Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Get a lawyer first and pull the first bullet

You see thats why y'all should have elders like us.

I won't talk again. This na small matter. I once used to like buying trouble but have vowed not to make positive contributions to aid any Nairalander again


Good luck with this.

Leak it before him, he will be confused

healthserve:
Get a lawyer first and pull the first bullet

You see thats why y'all should have elders like us.

I won't talk again. This na small matter. I once used to like buying trouble but have vowed not to make positive contributions to aid any Nairalander again


Good luck with this.

It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

I don't have the clip,it is with him.

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

Maybe others will help

I've vowed to be unhelpful even in the face of death of a Nairalander. Sorry, its all about the game, not you. Don't take it personal.

he didn't deserve you though you cheated that shouldnt result to blackmail
release the video yourself if you have a copy

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

the guy that fvcked you has already leaked the tape

the best way is to trace and threaten the rapist guy of charges in connection with felony, breach of privacy and conspiracy, by so your fiancee will see he will also go in for it, because how come he got the tape if they don't mutually know each other

healthserve:



Maybe others will help

I've vowed to be unhelpful even in the face of death of a Nairalander. Sorry, its all about the game, not you. Don't take it personal.

pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

pamelaayomide:
pls don't be this harsh.
I need all the help I can get to stop this guy before he finish me off.

Not interested. ODAs can help. Since people have resorted to foolishness, ive promised to make innocent others pay for their foolishness. Shikena

NaijaDonCast:
the best way is to trace and threaten the rapist guy of charges in connection with felony, breach of privacy and conspiracy, by so your fiancee will see he will also go in for it, because how come he got the tape if they don't mutually know each other

That is what I have been thinking actually.
He have a hand in this.

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

which level are you and try to get proof that he wants to blackmail you

Report the case to your school security just the way you explained here and let them get him arrested. you'll laugh last in the end.

pamelaayomide:
That is what I have been thinking actually.
He have a hand in this.

you can in turn use his weapon against em

SmellingAnus:
the guy that fvcked you has already leaked the tape

To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

Tell him u still love him and lure him into a trap with some niggas around...unclad him and take pics and videos of him,then let him go.

I dont think he will, if Truly he loves you like you said. But how far ave you gone with the guy? Did he promise to Marry you at the first place?

Nickisindigo:

which level are you and try to get proof that he wants to blackmail you

I am in my 300level going to my 400L,I still had a lot to go.

At this point you need to open up to your parents and get the police involved........truth is you can't afford to let the tape leak out and cause you and your family monumental embarrasment

emmydiamon:
I dont think he will, if Truly he loves you like you said. But how far ave you gone with the guy? Did he promise to Marry you at the first place?

He said so that is why we always had sex.
I gave him my body but he decided to toy with the same body.
I regret ever knowing him,he is a scum and a misogynist.

He took advantage of you when you were unable to give consent? That’s rape. Your boyfriend wants to leak the tape? Your lawyer is going to kill two birds with one stone.



I have a question though. Somewhat Unrelated to the thread.
A man and a woman are both drunk. They have sex. Who took advantage of whom? These days, consent is defined by the woman. Why? (The Context is Heterosexual relationships)

sweetonugbu:
Leak it before him, he will be confused

It would ave been better if you didnt comment to this at all, Nigeria Dont know when someone is serious, africa mentality.

Why has your brain not told you to report the "rape" at a police station or was it an audio rape?
Involve the police asap before you bring shame and high BP to your parents. I don't pity you, I only pity them.

donbachi:
Tell him u still love him and lure him into a trap with some niggas around...unclad him and take pics and videos of him,then let him go.

He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

pamelaayomide:
To him,the tape is with him.
I may involve the school security or a dreaded cult guy.
Maybe if the former didn't work,the latter will.

Why Cult guy? What if they kill him and you are arrested as one of the culprits

pamelaayomide:
I am in my 300level going to my 400L,I still had a lot to go.

his he also a student or try talk to him and don't try to leave him

Nickisindigo:

his he also a student or try talk to him and don't try to leave him

He is.
The guy that record the video is also a student.

Oshey... Someone will trend very soon....

Anyways... That's a nice story o...

I don't believe all dx "advice me stories on nairaland"....

They will write emotional stories and sit down to watch how comments are flying in......
Una try o

so in other words any new sextapes that comes before the year end is yours

pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

if involve cult guys you are a risk sef

pamelaayomide:
He will know I only said that because of the threat.
I will involve the security or the dreaded students in the campus.

act fast.