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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by zyzxx(m): 10:44pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Respect55:Good evening bro, I have been following this trend all this while now waiting for the step the lady will take. Bro i know you have stand your ground of not taking her back, I respect your decision and I know your have right to stand your ground, and truly if u insist that she is no more coming back nobody can blame you But let me remind u, life is not all about right and wrong sir we use to offend God he use to forgive us This lady, to me have tried, although she might not do it the right way In which most of us expect ( coming to u, bring all her family etc) but she shows you mean the world to her. She could even try to take her life cause of u, (forget the term she is trying to black mail u, Who joke with poison?, her pride is just taking the best out of her) anyone can make a mistake. I believe she will learn from this and it even an opportunity for you to shape her to who ever you want her to be because with this she already knows where her heart belongs. Bro, to a spiritual man everything is spiritual, don't mind me, it might be devil sees you guys great future together and want to scatter it... Do u know the next lady u are going to meet? As the matter of fact that lady will also had one time made mistake in the past or u will be her own mistake also, it a stage we will all pass thru in life No sin is too big to forgive. To err is man On a final note : A devil we know is better than an angel we never knows. Bro Pls forgive if you truly love her Love covereth all sins 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 11:17pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
zyzxx: U have done well. Thanks for the time. Sincerely I don't bear grudges. I don't hate her. I'm not even happy that all our efforts have gone down the gallows. But you see, I have learnt to accept the things I can't change. It's not about me, it's about my heart. My heart is no longer there. This thing called love is one funny thing. You can imagine a situation whereby the person you used to look forward to seeing makes your mood bad at present. It's not my fault I still went with her people this afternoon to see her. I asked how she was doing she said fine then turned her face to the wall. I didn't say anything again. I have no ill feelings whatsoever towards her. The love isn't just there anymore. It comes naturally. 5 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by I888(m): 11:55pm On Dec 01, 2019 |
Respect55: You killed that girl... |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sultan5(m): 12:37am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Respect55: Totally agree with you. Take it easy on her going forward tho. Be as gentle as you can be. But keep your distance if you can. If she comes to you, hear her out, even if it won't change your mind in any way. At least do it for her own sanity. Use kids gloves this time please. I wouldn't advice you get back with her, for your sanity. But its ok if you want to, you know her much better. More wisdom bro. I must say, I am very impressed with how you have handled yourself thus far. Cool, calm and astute. More grease bro. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Sultan5(m): 1:08am On Dec 02, 2019 |
MissCookie: Correction, clean closure isn't the way, it is your way. But there are merits to your argument granted. But to insinuate that your way is the only way just sounds off to me. Not everyone one wants clean closure. And surprise surprise not everyone needs it. There are times you've just had enough and don't really care why they did what they did. As in they have broken a trust so strong and real that it has utterly diminished their importance and reasoning. You can't toy with people's heart upandan. There's a breaking point where it's just doesn't matter what you have to say. As no excuse no matter how big is enough to absolve you of your misconduct. Everyone must not react the way you want them to. Just because they don't, doesn't in anyway make them any less right. While you crave closure, the op doesn't care for it as his mind is made up. Learn to step out of your own point of view and try understanding others point of view. You don't have the monopoly as to the right way to do things. No one could have predicted what she did. And you don't know how it would have played out if he had gone for closure. Knowing the op will refused to take her back. She could have come with poison to threaten him. Claiming to take her own life if he doesn't take her back. Am sure the op wouldn't take her back. Causing her to carry out her threat exposing the op more to legal action than he currently is. There are many right ways to climb a mountain. But there are mountains that will push the boundaries of your skills. Doesn't mean your strategy is wrong. Just means you're on a challenging mountain. 13 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 1:32am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Sultan5:Taken. U did well. Thanks once again 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 1:33am On Dec 02, 2019 |
I888:How do u mean? 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by uboma(m): 5:51am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Respect55: What did I miss? Did she return to beg you? It's difficult to follow the thread page by page, kindly tell me the page you posted the updates so I can read up. Thank you. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by healthserve(m): 7:34am On Dec 02, 2019 |
zyzxx: This is my perspective too. Honestly I felt this exact way 100%% 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by I888(m): 8:37am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Respect55:the way you handled it is the best way to deal with women... No emotions, no complaints, no fighting... Just cold composure. She will eventually come back to beg you. |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:48am On Dec 02, 2019 |
I888:Alright. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 8:51am On Dec 02, 2019 |
uboma:I can't start searching for updates and pages please. She will be released from hospital today. But then, nothing has happened 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by tejiri4(m): 8:59am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Op I like the way you taken up the issue but my little advice is that you should not take her back cheating is a red flag. yes you can be friends with her. a better lady that value you will surely come ur way. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by tejiri4(m): 9:01am On Dec 02, 2019 |
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by dannybrasky(m): 9:44am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Dude gets cheated on,he handled it in a matured manner,but still gets crucified for not handling it well. What a world we live in,is it until he kills himself? Table your matter on Nairaland at your own peril,funny set of people, SMH!!! 5 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by zyzxx(m): 11:28am On Dec 02, 2019 |
Respect55:I understand you bro Just please be open minded don't just lock your heart More wisdom I love the way you handled the whole situation 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by JONNYSPUTE(m): 11:39am On Dec 02, 2019 |
dannybrasky:. My brother I tire o. 7 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by abdeiz(m): 4:36pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
@OP I can only imagine how traumatic it must have been for you. Honestly I admire your cold demeanour and the way you so maturely handled this. Do not mind those up there trying to shove down their own beliefs down your throat. Ignore them please. They are birds of the same feather with your ex even worse sef. May we never come across their type in our lives ever. Definitely your plan for people to learn from your story even if its one person is a success. I've taken some tips from you in handling such situations. Take care bro. 4 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 5:49pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
abdeiz:That sounds nice. I have always told them that I shared so that people will learn and not to criticize me. When such befalls them, let them handle it the best way they would. Their backlass and unguarded utterances can't get close to me. I'm not a weakling. Let them keep on talking, it doesn't make any difference. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Boyhood: 6:05pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
uboma:Rather you should follow him, so that anytime he makes a comment/update, you will see it and you can read all his previous comments/updates it's easier that way 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 6:11pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by abdeiz(m): 6:16pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Sounds to me like you are crushing on the OP ![]() ![]() ![]() midnighter: |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 6:24pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
abdeiz: Modified: Nope 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Respect55(m): 6:30pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
midnighter:Why is it difficult for you to mind your own business? Why cry more than the bereaved? I, John, don't have any problem. I haven't gotten myself into one either. I have faced my fear as a man and I count no loss.This single post of his is more important to me than all u have offered all along. That been said, I never had you in mind when I shared my story. As such, I won't bother again about whatever thing u say here. Shame on me if I reply u ever again. 11 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Korllami007: 6:32pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
abdeiz:They never expected him to act like that in that situation. They were expecting him to start begging the girl after she cheated on him or want him to say "I don't know what to do. Please help me. I need your advice" like some other guys have been doing in his situation". They just want him to appear weak by force. ![]() ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by midnighter(f): 6:36pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Lol, whoever just liked this comment is very funny. Deleted 1 Like |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by abdeiz(m): 6:39pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Okay oo...if you say so midnighter:
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by abdeiz(m): 6:41pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
lool...Honestly i dey feel the OP ahswear...He no send at all Korllami007: |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by Korllami007: 7:16pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
abdeiz: Someone was even trying to put the blame on him. ![]() ![]() To me, if she truly loves op and cares about him, she will never and never go to club with that other guy after op caught her red handed. That's nothing but "See finish". Haba!! I'm pretty sure she never took sniper but took substance that's not as potent as sniper. The girl knows within herself the other guy won't marry her; they are just using each other to cure konji. She thinks that Op might be her best shot to get married. So, she just doing all that not to lose her best opportunity to get married, not only that but also not to lose husband material that Op is. With all I have seen though, op won't fall for that trick. Note: this is my opinion oo. OP, to be candid with you, you deserve this. 7 Likes
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Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by I888(m): 9:02pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Sultan5: You shouldn't expect anything less from a fellow female on a thread like this. They have a way of trying to tilt things in their favour. I had accept they are wrong, If the OP had reacted irrationally, the stupid girl will play tactical maneuver by trying to blame him and also make him feel guilty. If you read previous post, the OP hinted that the girl had commented on this thread and I saw her following the thread even after 2 days of making an initial post. Her words were that the OP didn't do something and that is what resulted to the outcome, to which OP stated that the only thing he remembers not doing is not FORKING the bittch. All NOTICE that the number girls that commented on this thread are not even up to 10 because virtually all of them are guilty. I love the way he really handled this, to be honest. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by I888(m): 9:13pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
midnighter:how does he not know how to handle a problem? See, the OP may have not stated this but I am sure that for him to have reacted this way, he had experienced something similar previously. I can tell you for a fact that there are some of us who are extremely kind and generous but if a girl abuse whatever privilege we give or take us for granted, I can assure we would not even care if she died. 2 Likes |
Re: I Broke Up With My Double Dating Girlfriend by I888(m): 9:26pm On Dec 02, 2019 |
Respect55: You be man... AS IN YOU BE REAL MAN OF STEEL!. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
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