So you have been with your partner for some time now. He/she has hurt you and broken you heart the first time, you forgive and love continues. They cheat again or hurt you the second time, after a while of “am sorrys” and “please forgive me, I promise it will never happen again”. You decide to let go and continue, after all, no one is perfect. Besides you love them too much you can’t bear to let go. Now they have betrayed you again for the third time with the exact same thing they have been hurting you with. They are seriously crying and pleading for your forgiveness and your brain has entered a state of confusion, you don’t know what to do. You are hurting badly but still you love them badly too.

You are thinking about the good times you have shared together, calculating the number of years you have been with them, all that time can not just go down the drain. He is rich and has more prospects too, she is so beautiful and super sexy. They spoil you with gifts and help out when you need them. He or she is so good in bed and have the perfect body. You keep thinking of all the good things about them and how far you have come, you have even introduced them to all your your family and friends.

Ask yourself, is this the cycle you want to live for the rest of your life? They hurt you and beg, you forgive. They hurt you again and beg and you forgive, the cycle keeps going on and on. You are blinded by their love and all and you are ignoring the single most important thing, your peace of mind and self respect. Yes, respect! They don’t respect you and they know you are “mumu in love”, if they cry and beg, you can’t bear not to forgive, so they take advantage of it. They are not loyal and you are ignoring that, you will cry for a long time.

Once is a mistake, twice is a coincidence, the third time is very intentional. Sister/brother! Wake up! Pull yourself together and move on. It’s very hard and painful but save yourself a life of misery. It’s not about how far, it’s how well. If you keep managing to continue, they will eventually disappoint you in the end. Don’t loose yourself trying to fix things, you can’t change them, it’s in their blood. Don’t accept what you can’t endure and don’t endure what can kill you. You deserve better and can do better. Forgive them but forget them and move on.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/14/dont-be-a-mumu-in-love/

If I can tolerate,forgive and move on with Nigeria regardless of her lies,deceits and cheating....I can forgive her and move on...but,just as I can't kill myself for Nigeria,I can't kill myself for her.

This is a great write-up!!
Bt sometimes i wonder how someone could still be in love with an abusive person?? Like WTF?
Things i can never tolerate in a relationship are
Abusive partner:my parent never hit me,one stupid boyfriend will nw raise his hand on me because of what exactly? That day it is over!!! Infact you will never see my shadow again!!!
Cheating partner I can't tolerate cheating partner no matter how i love the person!!! Because if he truly respects our relationship nd me he will never cheat no matter the circumstances!!!
Potential rapist All in the name of relationship you want to claim right as if you have paid my bride price ,if you ever try to force anything either kissing,touching or beyond, it's over!!! No turning back!!!
My dear ladies please no matter your love for a guy if he does any of what i listed please run for your dear life!!!

My girlfriend then once cheated on me...I found out through her chats.. I didn't feel bad that much because I'm not a saint either...

She begged me to forgive her which I did...but she doesn't know I have moved on with my life since then...she de give me her cookies these days anytime I'm in the mood...she think say I still de plan my future with her...

My tit for her tat...no Nigerian girl go fit use my head drink garri ..

I get bored with only 1 girlfriend...sorry to say...but I will change after marriage

Good write up op.
Most especially when thinking about the time/years you've spent together..you'll be like he/she will change with time or believing your next r/ship might be worse than your current or vise versa.then you subject yourself to one stupid commitment smh
That shit called relationship issa scam.tbh

Nigga stop f**king the bitch you rather let her go instead of faking it.

Pubichairs:
My girlfriend then once cheated on me...I found out through her chats.. I didn't feel bad that much because I'm not a saint either...

She begged me to forgive her which I did...but she doesn't know I have moved on with my life since then...she de give me her cookies these days anytime I'm in the mood...she think say I still de plan my future with her...

My tit for her tat...no Nigerian girl go fit use my head drink garri ..

I get bored with only 1 girlfriend...sorry to say...but I will change after marriage

Bhami:
Nigga stop f**king the bitch you rather let her go instead of faking it.

don't break de bro' code..u should know this is de only way to still keep her relevant around me, as man u be u suppose understand

Somebody once said "Loving you na scam o"

Btw nice writeup OP one bottle of kronibourg for you.

This is so me. Some girls are dating themselves, funny enough they don't know .

Pubichairs:
My girlfriend then once cheated on me...I found out through her chats.. I didn't feel bad that much because I'm not a saint either...

She begged me to forgive her which I did...but she doesn't know I have moved on with my life since then...she de give me her cookies these days anytime I'm in the mood...she think say I still de plan my future with her...

My tit for her tat...no Nigerian girl go fit use my head drink garri ..

I get bored with only 1 girlfriend...sorry to say...but I will change after marriage

Nice

Love is a chemical reaction in the brain...
Let this truth set u free

Love with your head not with your heart. Especially in an intimate relationship

The brain is wonderful. It works from when u're born & doesn't stop until...


You fall in love! Then you become a classic Mumu!

Good

Interesting

Hmmmm

Until you format their brain setting a mumu that is in love will still be a mumu.
I get angry when they report themselves on this forum when the situation has tied them down. You hear stories like; She cheated several times during courtship, I forgave her that several times because I want to spend the rest of my life with her. I married her, thinking she will change.
But she instead becomes neighborhood property and you are ranting online like an idiót

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Interesting

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helinues:
The brain is wonderful. It works from when u're born & doesn't stop until...


You fall in love! Then you become a classic Mumu!

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shut up

SO many women in the zoo has nothing to offer apart from liar,mess,doingt their favourite abortion,beg money,open like like scissors even to your own friends and family members and hoping for her husband to die after giving birth and geting fat so that she will join the great widows club and start fuking her dead husband friends,brothers and colleagues.
No relationship is petrfect.so someone must be hurt,and i prefer doing the beating,hurting and abusing than allow a woman do that to me.

But She is my most nicest neighbor, so you want me to let go of free food abi?

nothing like love

Pettyprincess:
This is a great write-up!!
Bt sometimes i wonder how someone could still be in love with an abusive person?? Like WTF?
Things i can never tolerate in a relationship are
Abusive partner:my parent never hit me,one stupid boyfriend will nw raise his hand on me because of what exactly? That day it is over!!! Infact you will never see my shadow again!!!
Cheating partner I can't tolerate cheating partner no matter how i love the person!!! Because if he truly respects our relationship nd me he will never cheat no matter the circumstances!!!
Potential rapist All in the name of relationship you want to claim right as if you have paid my bride price ,if you ever try to force anything either kissing,touching or beyond, it's over!!! No turning back!!!
My dear ladies please no matter your love for a guy if he does any of what i listed please run for your dear life!!!

See this one with ironing board yansh sef dey give conditions