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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Yeecar(m): 11:06pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
WackyJ1: midnighter: Just ignore the girl already, as you can see, most of them have the tendency of cheating. When they are caught, they make you feel you caused it... Fish brains 3 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 11:11pm On Nov 26, 2019 |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:09am On Nov 27, 2019 |
Respect55: Not an excuse. 100 or 500 or 1000 is too small for a lady to be collecting on Sunday... 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by centboy123456(m): 9:29am On Nov 27, 2019 |
Olanre05: you are a fool] a hoe> a dog> a prostitute and a disgrace to womanhood just imagine what you saying I feel so sorry the man that will marry u dem all you Nigerians girls are all the same thing no different I pray u never see husband in ur life u still dead been single useless tin 5 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Yeecar(m): 12:38pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
EmptyCoconutHead:You are not making any sense at all. 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:07pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
centboy123456: What is wrong with people like you? What part of my comment (a joke by the way) offended you so much that you had to say all this to me? Please, you people should just close down your schools and universities because look at what it's churning out! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I weep for you people. Ps.. I'm not Nigerian. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by praz001(m): 4:24pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
[quote author=Respect55 post=84383310]After what happened Sunday between us, she haven't called. I'm not expecting her Cann althesame because it's of no effect. She came to my elder sister's house without my notice and was sobbing uncontrollably(my sis told me so). So my elder sis called me and asked if I'm back to which I told her yes. She asked if I would come and u pleaded with her to give me 30 mins to get some things done. I got there and met her with my ex who was still crying and my sister consoling her. Moreover, my sister said she hadn't opened her mouth to say anything since she came but have just been crying. I told my sister that I don't have anything to say about that that when she open up to her, let her know what to tell her but that as for me, I'm done with her. All along, she had her face buried to the ground not being able to look at me maybe her own guilt is eating her up. Let it do more. I took my leave because she was the last person I was expecting to meet anytime soon. No other thing have happened. For now I'm just focused on my Hustle and nothing more. No more love. [/quote congrats! My guy, happy married life..... it isn't that easy to let go. if you are sincere with yourself, a little part of you is still attached to her. if you can continue, forgive and give her a second chance. if not tell it to your family and move on. whatever happens, you must still get married. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 11:06pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
[quote author=praz001 post=84416428][/quote] U don't just know me |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 11:23pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Let me officially draw this thread to a close. All thanks to the mod that is appointed to ban me each day I post on this particular thread for what I don't know. I don't even know that one gets banned without stating the rule been broken. That's by the way. Back to my thread. I went to see my elders sis this night too after which she assured me that she had come and gone because I told her that I won't come if she was there. When I got there, she is gone truly. My elder sis narrated everything she confessed to her and she kept it real. Kudos to her for that. Then my sister told me that we were to get back to her this night to know what I'm still saying. That she told her that that particular day was the first she did that and she never knew I would meet them there. My sister told me as well that she was the one that chose outside instead of going to the guy's house. That the guy has been asking her to come to his house. I told my sister not to believe her. Was she not the one that gave the guy her number? Why didn't she tell me that someone was asking her out? Why would she go for a date without my notice? My sister had no answers to these questions and I asker her to call the girl at my presence. She did and told her that I still stand my ground that it is over between us. The phone was actually put on loudspeaker so I could hear her at the other end. Immediately my sister told her my stand, she could say anything again. I was sure she broke down, or so I thought. My sister shouted "hello" for few times but there was no response. So I took my leave. That's how one moment of bad decision messed up all our efforts and future. I didn't lose. Maybe she did. Maybe not. I have no regrets. I am a cool guy. Be that as it may, I know when to say enough. Whenever I have said that, there is no going back on it. Thank you all for the audience. THE END 24 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Henitan24(f): 11:47pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Respect55: Deep breath 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Nobody: 11:55pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Respect55: Lala, you have tried and traffic was back to back, I think you can rest now. You did a job well done and you have earned your pay... ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sultan5(m): 3:13am On Nov 28, 2019 |
Respect55: You have made the elders proud. Go into the world and conquer ![]() ![]() ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by wirinet(m): 6:21am On Nov 28, 2019 |
Respect55: Nice and logical end to the story. As I said earlier, I had a similar experience and I never went for closure. I was not interested in the when, where or why, all I knew was that the trust (glass ) had been shattered ,and it was impossible to put together again. Since that experience, I swore never to engage in no sex relationships. A no sex relationship is more complicated than a sex relationship. If you had been screwing her brains out, and made her brain flood with oxytocin and endorphin ( morphine like drug produced during orgasm, this is what causes sex addiction), she would never have let you go. She would have commited suicide before letting you go. As I digression, I have had a girl friend stab herself (it was in the hand though ), because I insisted it was over. I had to get a restraining order from the police to stop her coming to my house and creating a scene. You ex girlfriend is only missing the material benefits and family support, that's why she is having some difficulty moving on. She is not yet addicted to you. My brother, you will be alright, most guys have seen worse betrayals from women (and vice versa). If guys should start writing what they have passed through at the hands of daughters of eve, nairaland servers will crash and permanently give Error 522: Connection Timed Out. 17 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by MrCEO69(m): 10:00am On Nov 28, 2019 |
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 10:01pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Let me post here also for the very last time. I know the mod will ban me afterwards but I just chose to keep you all in the know. This will be the last time surely. The end of a thing is actually the beginning of another. I thought I had gotten over all these issue with my ex only to find out she kept to her words. I got a call from her mom wound 5pm today that I should as a matter of urgency, come to their house. I said OK. I took some few minutes to take somethings in and lock up where I hustle. I got there only to be told my ex attempted suicide by drinking a poisonous substance. To them, all thanks to the immediate younger sis who rushed to her soon to see her writing in pains. A call was put across to the dad who left his office at Lagos brokiri here in portharcourt, rushed down and took her to the new mile one hospital where it was confirmed she was poisoned. She left a note where she stated I should be held accountable for her death with my phone number. That was how I was invited. (I used to talk to her my before but never with her dad). The dad told me that I should reserve whatever I have to say to the police tomorrow because the matter has been reported accordingly at mile one police station. I have contacted my people here in portharcourt too. Please if u are here in portharcourt and a lawyer, follow me let's talk privately. Treat as urgent. PS: I won't reply to comments again. I'm been tested. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by dannybrasky(m): 11:57pm On Nov 29, 2019 |
Respect55:They are about to bully you. Serious case with a bad lawyer,with a good lawyer you dont have a case. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 12:03am On Nov 30, 2019 |
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 12:09am On Nov 30, 2019 |
dannybrasky: She is just trying to manipulate the situation, how can they report him to the police when he hasnt done anything? Did he tell her to go and drink poison ![]() When I said that he should calmly disentangle himself from this girl you people were on my neck ...now look at it. What effrontery, the dad even said he should tell it to the police lol. They want to start rubbish this December now Modified: The bolded is actually the case. https://www.nairaland.com/5547427/broke-up-double-dating-girlfriend/25#84427520 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by jojocity: 12:24am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Lalasticlala and other Mods, please don't ban this guy. He's in trouble now and he needs our help. We are one family here. Please let's help him. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by samtol4(m): 2:37am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Respect55:some girls are confused most girls want money money money |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by samtol4(m): 2:44am On Nov 30, 2019 |
midnighter:well said he lacks wisdom in disentangling himself ! Once u decide u dont need to announce to everyone u dont need her .if she was dead with that note u will spend small time for prison |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 7:05am On Nov 30, 2019 |
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:19am On Nov 30, 2019 |
midnighter:Let me reply since they haven't banned me as usual. Why do u hate me so much? I have been following all ur posts and u seem not to see any good in whatever I do? How exactly have I wronged u? I haven't even seen u for once and u display such negative energy towards me. Why? Anyway, I have gotten a lawyer. We are on our way to the station. No one can bully me. I haven't done any wrong. 7 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:21am On Nov 30, 2019 |
samtol4:Your way is not my way. I don't live in hypocrisy. I tell people bitter truths. Of what use would it be to my conscience to keep someone my heart had said no to in the pretense of avoiding this. I haven't made any mistake. Believe me they will pay for my expenses 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 8:31am On Nov 30, 2019 |
midnighter: Wow. This matter has taken the expected dimension. To manipulate to the point of trying to takes ones life. Some people have serious egoistic issues Oya MissCookie come for ya updates ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by dannybrasky(m): 8:44am On Nov 30, 2019 |
midnighter: Typical Nigerian act! Yeye father. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 8:49am On Nov 30, 2019 |
dannybrasky: On the contrary Sir. The dad did right. He doesn't have the details and don't want skirmishes or more entanglement so it was best for him to say, you know what let's leave all the talk when the police comes. And then issues can be discussed and settled. If this was the narrative, fantastic way forward. If otherwise, then wrong, its multidirectional Cc Midnighter |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by samtol4(m): 9:13am On Nov 30, 2019 |
Respect55:calm down baba ! If she was dead with that note you will eat small beans 4 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by dannybrasky(m): 9:37am On Nov 30, 2019 |
healthserve:valid point. I was of the assumption that for him to have traveled all the way down,he must have gotten first hand info from his family. Well,let's watch how things unfold. |
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