udemzyudex:


Dick move ? How if I may ask?

She's past tense and he definitely don't want to have anything to do with her again,so blocking her is the right thing to do.

You want him to continue viewing her status for what then?

Deleting her contact would be more appropriate because she might need him (or vice versa) in the future for something very important.

Blocking is a feature reserved for Telemarketing
and automated phone calls

Respect55:
She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha

She is not ur wife

Rejoice5000:
yea that's the bitter truth use omo and wash ur face before u say i do.Baby mama is not a way out.

And how many baby mama will a guy need? What happens when konji begins to deal with you and baby mamas are busy with someone else? If a guy is angry because his girlfriend is cheating, why should he then accept baby mamas that will sleep with any other person she likes.

Odinaka00:
Op stop acting like you 're not pained.. You 're a human being and not a robot..Even if you didn't love her that much you would still be pained knowing that a guy like that bangs her... Imagine how the guy will be banging her after buying her those shoes... Anyways my own be say.. Just try as much as you can to forget about her and move on with your life.. Most importantly focus more on your hustle bro.. Kill your enemies with Success.. Trust me you 'll find someone who is more better looking than your babe

That's why I don't really date Naija gurlz... Any Naija girl wey just fine small... Just small she go get many boyfriends wey dey buy her things... Make them come Southy I swear them go realize say them nor even fine at all..

Trash and more trash

maasoap:


I don't believe her. She made her choice when she decided to still sit down with her boyfriend when op was leaving. She could have easily go after him and try her luck if she believed in their relationship. But no, she stayed back.

Everyone's mind is wired differently and react to shock differently also..
Some people tend to let the pain,fear or whatever out immediately whilst others just become rooted to the ground and outright speechless..

He was the last person she'd ever expect to see there and according to the op, she was shell-shocked, speechless and rooted to the ground..

If you've ever watched the CBS show CHEATERS, you'll know that they most times act on the offensive or do outright nothing and try to minimize the shame as much as possible by running away from the wronged partner..

Her seeing him there and the guy introducing her as his girlfriend, meant she knew she was fvcked already.. She might probably tell herself ;"fvck him, my new guy is better" but this is definitely a way to water down the fire of shame burning in her and believe me, such fires can't be quenched completely.. It just requires a "getting home with a sober mind", a "lying on one's bed" and "reflection on previous happenings" to let all the emotions flood right out..

If they both truly had good memories, and the op honestly didn't wrong her in any way or did right by her in the entire relationship, then be rest assured she's devastated hence her status update on suicide should def be taken seriously..

I still think the other guy planned it though.. He probably found out and decided to humiliate the op.. Dude was most probably laughing inside when he introduced her .. Trust me, people can be real petty..

congratulations BRO

I am waiting for a follow up thread form both this poster and his "former" girl friend. ..

healthserve:




Maturity of mental control is key then. It's always seduction that pulls them off a stable path

Bro! you nailed it
That's the word SELF CONTROL. it's beyond mere word it's everything..

Respect55:
I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

I enjoyed this part bro her conscience killing her she will call back I promise

Respect55:

Just woke up now to post this because I felt bad since I came back and slept off. No more relationship for me. I will marry when I'm ready

We are in same boat ⛵ Bros, relationship now na headache �

Akanoaaa:



If the girl could follow him to party after you left there that means the lady had long broke up with you. you was only one dating yourself since. But thank God you finally free.

Yea she no send him at all.some ladies sha she still get mind to party with the said guy.

Olanre05:


I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

This is absolute thrash.

If there's an aspect in which the Op is not meeting up, why not quit rather than cheat?

Respect55:

How would I be after sex in a girl I wanted to settle down with?
Anyway, I have heard u but there is actually nothing else to explain other than than what I saw.
Funny enough, she is here, following this thread too and has commented.

What's her moniker

Any thing double dating usually brings more harm than good

KevMitnick:
Only about 6% of comments on this topic are from females,... I wonder why...

Noticed the same thing

Seems most Naija girls are really hoes as they say. The fact that very few has commented is strong evidence. They can't go about removing specks from the eyes of others if they have logs in theirs

Respect55:
I'm not bothered about her. Let her conscience eat at her.
Funng beings. She just updated her whatsapp status to "Someone should talk to me before I commit suicide." I just viewed it and blocked her immediately

Dis matter is getting funny ooh,its good as u block her

Respect55:

Just woke up now to post this because I felt bad since I came back and slept off. No more relationship for me. I will marry when I'm ready

My boss, welcome to our world.Hustle hard and u will laugh last,just be focus and double ur hustle, relationship is nothing bust scam.

wirinet:

Forget that thing. I started life (relationship wise) with a no sex relationship, and I seriously got burnt. This girl loved me to death. She was ready to give me all her school allowance and beg for the rest of the semester. We were like 5 and six. When friends started telling me someone else was shining her Congo, I confronted her and she vehemently denied it and cried for days. Even her room mates were very angry at me for breaking their friend's heart. I fought with all my friends, telling them that they are jealous because I had the most beautiful girl in school. It was one of my friend that then set it up that I caught her red handed. Till today, I never spoke or confronted her about it. I just cried and moved on.

So when I am talking I am talking from experience. Today I am happily married for over a decade, due to that experience. I understand women better.

Wow.. interesting.

Lets pity the next guy who might be feeling unto of the world that he has a sweet loving babe not knowing a hoe is better than her.
The hardest thing now is getting a royal or submiisive babe..
Most women are Runz girls;some knows while some dont....

Raalsalghul:


This is absolute thrash.

If there's an aspect in which the Op is not meeting up, why not quit rather than cheat?

She is the girl that broke up with the Op...the lady you quoted

Are you sure the other didn't know you were dating the girl, cos the moves looks strategic to me.

He came to buys shoes, didnt pick them up himself, gave you an address and called you to bring it over, you met your babe, he called you back again to introduce his girlfriend to you.

My dear, that was a subtle way of telling you that you gat to go!

praz001:



Trust me it isnt that easy to get over. Most times we place our entirty on this ladies and They let themselves down.

Mine was March this year. Am just getting over her now. she is been disturbing with calls after her pregnancy with the other guy.

men! I try pleasing her with everything. No matter how much you try, it better to embrace the reality rather than living in illusion.....

Let the op take enough time out he will be better for it

Sorry about the heartbreak, but that's not enough to deter you from moving on with another lady. There are always hoes among the good ones. You should be happy that the relationship with the hoe ended. The best way to forget is to move on with a much more beautiful lady. Except you're finding it hard talking to a lady. Just wipe the thoughts of her off your mind. It's so easy, I don't know why some guys find it hard.

LieDetector:
perhaps you are the cheating girl. Just know you've lost what you might NEVER experience again - True Love.

Na she be that Yeye girl

Respect55:
She accepted o. She goes to my elder sis apartment at will and my guys know her. We have gone far. I'm not Dangote but I changed her outlook. Not bragging sha

YOU sound responsible

God will replenish your pocket

You lived up to your name respect twale for you..this is a blessing in disguise.God saved you bro.you deserve better!!!

Mykel51:


She is the girl that broke up with the Op...the lady you quoted

Lol. Abi!

The way she's been defending his ex is suspect.

Olanre05:


I like your healing process and the way you handled it with utmost maturity. Here is my take on the issue, there are two sides to a coin, you must have given her heaven and earth, make her better off what she used to look like and the likes,and there is one thing you ain't doing right which she might have spoken to you about severally and you ain't changing. Which she is getting from the other guy aside from the materialistic and monetary aspect of it...

This comment after reading it several times proves you're the OP's ex.

Dimples0303:
Is it... Really? Wow. Fascinating.

I've played my role ^^^^

Gentlemen and ladies, I introduce you to the lady in question...

Wow, just wow. I wonder what some girls want. It's girls like this that allow guys say girls are hoes. Anyway, you're fortunate enough to know her before marriage. I'm sure you caught her for a reason. Move on and don't let her own bad attitude discourage you. Your Mrs right is out there.

Cheers!!