thorpido:
The wife will have to move on and it is best she is in a good position to re-marry.
How many Nigerian men want single mothers?
I've seen this happen to two people.The other lady aborted the pregnancy.

The statement is unreasonable to you because you are limited in perception of the effects on the woman too.

Maybe she prefers to raise his child. Maybe this child would be her greatest comfort forever more. You don't know this but you know that a woman can find love again even if she has a child from a previous relationship. Even in Nigeria.

Mindfulness:


Maybe she prefers to raise his child. Maybe this child would be her greatest comfort forever more. You don't know this but you know that a woman can find love again even if she has a child from a previous relationship. Even in Nigeria.

It's possible but slimmer chances.
If she decides to keep his child in his memory that would be great.
I know a woman in this same situation,she aborted the pregnancy

thorpido:
It's possible but slimmer chances.
If she decides to keep his child in his memory that would be great.
I know a woman in this same situation,she aborted the pregnancy

Her chances to find love depend on a variety of factors. And a man who won't accept her tragic fate with compassion and her child is not worthy of her.

The woman you mentioned, it was her choice. Hopefully nobody advised her to abort based on fear of not being able to please a Nigerian male.

Mindfulness:


Her chances to find love depend on a variety of factors. And a man who won't accept her tragic fate with compassion and her child is not worthy of her.

The woman you mentioned, it was her choice. Hopefully nobody advised her to abort based on fear of not being able to please a Nigerian male.

Well,it's not a straight-forward decision to make for some women in her situation.It may not even be the fear of not finding love again.

thorpido:
Well,it's not a straight-forward decision to make for some women in her situation.It may not even be the fear of not finding love again.

Why are we even discussing it while she has barely begun the mourning process? She is probably still in a state of deep shock. It's somehow insensitive. She will make the right decision and her loved ones will hopefully support her in the way she needs it.

SultanOfPuna:

Wow, your life must be miserable
U need help

I mean ur brain

Mindfulness:


Why are we even discussing it while she has barely begun the mourning process? She is probably still in a state of deep shock. It's somehow insensitive. She will make the right decision and her loved ones will hopefully support her in the way she needs it.

Yeah.

supremenews:
A Nigerian soldier has been confirmed dead after being involved in an accident which occurred two weeks after he walked down the aisle with his wife, Ivie.

Gabriel Osemudiamen who got married to his wife on November 16, died after his car which developed a fault plunged into a river in Warri, Delta State on Monday December 2.

Friends, family and loved ones have already taken to social media to pen down tributes to him.

source: https://www.titiloyeblog.com/2019/12/nigerian-soldier-dies-in-accident-two.html

Marrying a soldier is risky business.... their odd is like 0.5, e dey enter quick

rest in peace gallant soldier... if you know you for no marry, the same road you drive pass before marriage now turn to death trap after marriage.....

You're very wicked. You don't even pity the dead to have replacement

thorpido:
Rather unfortunate.
Hope the wife never take in.Too early to be a widow.
May his family be comforted.

LivingSage:
You're very wicked. You don't even pity the dead to have replacement

What of the living?

Can't she get married again? Only the dead has no option

thorpido:
What of the living?

CyberEBOLA:
THE WIFE IS BADLUCK.
Maybe she has Marine husband, who is is jealous. That is why his death is water related after the marriage.

Truly, Africans have a long way to go! Imagine this type of thought and the number of people that liked and shared it! Na wao!

LivingSage:
Can't she get married again? Only the dead has no option

Well,I've edited my first comment.
We need to let the bereaved mourn.

LordAzubuike:

E shock me too o.. .. just shows how poorly trained these guys are. Never expected a naval personnel to drown easily like that. Their training also involves holding their breaths for longer periods till they reach surface.

Really? Do you know shock comes cause of the impact? Don't sound intelligent while you're not...

Rest in peace gallant officer. The kind of unreasonable comments on this thread baffles me.

AlphaStyles:
do u know that marrying a personnel in the military is a prestige?

But in this administration odikwa risky....

He married somebody who already had a husband in the spirit world

DonBenny77:

But in this administration odikwa risky....

if u marry those in the Army be that

LordAzubuike:

E shock me too o.. .. just shows how poorly trained these guys are. Never expected a naval personnel to drown easily like that. Their training also involves holding their breaths for longer periods till they reach surface.

even trained naval officers die inside what

waiting pain me be say the guy never bleep the bae.

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These isn't the will of God if you ask me!!!

But of the devil who is always running from pillar to post looking for whom to devour but Christ will always be there to knock their plans out for his perfect will to be manifested.

Rather very unfortunate i must say!!!

What will become of these married beautiful damsel?

AlphaStyles:
may his soul rest in peace and OP he is not a soldier he is a Sailor or if u can't use that term use Naval Soldier

Army-Soldiers
Airforce-Airmen
Navy-Sailors

Grammar for Nigeria even police officers are soldiers.

tetula123:
My friend was just telling me about him last night.
Imagine a 22years old girl already a widow.

She will remarry before October next year, you never know women.

Awoleesu:
RIP Officer




But what manner of a soldier keeps the beard in the NA?



I strongly believe He's a Naval Officer...

Him papa get money,, if na recruit try am say you de keep beard

ObiOkpor:

The dumbest post I ever seen.. Na war kill am now? Try get sense small

They no remember say na Navy
Which war Navy de Fight for Nigeria, they just de chop money

SultanOfPuna:

Mumu, e fit be say as him dey drive
him see ghost of person him kill for war.
Go marry soldier idiat!

Which war Navy de Fight?

AlphaStyles:
do u know that marrying a personnel in the military is a prestige?

Only those that went to NDA not recruit

stevmatt:


Only those that went to NDA not recruit

no the military holds a high prestige for both it's officers and non-commisioned officers

The military in all doesn't only consist of Only officers but the non-commisioned who are the back bones

Whether u marry either from NDA or recruit they are both prestige and at the end of the day they all do one thing WHICH IS PROTECT NIGERIA AGAINST FOREIGN THREATS

AlphaStyles:
no the military holds a high prestige for both it's officers and non-commisioned officers

The military in all doesn't only consist of Only officers but the non-commisioned who are the back bones

Whether u marry either from NDA or recruit they are both prestige and at the end of the day they all do one thing WHICH IS PROTECT NIGERIA AGAINST FOREIGN THREATS

So no prestige for marrying police officer, dss, custom, etc?