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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by SolomonGrundy: 11:22pm On Nov 27, 2019
Maryjane001:
Dated a guy for two ND half years, he was well to do, was working while I was an undergrad.
While we dated, I never asked him for anything until I got into uni. I sometimes saw it as humiliating to ask im for money.
As Uni sometimes dey be, u fit dey broke nd ur pops gat ntin to give u at dat moment....babe gat to mellow. The few times I asked was usually when my foodstuffs we're Abt to finish. I go ask my guy even if na #1k make im send 4 me.
Guy go tell me cock ND bull stories wey me Neva hear sotey me wey ask go dey shame bt im sabi to buy expensive phones, clothes ND shoes for himself.
Never spent a dime on me.....
At a point I got worried Abt everything along wit his attitude and broke up.
At least, it z better to b single Dan stay wit dat kind of person.

Where u dating him because of money before

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by boiz2men(m): 11:23pm On Nov 27, 2019
pocohantas:
Never encountered one.

-When an average Naija girl calls a guy stingy, there is a high probability he is prudent in his spendings.

-When a Naija guy calls a girl stingy. There is a high probability she is indeed stingy.

For me, I know how to get the best out of my man. The easiest way has never been to ask directly. Just lovingly and strategically work on his ego and allow him do the rest. Except he is an efulefu (or doesn't even have). A man's ego is his greatest strength and weakness too. Ladies keep missing this. Impatience...maybe.

However, the first step is to date a man that has sense and conscience too grin


Please try this ego thing on me... I want to see something

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by cooltola(m): 11:23pm On Nov 27, 2019
stingy is when you have N1000000 in your account and you find it difficult to take your woman out to a nice restaurant.
Stingy is when you have N10000000 in your account and you still prefer to use bus or prefer to walk to your destination when you can afford uber/ taxify.
Stingy is when you have N100000000 in your account and you still pay your housemaid N10000 monthly
Stingy is when you have N100000 and you struggle to give N200.

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Alexaonfleek: 11:25pm On Nov 27, 2019
Samuels90:
it's a sarcastic statement, sorry oo, if u feel I sound harsh... cool
lol.i got the sacarsm,that's why I said so
No hard feelings tho smiley

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Olibboy: 11:25pm On Nov 27, 2019
Lemme be financially free then I will accept that I'm stingy. Today no food, tomorrow belle full. think about it. Thank God say belle no b show glass dem for sabi say na kuli kuli and pure water dey make man survive.

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by BarrElChapo(m): 11:27pm On Nov 27, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
Hehe grin

About to break up with one now grin

He's not a bad person to say,but e get as e be.

To start with,he's never bought anything for me before,whereas I have
Hardly ever called me with his card,always me doing most of the calling
Twice,he asked me to borrow him card,I gave him,dude never returned it.
I'm done kiss

When he was asking you out didn't he "pretend" at least with calling you often ? undecided and if that's the only reason why not just tell him in a loving manner if he's not a bad person ?
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 11:29pm On Nov 27, 2019
Nickymichy:
Hmmm..I use to have one terrible friend den...he came to my house...guy broke die..I begged dis guy to give me #100..my guy say kobo him no get..I just lock up accept my faith..we discussed for like 30mins...naso D's guy stand up say him dey go...as my guy stood up from his seat..two #1000 note dropped from his pocket.. He didn't notice... I lock up..as my guy comot I pocket d money...to my surprise he didn't come back DAT he lost money...its being two years now DAT D's thing happened.. Stinginess ehn..

You're the theif in this story. People like you are a problem to society. You stole his money and come and call him names on top shocked

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Alexaonfleek: 11:32pm On Nov 27, 2019
BarrElChapo:


When he was asking you out didn't he "pretend" at least with calling you often ? undecided and if that's the only reason why not just tell him in a loving manner if he's not a bad person ?
It's not the only reason I'm breaking up.other reasons too

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 11:37pm On Nov 27, 2019
Trutherme:


That must be you in the car. Must thugs like you respond to everything. Loser!
You don't know that bank supervisors or managers know how much their employees make? Dummy undecided

Bicycle mechanic like you calling himself Professional aluminum engineer/fabricator. Loser!

Continue lying, we will finally believe you tongue
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 11:40pm On Nov 27, 2019
Trutherme:


You skipped your medication again. Retired bicycle mechanic/fabricator like you.



He really got to you grin grin grin

I look forward to my own insults but you'll still be a liar tongue
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Samuels90: 11:40pm On Nov 27, 2019
Alexaonfleek:
It's not the only reason I'm breaking up.other reasons too
OK, u have your reasons. If it's cool, just settle amicably and move on... No need wasting time when u ain't seeing a future there or rather, getting the necessary feeling or joy u deserve. cool
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 11:41pm On Nov 27, 2019
Designerdollars:
were you giving him sex? If no, then you had no right to ask money from him undecided
And if she gave sex, you'd call her a prostitute. There's no winning with nairalanders angry

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by pocohantas(f): 11:46pm On Nov 27, 2019
boiz2men:


Please try this ego thing on me... I want to see something

You do not have sense... smiley

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 11:46pm On Nov 27, 2019
cooltola:
stingy is when you have N1000000 in your account and you find it difficult to take your woman out to a nice restaurant.
[s]Stingy is when you have N10000000 in your account and you still prefer to use bus or prefer to walk to your destination when you can afford uber/ taxify.
Stingy is when you have N100000000 in your account and you still pay your housemaid N10000 monthly
Stingy is when you have N100000 and you struggle to give N200.[/s]

Only that first person you mentioned could be called stingy because that's someone's mum. Everything else is a choice.

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by boiz2men(m): 11:57pm On Nov 27, 2019
pocohantas:


You do not have sense... smiley

cheesy cheesy

This sounds like your version of "you are stingy" if you don't get what you want after all gimmicks.

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by tosyne2much(m): 12:03am On Nov 28, 2019
Funkyswagzz:


cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy that is savage!!
No be beans at all baba cheesy

Well not only women are stingy to their boyfriend to that extent.. There are some guys who are also stingy to their girlfriends to that extent
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by pocohantas(f): 12:07am On Nov 28, 2019
boiz2men:


cheesy cheesy

This sounds like your version of "you are stingy" if you couldnt get what you want after all gimmicks.

Nope, it is just what it is - lack of sense(of responsibility). A sensible man with his ego, positively intact, prides in taking care of his own.

The woman should also be sensible to reciprocate. When I talk of care, I don't even mean money, because I have NEVER been in a relationship where my man had my acct number and was sending some stipends. But I expect him to hold his end down, no matter how little. We go on dates, little gifts here and there. If I have to try you, because you want to prove to me that you are different. Why should I bother? C'mon, I have things to do with my time.
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:19am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


He really got to you grin grin grin

I look forward to my own insults but you'll still be a liar tongue

Liar! You are responding to your own comment. Now you are a female. Imagine
Now that you are a woman. Has that monthly thing finished yet or you are in heat? grin grin

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by tommy589(m): 12:22am On Nov 28, 2019
PattyMike:
I just start to stingy and nah brokenness turn me to like this. Before I be cheerful giver and it broke me down financally. I use to be ashamed to give a guy or girl 5k or less for dash. It was always 10k, 20k though mostly my guys I'll confess. I don't give women(except My mama and Nwa Baby) money especially when you're not a close(+3 years female friend) or if you haven't helped me out once or twice in the past. For example a lady I meet less than a month ago said I should buy a new phone for her, I said I don't buy things for people's gf. She turned it to sub, I said what of your bf? Let him handle his responsibility. I have mine and I take care of her to the best of my ability so let your own carry his cross. If you want money from me then you know what needs to be done. Next thing she said was "Stingy boy! Don't worry very very soon I will start eating your money", I even suprise say she still dey message me. When you broke and u find N1,000 but nobody send you. Next time when you see money you will make sure it's accounted for. For the buhari regime no money for shinaaa again. Men now dey face their wife and gf with aggression.

I am now like you and I like it. Not because of been all that broke but whatever support I gave in the past still end up making me look like a fool. I now exhibit my dark side that I don't know existed before. No one takes advantage of me anymore since I rarely give again

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:27am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


Continue lieing, we will finally believe you tongue

It's lying, dirty thing. You had the opportunity go to school but you couldn't resist your teacher grin grin

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:30am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


He really got to you grin grin grin

I look forward to my own insults but you'll still be a liar tongue

Same way your teacher gave you 'belle' at 14 ba? grin grin

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 12:32am On Nov 28, 2019
Trutherme:


Same way your teacher gave you 'belle' at 14 ba? grin grin

More lies... You're just following your destiny so I won't take it seriously kiss
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:34am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


More lies... You're just following your destiny so I won't take it seriously kiss

E Pain Am grin grin grin

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 12:35am On Nov 28, 2019
Trutherme:


It's lying, dirty thing. You had the opportunity go to school but you couldn't resist your teacher grin grin

Thanks for the correction btw kiss
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Nobody: 12:38am On Nov 28, 2019
Trutherme:


Liar! You are responding to your own comment. Now you are a female. Imagine
Now that you are a woman. Has that monthly thing finished yet or you are in heat? grin grin

Has paranoia set in?

You know it would be easier to just take your L instead of giving yourself more of a headache grin
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:40am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


Thanks for the correction btw kiss

Go thank the teacher who wired you and gave you 'belle' at 14.

You are not welcome undecided

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:42am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


Has paranoia set in?

You know it would be easier to just take your L instead of giving yourself more of a headache grin

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by Trutherme: 12:43am On Nov 28, 2019
Dimples0303:


Has paranoia set in?

You know it would be easier to just take your L instead of giving yourself more of a headache grin

Get a life, Smelly grin
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by EmptyCoconutHead(m): 2:57am On Nov 28, 2019
ArmaniUhuru:
Women stinginess na follow-come. E get as their mata dey be.





Na only dem go ask you for money to buy shoe for them, you go tell them say you nor get money, dem go con borrow you with their own money to buy the shoe for them.
lmao grin

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by deltateam: 4:01am On Nov 28, 2019
kalvoken:



Linus, continue you hear

He told you how much in her account.
Account kor, profit and loss ni.

Its possible and very much so. Bankers know what is anyone's account by having the account number or even name because they have easy access to data.
Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by deltateam: 4:04am On Nov 28, 2019
seangy4konji:
To be honest. Majority of the ladies and women are stingy. They prefer to get you to zero balance before they bring anything out and that because they see that you have reach zero balance.

They will even still tell you after you don't red ...

I borrowed you and you will pay m back after we both enjoyed mine with no borrowing

That's why its good to date a working lady. Be generous to her and see how she reacts to your birthday and times you are in need.

If she's nonchalant, show her the way out. It doesn't get better in marriage only worse. Its a disaster.

To hell with, your money is our money while my money is mine crap.

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Re: Your Encounter With A Stingy Partner? by deltateam: 4:11am On Nov 28, 2019
SolomonGrundy:
Where u dating him because of money before

Not necessarily but dating someone who's insensitive to your needs is nonsense nah. Its a relationship meaning both parties should assist each other.

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