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I Keep Going Back To Him by Bluebarbie10: 1:02am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Hello guys a friend of mine shared her little story with me and I want to see your opinion on this. She's being dating this guy for 8months on a no sex relationship but they later started having sex 3months later. She caught the guy cheating on her with some other girl. She was broken and I consoled her and adviced her to quit the relationship in which she agreed on. Later she started saying that she can't leave the guy and that anytime she goes to his place, he would touch her and she will just fall. He even beats her but still she said she loves him that no man has made her feel the way she feels when with him. Please my friend needs help this guy is not worthy of her. |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Mood11: 1:17am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Firstly, you lied to us that it's your "Friend" who has shared her life history My own is that there's an important family meeting that has been scheduled for Tomorrow and the reason is my younger brother killed the only chicken we were training for Christmas.. It's a very serious issue my dear sister, I have to be there. So I can't leave the important things I am thinking about to tell you what to do. By the way, you clearly stated that he even beats you. Maybe you should wait till he kills you. I might have something to say by then. 28 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by NiCurious: 1:21am On Nov 20, 2019 |
The guy is not worthy of anyone, but first you must learn what it is he offers your friend, that keeps her coming back. Is he the only man she's ever dated? Does she feel that no other man is interested in her, and her confidence and self esteem are down on the floor somewhere? Is she replaying an old abuse pattern that she feels that she can somehow "get right", this time, if she just "tries harder"? Or is she into masochism and BDSM and this is her kink? Is she seemingly healthy and secure outside of her love life? What is going on with her outside of this relationship? 2 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Jimbadly: 1:35am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Mood11: Oh, you've been TRAINING the chicken for christmas, Chai! Sorry o. Na to start TRAINING another one be dat na. You still have 35 days till xmas day. 4 Likes
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Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by maak400: 1:37am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Your friend(you) has been DICKmatized 2 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Oluwatosean(m): 3:27am On Nov 20, 2019 |
CLICK All that nonsense she feels and calls love na scam.. What does she mean no other guy makes her feel the way she feels when shez with him.. Does she like getting beaten, Is Being beaten a good feeling.. If she can't resist the dick then she should stop going to his place PERIOD And by she I mean You 2 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by daddytime(m): 3:45am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Hmmm The power of Kokomicin 1 Like |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by and1one: 4:32am On Nov 20, 2019 |
See, its the sex that's making you feel that way. Sometimes emotions na bastard. But hey! You just got to stop seeing or visiting him, get yourself (mind) busy with doing meaning stuffs around though it won't be that easy. The best option is to just relocate to somewhere you can easily visit or see him and try to make new friends that will help out a lot. 2 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by bluefilm: 5:04am On Nov 20, 2019 |
and1one: You nairalanders sef. Always assuming. She said it's her ''friend''. She never said it was herself in particular. |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by AfroKnight: 6:25am On Nov 20, 2019 |
You know the sad part? One gentleman would have been friend zoned by her just so she can have her heart broken by this ruffian. It is hard to sympathise with women going through stuff like this especially when you find out they skipped over decent men cos they thought they (the men) were too soft on them. 8 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by aminusodiq(m): 7:03am On Nov 20, 2019 |
she's (you) been dickmatized my dear!!! she(you) need to avoid him as a matter of urgency!!! 1 Like |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by kenir(m): 7:44am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Just go and recieve your beatings, it is just a small price to be paid for good dick (in thanos' voice) a small price for redemption YOUR BOYFRIEND HAS SO MUCH DICKNITY THAT YOU HAVE BEEN DICKNIFIED 1 Like |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by ITbomb(m): 8:46am On Nov 20, 2019 |
The girl has been dicknified, all wisdom and opinions are useless to her 2 Likes
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Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by mrssomebody(f): 10:35am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Mood11:who is this you are mean sister |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Naijazure: 10:42am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Mood11: Thy story just made my morning |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Charleys: 10:54am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Who do you think was servicing him when you were in that no sex relationship? |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Nobody: 10:56am On Nov 20, 2019 |
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Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Charleys: 10:57am On Nov 20, 2019 |
kenir: Hahahahahaha |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by MrCork: 11:00am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Bluebarbie10: your friend ....or you?.. ..please try another lie!! 2 Likes |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by femi4: 11:08am On Nov 20, 2019 |
Bluebarbie10:Avoid seeing him, avoid having sex with him 1 Like |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by fatymore(f): 12:06pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Lol... stockholm syndrome |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by infogenius(m): 1:03pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Bluebarbie10: Advice her to repent and give her life wholly to Christ. 1 Like |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by RexTramadol1: 2:07pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Come to me you who labour and are heaven ladened I will give you rest! 1 Like |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Lionpikin(m): 2:29pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Only you one, them charm you, only you one, you keep going back to him. na wah for you o, you no get any other thing wen you dey use your life do? no worry, dey give men ur body make dem take dey play ball, when you don attend Shiloh 2032 dey pray for husband, you go dey alright.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by JOHNSONSOLAFUNMI(m): 3:20pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
fatymore: No, it's not |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Nobody: 3:27pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Mood11: These the craziest thing I have read today .. |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Mood11: 6:44pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Cellenero: I am very serious my sister. All the women in our compound will be there too |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Nobody: 8:11pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Mood11:Does my monicker sounds feminine ? These is seriously serious Just wondering, can't you get another one & let the whole issue slide ? These gathering certainly will get ribs cracking. Please ensure to update us on proceedings |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by and1one: 11:00pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
bluefilm: I hear you o. Wehdone |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Bluebarbie10: 7:22pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
kenir:k What is dickinfied? |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Bluebarbie10: 7:23pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Cellenero: Mood11 u be serious clown |
Re: I Keep Going Back To Him by Bluebarbie10: 7:25pm On Nov 21, 2019 |
Lionpikin: Hey don't use this medium to insult me abeg u read again it's like you have an eye problem. Make sure u solve ur eye defect this Shiloh 2020 |
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