wilsonchilboy:
My brother once a hoe is always a hoe.. lemme nt lie 2 u o, me i dnt believe in love covering multitude of sin, i can 4gv but i no the 4get shii cus as time goes on it wil flash back anytime she misbehave. Trust me if i am in ur shoes i wont marry a lady who lie asf... I am nt saying i'm perfect but i alway thnk of 2maro b4 taking any action.. I put it to you that after ur wedding she wil tel u tnz that u wil jst kuku die so i wil advice u 2 discharg her nw b4 lawyers start eating ur hard earned money as filing fee and appearance fee for ur divorce matter ... God save us frm all dis hoeloshos distracting my fellow men

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coolguy4christ:


I did not sleep with another girl whilst we were apart, in fact since we got back, I have not slept with her. It's a no-sex relationship.

..oh..for real?? and she did that to you There must be reason she broke up the first time... Girls!!!

donbachi:
deputy Jesus...clap 4 ur sef.

funny you

jclassiq:


Yes!!! Secondary type one.�

Nice. Are you rich?

pocohantas:


Nice. Are you rich?

Lol

pocohantas:


Nice. Are you rich?

No I'm Ernest.

coolguy4christ
Howdy brother.. To be honest, I know how you feel, I have been down that lane before. In my case, she lied for apparently no justifiable reason. I mean, when no reason to lie, she still went ahead to lie. She became the kind of person that will tell you "it is raining" at the beginning of the conversation, and you stylishly stare out of the window to confirm the authenticity of that information, but even when you confirm that to be true, you still can't agree with the next words coming out from her mouth. I had to let go I couldn't live that life.... Having to monitor her every step and getting my facts before asking questions and when you hear her version of lie, it's flawless as if she had been rehearsing the lies for years and it fits in perfectly well that you have to doubt the facts and evidences you have.. Couldn't deal with making my research before asking questions heads on. Did I tell you she once swore with the Bible and deep down, she was telling lies? It was a "no-sex-outside-marriage" like yours, and I have no regrets for that decision though. The honourable thing for me to do was to walk away before it was too late eventhough I loved her with my soul... As Jonathan loved David. I have not completely gotten over her til date eventhough it's about 3yrs we broke up and more than 10months we last conversed.
Back to you case.... She opened up to you, not like you found out yourself, that is a game changer... And she opened up to you before marriage, meaning she knew its implication, yet she went ahead. Put yourself in her shoes, how would you have come out clean to someone you love and want to set records straight with, before marriage.
She loves you, pls give her the benefit of doubt. It will take time, but eventually, you wil figure it out. It is doable. Time they say, heals all. As someone said on page one of this thread, you can put her to your own test to determine the fate of the relationship.
From experience, pls never date or marry someone you don't trust. It can drive you insane and HBP is real. It can make you develop some nasty habits of sniffing around and in some dicey situations, you might not knw how to make certain decisions that should have been straight forward.
Godspeed

So, how did it go?

Analysiscorner:
So, how did it go?

Me sef, interested in the update

Same thing happened to me, I had to quit

wilsonchilboy:
My brother once a hoe is always a hoe.. lemme nt lie 2 u o, me i dnt believe in love covering multitude of sin, i can 4gv but i no the 4get shii cus as time goes on it wil flash back anytime she misbehave. Trust me if i am in ur shoes i wont marry a lady who lie asf... I am nt saying i'm perfect but i alway thnk of 2maro b4 taking any action.. I put it to you that after ur wedding she wil tel u tnz that u wil jst kuku die so i wil advice u 2 discharg her nw b4 lawyers start eating ur hard earned money as filing fee and appearance fee for ur divorce matter ... God save us frm all dis hoeloshos distracting my fellow men

Amen

OP you remind me of a 'born again' fellow I know. I guess it's not uncommon for 'born again' dudes to fall for this crap.

Please Do not be ignorant of the devices of women.

Do not take the advice of women.

donbachi:
deputy Jesus...clap 4 ur sef.

Lolz