GeeSpyce:
I will come back to say something

taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

Newguyhere:
being committed to one pussy for the rest of my life.
I don't think I can handle that

faithsystem:
me, i'm not scared of anything right now i'm very much prepared and ready to get married once i meet the man. i planed to get married when i'm 25 and now i am . i am done with my first degree, served NYSC, have a good job, and 26yrs so i'm ready with no fear at all.

Sonnobax15:
Fear of ending up with a womb-less woman,perhaps one who has rolled with series of yahoo yahoo boys in the past...that's why it's now recommendable to give her *stomach* first before doing altar things.

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, adoption or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest one.

01Alpha:
The fear of been trapped with one wife...

feelmeTy:
I am facing it now oooo, I lost my job, n my wife don born, baby is 1 year plus, I dey get high blood pressure ooo. And wife business crashed too. A times I will wake up enter street of Ibadan looking for where them dey load frozen fish or noodles from truck to warehouse!

ednut1:
Marriage these days look like a scam

Lindaa97:

There are intimacy gadgets which could help with her urges.... Plus don't marry a nymph if you fear that happening

mrkings84:
Taking care of a whole lineage of who knows all in the name of marriage.

Na only in Nigeria it happens that u marry a girl and u are marrying all her family most especially when they aren't the rich type

nowpresence:
freedom like when I was single

fatymore:
Fear of not having enough money.
Fear of changing after marriage
Fear of marrying a second wife
Fear of falling out of love
Fear of divorce
Fear of fear itself

maynation:
Marriage na scam.
I swear to God.

FuckThaMod:
She might run away cos i will destroy her pussy day and night.. I love sex too much and I'm hardly satisfied. Today alone i had 14 rounds with 3 different girls. I'm a sex freak and I've tried so hard to control it but it's very difficult.

AryaSand:
Having babies.
The whole process is Scary and Traumatising. I've seen photos and videos and I don't think I want to go through it. I feel like if I do go through with it, I'm probably going to hate that child
It is like the major reason I sabotage all my relationships, whenever we start getting serious like this, i stop talking to them. I abandon them in the relationship and move on with my life.

donjobill:



@ bolded

a successful businessman would equally say after spending so many years building & developing his business to become a success, it becomes part of him, if he loses it, is like losing part of him.

# undue attachment is a vice that one can learn to outgrow through emotional growth towards emotional maturity.

Heineken:
hahaha nawao. Some women bad

makavelli80:
The fear of marrying a second hand lady. Aside family I can't imagine living with another person for the rest of my life. Is there any thing one can enjoy in a woman without getting tired of one day?

cococandy:
Attachment to your spouse isn’t undue attachment.
Also business and a life parent are not the same thing.
I rest my case.

musachara:

That's bitterness bro. What happened to you

Advancedman:


3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first


Just marry any or all of them Fool!

Slimdada:
AS A REAL GEE!!

In two years coming I'm getting married to the love of my life, my white lady in USA
Who I have been talking for over a year now
She has promised to come see me next year during her vacation
I wanted us to get married whilst she would be here but she said she's not ready to get married on the first time we are together
And she would rather want us to do a low key wedding in her home in USA,yes she's the one on my wallpaper
And I love her so much
Even without sending me money ever since we met till date
I still love her lai DAT

So in other
word's

AS A REAL GEE!!

I'm not gonna get married to any Nigeria Lady
This female folks from this country are mischievous and only want to marry for the wrong reasons
Which is claiming ownership or partnership of your achievement and assets immediately they take your name
No wonder Timaya aka papichulo refuses to marry his gf despite living with her,and having 3 children with her

cococandy:


Why aren’t you asking the male posters why they think cheating is okay for them? I guess that’s normal in your opinion but you get an aneurysm when the shoe is on the other foot. Asking me if it’s the norm. You have common sense. You figure out what’s normal and what’s not.

Hypocrites.
Swerve please

MedicH:


Talk about vin diesel and james bond. Or GTA san andreas.

muykem:
Na GEJ you won marry?

Simplep:
That he doesn't wake up one day and say he's no longer interested without doing anything wrong..

AK481:
Marrying an unemployed lady and at the same time has no degree and skill.

anslem04:



cheatin for men is nt a norm rather it is all about our biological edge over woman when the worst happens.
1. A man can keep multiple wives under one roof n the world won't end,
2.Men appreciate with body counts buh women depreciate over body counts.
3. A man can. av babies outside n till be fully available to his wife.
4. like i said b4 it natural in play ... a man can cheat becos his emotions are not attached to sex, the wife remains d luv of his life but asides whores , can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love.
5. when a man cheat n get caught is either d wife leave or stays becos its d man's house ..
reverse be the case can women do all these, can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love. lets even ignore what d society think.

ImaIma1:


Hmmmm...true.

Good to realize how much peace I give hubby. Because he spends most of his free time at home and likes me to tag along when he goes out sometimes.

Thanks for this

anslem04:


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cheatin for men is nt a norm rather it is all about our biological edge over woman when the worst happens.
1. A man can keep multiple wives under one roof n the world won't end,
2.Men appreciate with body counts buh women depreciate over body counts.
3. A man can. av babies outside n till be fully available to his wife.
4. like i said b4 it natural in play ... a man can cheat becos his emotions are not attached to sex, the wife remains d luv of his life but asides whores , can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love.
5. when a man cheat n get caught is either d wife leave or stays becos its d man's house ..
reverse be the case can women do all these, can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love. lets even ignore what d society think.
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