maiahsaiah:

Probably, but from observations, not completely.

Odi egwu.

anslem04:
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womennnn n maskin there feelin sha, mafo ! i was jus sayin d bitter truth guess i went abt it intelligently truth as to be rife, predominant or prevailing, void of feelings actually
Ur big grammar no impress me, i am sapiosexual n i believe u don't av wat it takes jus walk away

And we all laughed and laughed and laughed

Lindaa97:

Most guys are too self centred to allow that plus the Nigerian factor.

forget about the guys now and the Nigerian factor.. You, would you allow that in your marriage?

How to cope with never getting married


three ways to do this the first way that you can overcome this fear is by
understanding where all fear comes from God says that all fear comes from a lack
of knowing his love for you in other words if you don't know that God

Actually loves you and you doubt his power to accomplish his will and his
love for you there's going to be fear in your life so no matter what the fear is
whether it's a fear of flying or it's a fear of not getting the job or a relationship fear all fear basically has
the same root issue which is a doubt .

Continue by watching the video
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kamalese:
Bros if you happen to stumble on the book no forget to mention your boy.

I'll try to remember.

MrMacinterchi1:


This your understanding sound like a reasoning of a kid. How come u come about this conclusion ? Sounds way off. Lord have mercy!

When you see Buchi Emecheta, author of The Joys of Motherhood, tell her that too. You can also tell that to your elders. You had better broaden your knowledge and stop being one sided. It’s people like you that think white medicine is the cure for all sickness.

I'm really enjoying the comments so far...
Bring it on more...

Fisher007:
Hmm where do I start from?

Marriage is a scam.

Legacy is the only thing a man needs. As far as you have a child or children (surrogacy, adoption or baby mama). All na pickin, the rest is history.

Most people marry for flimsy, weird, crazy, survival, unfathomable and dumbfounded reason. I will speak for the men. Ladies you can speak your own too below in the comments section

You will marry a woman who's love for you is provisional, transactional and conditional. ( For better for worse statement na scam). If you doubt me try your luck. 95 percent of people in marriages are sad and cheat on each other.
The last 5percent are in a open relationship known to both party. Them just they push through for survival purpose

For men:

Na white knighting and captain save a slut wey dey do most of us. In order words beauty and toto dey too dey deceive us.

You will marry a woman you think you know. But you have no idea actually. She will form submissive, homely, loving until you done put am for house. Gbam the equation will change. Most ladies marry you based on their time don dey reach or based on they need you to provide.

You will now start understanding the famous quotes "my wife has changed. She is not the lady I married".

You see whoever you marry will always change. Change is constant. So don't complain. She will get fat, she will have hormonial imbalance, she will nag you. You will loose your peace, calm and quiet life. Just even forget sex - that one go turn weapon and manipulation tool for her. She will get old before you. Mind game go kill Una for house. It will be a power struggle since most women don't want to play their traditional role in the house. You will just be slaving and suffering for an ungrateful being brought out from your ribs.

To go home after work will be a problem, beer parlour and hangout will be your new base. She go police your life die. Na pure cage you go put yourself. But what do I know. Instead of you to stay single and enjoy your life as man. Nobody is rushing you. You will let stupid societal norms and Disney/ Naija/ Indian/ American movie fool you. Love doesn't exist man. It is only compatibility that exist.

You will hear excuse such as you will die alone. Lol. Did you come to earth with somebody before? Psssh

Qoute me at your peril. I done talk my own. Transformer and river is not far from you. Find the nearest o

Truth is bitter. You just nailed it.

taylor89:
Another man fvcking my wife


To my future wife out there please and please if u know you'll tag me an animal for laying hands on you don't do these Four below


1. Don't cheat (even if I cheat don't cheat back it's a set up because i go beat u before sending u packing

2. No matter what happens between us don't yell at me outside (u can do to me whatever you wish indoor even beat me I no go talk since na me dey at fault but don't do it outside

3. This one is the most important one, DONT COME BETWEEN ME AND MY PARENTS/SIBLINGS, they all went through hell for me probably when you were busy fvcking another guy(your then boyfriend) so when it's time to reap what they sowed u Better don't try to stop it because I'll stop you first

4. READ THE NO. 3 AGAIN I CAN EVEN KILL FOR NUMBER 3

If she can keep to this three then I'm ready

That no,3 is thier area of specialisation.

Jewessgratitude:


Accept Christ and your perception about life will change for the better. All you said is a lie from the pit of hell.

Na Ur Lie?

anslem04:



cheatin for men is nt a norm rather it is all about our biological edge over woman when the worst happens.
1. A man can keep multiple wives under one roof n the world won't end,
2.Men appreciate with body counts buh women depreciate over body counts.
3. A man can. av babies outside n till be fully available to his wife.
4. like i said b4 it natural in play ... a man can cheat becos his emotions are not attached to sex, the wife remains d luv of his life but asides whores , can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love.
5. when a man cheat n get caught is either d wife leave or stays becos its d man's house ..
reverse be the case can women do all these, can a woman sleep around n stil respect his man talkless of love. lets even ignore what d society think.

I look forward to when your Sister or Daughter's husband will sing this same tune to you and you will embrace and say "way to go man".

Surprised with comments here

i have left the dating scene since 2012 , i only do friends with benefit because i dont want to hold any girl down with relationship and not marrying and blocking her chance to get married , so i have made of my mind to start a relationship but really scared

Lindaa97:

Dating and asking .....
Your name though

I don't have any fears on marriage anymore, because Imma look well, before I leap into it with the man I have chosen.

I will never ever marry blindly or rush blindly into it.


Never I won't!

0KNM:
Marrying someone who is in love with some one else

You will definitely know before you end up marrying her.

hresso:


You will definitely know before you end up marrying her.

how?

AK481:
Marrying an unemployed lady and at the same time has no degree and skill.

nothing more.

DaGeneral:

I look forward to when your Sister or Daughter's husband will sing this same tune to you and you will embrace and say "way to go man".

Well i guess some of you can't just deal with the message without huntin for d sender.
it doesnt matter if it happens to my grandma, mom or sista sef ... its jus d truth n reality out that no one can do anytin about. if my daughter hubby cheat on her will i kill him n even she divorce him wil i marry my own daughter to safe her frm all men... or what is probability other men she tries won't cheat.

Fountainofyouth:
Divorce, not giving birth, God pls don't let me suffer these two things pls

AMEN!

Sonnobax15:
But las las,that's one thing you can't escape from as a typical african woman.

No be person born am? in fact make i no talk wetin dey my mouth.

cococandy:


And we all laughed and laughed and laughed

really !! intelligent & funny .. two compliment in one day ... coco mafo o !

AryaSand:
Having babies.
The whole process is Scary and Traumatising. I've seen photos and videos and I don't think I want to go through it. I feel like if I do go through with it, I'm probably going to hate that child
It is like the major reason I sabotage all my relationships, whenever we start getting serious like this, i stop talking to them. I abandon them in the relationship and move on with my life.

Dear, if you look around enough you will find very decent guys who also do not really want to have kids. You know in the African environment we are very superstitious. They will say she has used her womb or he has used his eggs to do money ritual or some other juju if someone says they do not want kids. So people hide that feeling. They go on to have kids they cannot love as they would love to.

I do not castigate those who do not feel they need kids. I love kids and the joy of having and raising them far outweighs the stress and burden of it. But I do not expect everyone to be like me.

We just need to show more understanding to people like you. And there are many.

IgbosNIGHTMARE:

Don't be silly and insensitive...
You are existing because a marriage or coupling worked out, be grateful for that!

Why should he be grateful for being brought into existence?

makydebbie:
Imagine if my husband isn't crazy about this ass anymore sigh.

This big round soft ass.

Omg... This nigeria border security's

Are you not a Ghanian ....
I thought the borders were locked how did you get here....

Lalasticala..close the border's on nairaland she is a ghanian who wants to smuggle in her comment

gregyboy:


Omg... This nigeria border security's

Are you not a Ghanian ....
I thought the borders were locked how did you get here....

Lalasticala..close the border's on nairaland she is a ghanian who wants to smuggle in her comment

Somebody cannot smuggle comment in peace again.

anslem04:





Well i guess some of you can't just deal with the message without huntin for d sender.
it doesnt matter if it happens to my grandma, mom or sista sef ... its jus d truth n reality out that no one can do anytin about. if my daughter hubby cheat on her will i kill him n even she divorce him wil i marry my own daughter to safe her frm all men... or what is probability other men she tries won't cheat.

You said cheating for "men" is a norm which for me is a generalisation that includes me as a man. Not all men are cheats and I repeat not all men are cheats. You cheat if you want to so let's stop this "it's an inherent characteristics". To me, cheating is same to stealing to killing and whatever evil exist in society. Question is why is everybody not stealing or killing? Because we choose to do the things we do. A man cheats with a woman who is another man's woman and threatens thunders if his wife dare cheat on him..
I get you message but I am sick and tired of using this to justify the nonsense we do in the name of "na man na".

cococandy:


And we all laughed and laughed and laughed

Very abused word lol.

Fizzymike1:


Who told u am not married

Your marital status is not the bone of contention here please.

makydebbie:


Very abused word lol.

Some of them just repeat what they hear others say

Tell him

DaGeneral:

You said cheating for "men" is a norm which for me is a generalisation that includes me as a man. Not all men are cheats and I repeat not all men are cheats. You cheat if you want to so let's stop this "it's an inherent characteristics". To me, cheating is same to stealing to killing and whatever evil exist in society. Question is why is everybody not stealing or killing? Because we choose to do the things we do. A man cheats with a woman who is another man's woman and threatens thunders if his wife dare cheat on him..
I get you message but I am sick and tired of using this to justify the nonsense we do in the name of "na man na".

tiptoe1:


Bros. abeg you fit drop your WhatsApp number make we they share ideas together. i also have an American babe coming to visit me next year

No shaking gee
You can send me an email
for what's up

MrMacinterchi1:



You don't mean it.
where u follow read that one from?

check your Bible well, the Bible says we should marry to avoid fornication.