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How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 4:40pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Must a lady suffer with a guy to prove she loves the guy? Must a rich guy lie that he is poor to get a genuine girl? How do we test true love? Is it in what ways. Drop your contributions. 26 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Colb461: 4:44pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
No faking in true love bt sha no show say u get cash if u like any girl oh..some girl's are just after ur money nt ur love.so use ur head wisely pls 93 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 4:45pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
act broke and see 46 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 5:02pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
chenzen:That's a good one too...not too broke ooh... don't show off!! 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by MJBOLT: 5:02pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
there's nothing like true love,people are only in relationships for their own benefits. 284 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 5:26pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Well, I have an advice for you my boy @OP From this moment, stop looking for true love I'm not implying that you cannot find it but stop looking for it. Rather start looking for a lady who is psychologically wired to always do the right thing and has a very advanced understanding of life. See, in most cases, love is transient. Sometimes, people fall in love because they fell into a moment where they perceived something that touched their heart from the other person. And then moments later, they find out that the feelings are lost. sometimes, people fall in love because there's constant communication or commitment between both persons and they are just lost in the fun of it and think they are in love. If something happens that distracts one of them from achieving the constant communication or commitment to the other person, they find that they lose the love gradually. sometimes, people's love for another person is usually connected to some features of that person that fascinates them or blows them away. "oh, the guy is funny." "the girl is intelligent" "the guy is charming" "the girl is georgous" e.t.c and they continue to fall in love so far these qualities are present. But what happens when they lose those qualities or those qualities gradually fade away? that's how the love will also be lost or will gradually fade away. So in most cases, love is transient. This is proven by the many broken relationships where you hear from both sides that they have fallen out of love. So if a person were to enter a marriage because of love, he or she is likely to be no more interested in the marriage eventually and may crave attention or love elsewhere and may want to break up the marriage. That's the reason why I said you should look for someone with a larger and better understanding of life and who is psychologically wired to do the right thing. this is because when it gets to the stage in a marriage where both spouses have fallen out of love, for people who do not fulfil the said criteria (no understanding of life or being wired to do the right thing), they would want to break up or would start seeking love elsewhere and they many end up cheating etc. But for someone who fulfils that criteria; - someone who understands that this life is not a bed of roses and it is not everything you want that you get; - someone who understands that the purpose of marriage is not necessarily to love rather it is to show care, support each other, become responsible, help each other achieve desired goals and for mankind to multiply (procreation); - someone who understands that there is time for everything and there are some certain pleasures that should not be sought at all stages of life or the pleasures should be limited at some point in time (imagine a 45 year old woman complaining that her husband doesn't take her out for shopping or so like he used to when she was still 25 when she should be more concerned about caring for the kids that she didn't have then but have now and focus on making them successful in life) - someone who understands that this life itself is a place of trials and there'll always be sour times or times when you would have to forgo your heart desires for the right thing to be done; - someone who understands that the pleasures of the hereafter are far greater than those of this life and is more concerned about that and because of that, he or she gives up some pleasures in this world just for the right thing to be done. - someone who has values, who understands cheating is bad, who understands that it is an evil thing to extort or deceive a partner for personal gains, who knows how to control anger and doesn't expect perfection from the other partner, who understands that for a marriage to work, both sides must be committed to it, who understands that deceiving a partner and extorting him should not be the measure by which you "make it in life", and who is psychologically wired to follow all those values; So for someone who has a better understanding of life and is wired to do the right thing, such are the people who stay in a marriage when there's no more "love" or when they have fallen out of love and continue to try everything to make it work till the end. So this is what you should be looking for, for "true love" Is scarce. If eventually you are able to find true love in a partner that fulfils the above criteria, then consider it a plus, consider it a blessing and thank God for it. My piece! 814 Likes 188 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Phenomenal16(f): 7:35pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Litmus paper 19 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Starz825(m): 8:07pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
aishauju:God himself is true love....only God can prove-test anyone claiming to truly love you 24 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by yomi007k(m): 8:27pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: This is so deep and intuitive. I wish I knew you personally. 140 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by pansophist(m): 8:47pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
A woman's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing. A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything If a girl stays with you when you're broke and have nothing, and can see the potential in you, and water it into maturity with you, especially when she still have in abundance her youthfulness and not in lack of male suitors, then she is a keeper. If an influential man with female abundance, didnt cheat on his woman despite numerous women out there that will out-compete his mistress, then he loves her. 73 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 8:56pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
yomi007k:thanks very much ![]() 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 8:58pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
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Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
by the way, lalasticlala dominique rocktation farano Fynestboi perhaps, this is worth front page. 1 Like |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:20pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
Phenomenal16: 27 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 11:51pm On Nov 20, 2019 |
MJBOLT:� Correct 4 Likes |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Magnoliaa(f): 1:33am On Nov 21, 2019 |
MJBOLT: Not true. 4 Likes |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Magnoliaa(f): 1:42am On Nov 21, 2019 |
Colb461: Your wealth, money, affluence or whatever you possess is a part of who you are. I mean, you worked for the money. And it is okay to use it. For it to be seen. There's no need to hide your class, because that's just how you might find a rich, classy babe like yourself. Date people within your levels. And if a girl is seeking you out just for your money, drop her. Or don't even try dating her at all. You should take it on yourself to filter people with good intentions from ones with insincere ones coming into your life (I know it'll be easier if everyone was just honest......) Hiding your money'll be like dumbing yourself down (in looks, intelligence, etc) just to attract someone. 19 Likes |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 6:41am On Nov 21, 2019 |
True love not easy to find. 1 Like |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Hubsolar: 10:03pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
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Re: How Do We Test True Love? by RPirez: 10:03pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Omo see JAMB question ooo. ![]() ![]() In Nigeria... na the amount of $$$$$ you fit spend take impress the olosho… The more you spend, the more the olosho go take attest to the level of affection. ![]() ![]() NONSENSE! ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Do We Test True Love? by SultanOfAbia: 10:03pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Ew |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by younowell: 10:03pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
What I know is that Love is love. Jesus Christ died for you and I. That's true love. Love your neighbor as your self that's another true love. Bruno Mars sang"i will jump out of the train for you".. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by xxxtedyxxx(m): 10:04pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Through love is what haens when both arties |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by anonymous1759(m): 10:04pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
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Re: How Do We Test True Love? by jaxxy(m): 10:04pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
There are many great test to know true love. The problem is most people or relationships will fail them. A few will pass with flying colors. Sm want it badly bt can’t seem to find or lay hold of it so settle. Sm people are not even interested in true love, They are quite content with the sham and that’s no crime Aslong as both parties are aware. Lol 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by babyfaceafrica: 10:04pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Magnoliaa:he is 99 percent right..people are parasitic in relationship,no true love among humans,only GOd loves unconditionally 5 Likes |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by NotBeenPaid: 10:05pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Killing yourself by jumping into the deepest ocean! 1 Share
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Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Starkid3010(m): 10:05pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
Stop wasting your time on this You vnt find it if you're looking for it 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by anonymous1759(m): 10:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
OladimejiRufai: You said it all close thread. 21 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
whatever you do, don't expect it from Nigerian girls, the moment your income decline, they will take off 6 Likes |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by u11ae1013: 10:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
True love doesn't exist 1 Like |
Re: How Do We Test True Love? by imma2(m): 10:06pm On Nov 22, 2019 |
You test it by placing a stethoscope on the heart. If the the heart beat rate doesn't exceed 100 per sec then youd know the love is fake ![]() ![]() ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
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