Not to throw shades at women or anything..someway I know some would be hit by some hardballs from this post..

We guys keep talking of how broke guys should hustle and the likes,but in all honesty..whether you hustle or you don't..what happens when you are ready to settle down..after the whole hustle..I'm sure you'd wanna settle down for a flashy girl or a girl that makes you feel proud of your hustle..

So is it safe to say..Guys love expensive marriages too or is it that they don't have any other options but to spend millions on weddings..Aso ebi, Wedding halls,reception programmes and more..

I saw The famous wrestler,The Rock's Wedding ,also known as Dwayne Johnson..With all the wealth and being one of the richest ,if not the richest Hollywood Male actor right,He and his Wife did their wedding on a small Island..he and her and a few friends and that was all..

Should we say Big Weddings are an expression of the poverty mentality of the black man or that Big Weddings are a show of love or some sort of closer bond.

I don't know,Also insults are allowed ..

Is it Poverty mentality on both sexes?
Is it for social media approval
I know a young couple who both came from very wealthy families and their Wedding was a hit that year,but crashed within 5 months, compatibility issues..
Not to make generalizations..but do we really need the noisy,loud,fake weddings

no be wen 45 years old aunty dey marry oo...na d whole world suppose come dat wedding.

Well, do they hate small weddings? I don’t think so.

Do they prefer big, colourful, glamorous weddings that get featured on Bella Naija and Instagram? Of course they do.

How much of their personal funds do they contribute to the big weddings? Let’s not start a fight here.

Ladies are very competitive by nature. They love to think in comparatives.

I wish you know the joy and pleasure big weddings give women


men don’t fancy big weddings when the resources is limited

They’ll opt for small one and be claiming “what’s big wedding for?

My brother if the money deh, you’ll invite drake to come perform sef.


Big wedding to women is to show their peers that they married a well to do somebody

Funny thing is most of them are jobless and won't be contributing chi chi

AfroKnight:
Well, do they hate small weddings? I don’t think so.

Do they prefer big, colourful, glamorous weddings that get featured on Bella Naija and Instagram? Of course they do.

How much of their personal funds do they contribute to the big weddings? Let’s not start a fight here.

Ladies are very competitive by nature. They love to think in comparatives.

I'm not there ooo..nah you talk am ooo

Should we say Big Weddings are an expression of the poverty mentality of the black man



You just showed how shallow your thinking is, expensive weddings is not only in black culture, in fact it is in every culture, people all over the world are known to throw extravagant weddings. Weddings in indian culture is such a big affair that it is done in days or even weeks and the whole neighbourhood is shut down.


You need to improve your self esteem and the way you think about black people, every race has people who behave in a crude and belligerent way, it is not only black race. There aren't any ills that only happen in the black culture. Before labelling black people as bad because of what other people do, try to read more on it, reading won't kill you.

mezarddinny:
Should we say Big Weddings are an expression of the poverty mentality of the black man



You just showed how shallow your thinking is, expensive weddings is not only in black culture, in fact it is in every culture, people all over the world are known to throw extravagant weddings. Weddings in indian culture is such a big affair that it is done in days or even weeks and the whole neighbourhood is shut down.


You need to improve your self esteem and the way you think about black people, every race has people who behave in a crude and belligerent way, it is not only black race. There aren't any ills that only happen in the black culture. Before labelling black people as bad because of what other people do, try to read more on it, reading won't kill you.

Here is what i want to ask..
What I'm driving at really is this..weddings are a thing of joy definitely..but what I'm driving at is "big weddings" even average couples too these days would nearly break up if they don't make their dreams of an elaborate wedding come to pass..I definitely love a good one..but what happens when there really isn't enough to throw a big wedding..do you break up? Or just go on with a decent marriage celebration

Pelxmiye:


I'm not there ooo..nah you talk am ooo

Lol. They should pardon me o

The only reason i wont do a big wedding is dat i hate attention and pictures.

Small weddings won't oppress their friends and their ex

Everything to them is a competition, they wanna outshine others Seek validation and all I think it's a psychological thing.

Gawd I hate big weddings, most times it's just for show off. I attended a cousin's wedding last month (first wedding I attended in almost ten years), it was mostly about the big personalities and bride's family. Introduction and hailing of dignitaries took half of the time, with some people having almost ten titles, I was like WTF, at the end I no still see better food chop

For me the perfect wedding is one with less than twenty guests. The one that drives me nuts the most is the asoebi women, I don't even see the point, bridal train nko, I no see the point.

Dear future wife, take note; it's either a small wedding or you foot 95% of the cost, either way if I see people wearing asoebi, marriage don end be that.

I don't like big weddings...

Who big wedding epp?

Simplep:
Who big wedding epp?

Exactly ooo, when my mates are using money to do businesses, I'll now lavish the money just a single day, never! A palour engagement is ok, people of 10 is ok, then from registry to my husband's house Mi o le wa ku

its about competitions,give their friends something to talk about

Lamanii22:
I don't like big weddings...

Really...let's we'd next month.. ..but I no trust one of your friends fit change your mind laslas

Every woman likes attention.

It depends on the individual ladies what they want. Thou I as an individual prefers a small moderate wedding, Traditional and Registry that's all. Then live happily ever after

Lamanii22:
I don't like big weddings...

Lamani let's do church marriage oh..sheybi you are not a big fan of huge weddings

missyojo:
It depends on the individual ladies what they want. Thou I as an individual prefers a small moderate wedding, Traditional and Registry that's all. Then live happily ever after

Your head dey there...no too much story...we do the small moderate wedding for a start.. registery..then let the fucking beginning..the love as well ... companionship and some few years into out 40s..we do a big wedding anniversary.. that's my kinda style

I asked 2 of my friends.

3 million wedding or 500k wedding plus 2.5million car for her the next Saturday...


They chose 3 million wedding.

A good number of women are dumb. No offense

no girl will force me into all these big wedding

Bola146:


Exactly ooo, when my mates are using money to do businesses, I'll now lavish the money just a single day, never! A palour engagement is ok, people of 10 is ok, then from registry to my husband's house Mi o le wa ku

my cousin wife said same thing but only traditional wedding we Don dea count million

Pelxmiye:


Here is what i want to ask..
What I'm driving at really is this..weddings are a thing of joy definitely..but what I'm driving at is "big weddings" even average couples too these days would nearly break up if they don't make their dreams of an elaborate wedding come to pass..I definitely love a good one..but what happens when there really isn't enough to throw a big wedding..do you break up? Or just go on with a decent marriage celebration

that problem is with humans, they always try to show they are better than the people near them, that is why some people will want to buy a car and instead of buying the one that ticks his box, he will buy the one he doesn't need just because it is better than that of his friend.

Women tend to like big weddings because they are more passionate about getting married to a successful partner and one of the ways to show they picked a successful man is by expensive weddings. Many men also want large weddings just to prove that they are rich to people are probably 10 times richer than them

let me book space first... i'm just 15yrs of age..... wen the elders have assembled, i'll be back.

pepper dem gang tinzs i guess

Wont they show off to their peers, even if the couple ends up drinking garri for the next one year or divorce in 3 months. We know who's pocket would look like Alabi visited it na. What better way to start marriage, than to start it boggled in debt. Such profound wisdom. You wont understand the feeling biko. Anyway, As fela sang, Yanga dey sleep, trouble go wake am. Let dem manage their chosen palava jare