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I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Beke2020: 8:04am On Nov 20, 2019
I need advise.

I have been married for six years to my girlfriend of 4(that is 10 years being together).We had dreams and aspirations when we got married but things have turned out different for us. We have not been able to have a baby. We have tried everything but it has not worked so far.

This situation has put a strain on my marriage. I find myself working late most times,drowning myself in work so as not to think about the situation or face my wife who have become so gloomy because of this.

This led me to my mistake. I slept with a co-worker. Working late one day,both of us left the office around 10.25pm. I tried to drop her close to where she would get a Taxi but on getting there,no Taxi or any means of transportation.

I had to take her home eventually. She kissed me when we got to her place and for some reason,my lust took over and I slept with her. She is a single woman living by herself. I thought this was a mistake but I find myself continually having an affair with this colleague of mine.

The more I spent time with her,the more I wanted to be with her. She seemed to get me. I tell her anything. She is a very good adviser and listener. Makes me feel wanted and respected. I know this wrong and I pray to God to give me strength to stop this.

This lady am seeing is....

https://livelystones.com.ng/i-love-with-my-wife-but-another-woman-has-brought-me-joy754-2/

Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by dre11(m): 8:09am On Nov 20, 2019
Op come and continue your story here....



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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by rottennaija(m): 8:09am On Nov 20, 2019
I don't know if this story is fictitious or not. But why would God chose to bless you through marital infidelity? Of course, it's said he acts in mysterious ways.

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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Amazingman(m): 8:13am On Nov 20, 2019
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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Born2Breed(f): 8:15am On Nov 20, 2019
If the story is incomplete here then its either fictitious or not your story.

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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by LegendaryLover(m): 8:31am On Nov 20, 2019
grin oshey... joy receiver
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Beke2020: 11:58am On Nov 20, 2019
Thanks guyz
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Amarisa(f): 1:35pm On Nov 20, 2019
Cont'd..

This lady am seeing is now pregnant for me. I was elated. At last,I am going to be a father. I promised to take care of her but she said she will not keep the baby if I do not marry her. Now,I cannot marry her even though I love her because I am still married to my wife.

Divorcing my wife will look like I left her cos she is childless. I am not kind of person. I tried to explain to this lady but she does not want to listen. What do I do? She has threatened to abort the baby cos she cannot be a baby ,mama.

What can I do please…should I divorce my wife and marry her or allow her go ahead with her threat and aborting the baby?..what if this is the only baby God has destined me to be?

With the way my wife is already sad and depressed about this childlessness,calling for a divorce will break her heart. I still love her despite all and I do not want to hurt her.

Another option I am thinking about is,maybe I can wed this lady traditionally. At least that is legal. But if my wife found out,it will still break her heart. I do not know why God has not blessed us with children,if not…I would have never slept with another woman.

While we were dating,my wife(then fiancee) got pregnant twice and twice we had abortions cos we were not ready. Could God be punishing us for that?Its been six years,even almost seven years but no issue.

I am genuinely confused. I warned this lady that if she goes and get an abortion without my approval,that I will sue her. She then said if I sue her,my wife will know about the pregnancy which I do not want.

I need advise.


Done..

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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Amarisa(f): 1:38pm On Nov 20, 2019
Wicked man!
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Simpleete: 4:21pm On Nov 20, 2019
Amarisa:
Wicked man!

Is wicked man and advise? Someone admitted that he made a mistake and needed an advise all you could say is wicked man,you yourself might be worse than him,bible said let him that hath no sin cast the first stone.
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Amarisa(f): 4:36pm On Nov 20, 2019
Simpleete:


Is wicked man and advise? Someone admitted that he made a mistake and needed an advise all you could say is wicked man,you yourself might be worse than him,bible said let him that hath no sin cast the first stone.

While we were dating,my wife(then fiancee) got pregnant twice and twice we had abortions cos we were not ready. Could God be punishing us for that?Its been six years,even almost seven years but no issue.

Did you read this part? They committed the abortion together,now he's looking for a way out leaving his wife..do you think she doesn't need children too? Assuming they have children and the other lady got pregnant,would he be thinking of keeping the baby? Now he's leveraging on the fact that they don't have children to justify his cheating on his wife..

I'm not casting any stone,he placed himself under the 'stone'...

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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Beke2020: 1:54pm On Nov 21, 2019
cool
Amarisa:




Did you read this part? They committed the abortion together,now he's looking for a way out leaving his wife..do you think she doesn't need children too? Assuming they have children and the other lady got pregnant,would he be thinking of keeping the baby? Now he's leveraging on the fact that they don't have children to justify his cheating on his wife..

I'm not casting any stone,he placed himself under the 'stone'...
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Nikkol: 2:59pm On Nov 21, 2019
Poster how so sure are you that she is pregnant? Even if she is,how sure are you that the baby is yours. My opinion tell her you can't divorce your wife,let her either keep the baby or so whatever she wants so far you are ready to support her. At least you acknowledged the fact that your wife have been pregnant on 2 occasions while dating. You did wrong I must say...
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by cococandy(f): 3:04pm On Nov 21, 2019
Pregnant for you? Lol lol lol

Some of these empty brain dudes sef. Once your egos are massaged, any woman can get away with anything in your lives.

Your ego is erect now as per someone who can father a child right? Joker. grin

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Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by Beke2020: 10:54pm On Nov 21, 2019
Serious Joker! I agree wit u dear
cococandy:
Pregnant for you? Lol lol lol

Some of these empty brain dudes sef. Once your egos are massaged, any woman can get away with anything in your lives.

Your ego is erect now as per someone who can father a child right? Joker. grin
Re: I Love My Wife But Another Woman Has Brought Me Joy! by frozen70(f): 8:29pm On Nov 23, 2019
Amarisa:
Cont'd..

This lady am seeing is now pregnant for me. I was elated. At last,I am going to be a father. I promised to take care of her but she said she will not keep the baby if I do not marry her. Now,I cannot marry her even though I love her because I am still married to my wife.

Divorcing my wife will look like I left her cos she is childless. I am not kind of person. I tried to explain to this lady but she does not want to listen. What do I do? She has threatened to abort the baby cos she cannot be a baby ,mama.

What can I do please…should I divorce my wife and marry her or allow her go ahead with her threat and aborting the baby?..what if this is the only baby God has destined me to be?

With the way my wife is already sad and depressed about this childlessness,calling for a divorce will break her heart. I still love her despite all and I do not want to hurt her.

Another option I am thinking about is,maybe I can wed this lady traditionally. At least that is legal. But if my wife found out,it will still break her heart. I do not know why God has not blessed us with children,if not…I would have never slept with another woman.

While we were dating,my wife(then fiancee) got pregnant twice and twice we had abortions cos we were not ready. Could God be punishing us for that?Its been six years,even almost seven years but no issue.

I am genuinely confused. I warned this lady that if she goes and get an abortion without my approval,that I will sue her. She then said if I sue her,my wife will know about the pregnancy which I do not want.

I need advise.


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Hey, stop this silly game you ate playing

Have you taken her to go for pregnancy test and the results delivered to you

Am glad your wife took in twice and you guys aborted the pregnancy

Why not hold on to your faith and be hopeful that God has a bigger plan for you

Yes you lost control of yourself and she claimed she is pregnant for you, how sure are you ❓

She knows you ate desperately looking for a child and she is on her game

If she can't keep the pregnancy then if she wants to abort it, let her go ahead

Don't break your wife heart because of your desperate situation

How will you feel if your wife imposes another man's pregnancy on you just to make you happy

How will you feel after marrying the lady and she gets a mis carriage and also have a delayed pregnancy, will you return her to her family that you are no longer interested or you keep her as your second wife and Shute both

For how long will you be able to do that

How you so sure tgat it's your pregnancy ❓

Pray to God to direct you to take a decision you can defend

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