somebody u hate lies,the person said the truth and u are still asking if you should continue the relationship,why were you asking for the truth when you know fully well u can't live with it,abi u asked her for the truth so u could see reasons to break up with her,na wa for u o |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Thegamingorca(m): 8:46am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ: You selfish ingrate. She accepted your pitiful proposal despite not interested in you which was why she broke up with you before and now you are here feeling like you have a çhoice when infact you were on your knees begging her for a second chance. So you now want to remind her about it abi is that so? Carry on she will leave you without remorse |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by babyfaceafrica: 8:47am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Poanan:There is no perfect person in this world True,but that does not mean we should marry a liar and cheat..it is easy to forgive,but forget is another thing....there is nothing like peace of mind |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Lionpikin(m): 8:49am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Gaggi:bros, those kind guys dey annoy me like mad, too weak to be called a man, he is still defending the bitch....it's guys like these that will happily raise another guy kids in the name of loving their mother... can you imagine? shame no go even let me talk this kind thing come out.... 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by alawi5k: 8:50am On Nov 19, 2019 |
coolguy4christ:We are all human. It is only God that forgive and forget. Take her to hospital and ascertain that the abortion was properly done. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by poweredcom(m): 8:50am On Nov 19, 2019 |
These ladies of today I just don't understand them their ways are just too cunny These girl are so loose that anybody can wash Dem n bang Dem ...again beware of them many are undercover oloshos who can do anytin for money .. That is why one of my guy said he can't wife a Nigerian girl 4 Likes |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by djoe21(m): 8:50am On Nov 19, 2019 |
pocohantas: Thanks very much. You are intelligent. Some people actually confess for selfish reasons. Not saying that's the case here though as I don't know. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by RTSC: 8:51am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Believe me, I can never marry a lady that did this to me. But that is just me. Not everybody can be wise. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Brodagovernor(m): 8:52am On Nov 19, 2019 |
Going by what you narrated here, she ended the relationship at first( even though you didn't tell us the reason). Then you initiated the reconciliation. During the time you were apart, she moved on. Apparently you didn't. I know you know the truth but you have decided to live in denial. But I will tell you. She actually got pregnant to hook down the other guy, only for her to be disappointed. Out of shame, embarrassment, resentment and hatred, she aborted the pregnancy. Then you like a saviour, came back only to ask her hand in marriage. The truth is she has never been into you 100 percent. You her just her plan B if not C. I don't really understand why people are incapable of moving on and never look back. There are millions of ladies out there that can make you love drunk than what you are feeling now. I can forgive all things but definitely not infidelity, let alone one that led to abortion. The ball is your court. Its your call. You will be the one living with her. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Lionpikin(m): 8:53am On Nov 19, 2019 |
donbachi:Bros this one na mumu, nor be deputy Jesus, bros J no go try that shit....Bros J was celibate from beginning to the end, if he was going to get married, he would have married someone they were on the same level, but our dear op wants to marry someone who is sexually active while he is celibate and at the same time being in a relationship with her....too much stupidity if you ask me 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Fiancee Lied To Me, Now I Find It Hard To Trust Her by Nobody: 8:55am On Nov 19, 2019 |
cenaman:You wey dey find virgin to marry, shey you be virgin? 1 Like |
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